I met a man who was 12 years older than me, he was divorced and had a child, but I loved it

I think it's better to tell the woman directly, and the result may be 3. 1. She minds your past and breaks up with you, if that's the case, you should be happy and prove that this girl is not a person who can be with you for the rest of your life, even if you hide it from her, when she knows, your end may be even worse. 2. She doesn't mind your past and is willing to continue to be with you, so this is a happy one

Ending, you have a beautiful back. Maybe she'll think you're honest and reliable. 3. She minds your past, but she is reluctant to leave you.

This is the most difficult thing to do, and then it will only depend on your sincerity and determination to impress her. Either way, at least you'll let you live peacefully without worrying about her. I hope you have a lover and eventually become married.

I'm not much worse off than yours right now, he's ten years older than me, has an eight-year-old kid, and I'm in college right now. I also have a good relationship with him, and he is also very good to me. Basically, there has been no quarrel or conflict, my parents are more feudal, and now the family doesn't know that I'm in love with him, and I don't know what kind of attitude my family will have after knowing this situation, but I just recognize him, as long as two people really love each other, nothing can stop them.

And I will do my best to convince my parents.

If you divide it, will you give it up?

If you can divide it, it's early.

You can go and ask the man.

Listen to his thoughts and see if it will.

Take this responsibility and plan how to place you.

If he didn't have a plan.

It's still divided, such a man.

It's just going to drain your youth.

I hope you let go soon, he is now greedy for your youth, and you are also greedy for the security he brings to you, understanding your various needs. Have you thought about your future children, and how you treat his children, you have to think about it clearly. And parents.

If your parents don't agree, they're always afraid that you're not doing well.

Summary. Dear, hello, according to the analysis and answer of the question you asked, according to the Zhou Yi Jing to speculate and analyze, a man who is 12 years older than me likes me but has been married, dear, this needs to depend on your own heart

Men 12 years older than me liked me but were married.

Dear, hello, according to the analysis and answer of the question you asked, according to the Zhou Yi Jing to speculate and analyze, a man who is 12 years older than me likes me but has been married, dear, this needs to depend on your own heart

Thank you very much for your questions and consultations, I hope mine is helpful to you

He is a graduate student from a 985 double first-class university, he and his wife have not divorced yet, they have no relationship, but currently have a five-year-old child, because of the child, the parents have been separated for more than four years and have not divorced, and then he met me in the company, I am 12 years younger than him, I am 24 today, she is 36, he takes good care of me, especially at work, I do have a good impression of him, because I have overcome age, I told my parents before that a person who is 12 years older likes me, and they agree, But they didn't know he was married.

This man wants me to think about it, and I can start with my friends first, but he needs time and planning when it comes to child separation, including divorce, and I don't know if he is worth my life.

Dear, you need to think about it, it's a lifetime thing.

Summary. Hello! Follow the choice of your heart, love is different from others, you can't disguise or accommodate, if you don't like it, you don't like it. The boy who didn't like it first suggested that he refuse directly, for the teenager who is impossible in the future, if he can put it down, let it go, and if he can't, let it be.

A boy I love very much, but we didn't work out, and I'm ten years older than him. There is also a man who is the same age as me, and he treats me well, and transfers money to me from time to time, but I don't love him at all, I hate him very much, how should I choose, I know that the boy I love will be separated sooner or later, but I don't want to be separated for the time being.

Hello! Follow the choice of your heart, love is different from others, you can't disguise or accommodate, if you don't like it, you don't like it. The boy who didn't like it first suggested that he refuse directly, for the teenager who is impossible in the future, if he can put it down, let it go, and if he can't, let it be.

I have been separated from the boy I don't like, he is out of town, we meet during the Chinese New Year, and come back to see him once in the middle, and this is going back to come home tomorrow, not only am I not happy, but I am also upset, and I don't want to see him at all.

I'm afraid that if I break up, he will make me pay back, because I don't have the money to pay him back, how can I break up with him.

If so, you can let the other party take the initiative to break up, such as no longer being gentle and no longer enthusiastic.

I don't think he will take the initiative to break up, because he and his family have been urging us to get married.

Now I have to go to my house for the Mid-Autumn Festival, and I don't agree.

If he feels that you don't love him anymore and don't want to go on with him, I think he will propose to break up, but it will take a process, a process to disappoint him. It's just that this method is not very reasonable, and the easiest way is to put it forward directly and don't want to continue.

Do I bring it up?

Yes, you don't have to say separation directly, it's just that he feels very uncomfortable now, and he will understand.