What should I do if I don t want to live after a series of blows?

Updated on society 2024-08-05
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    When you die, I'm sorry for the nurturing grace of your parents, and I'm sorry for the virtue of caring and loving your friends. I'm sorry for what I've suffered all these years.

    Let go of sadness, let go of troubles, let go of attachments. The joy of oneself. Not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    To control your own heart, not to let him, is to control your own behavior, which is equivalent to mastering life.

    Learn to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, learn to smile and face everything in life, take it easy, don't think too much, breathe in the fresh morning air, feel the smell of nature, o(o....More importantly, don't care about the word "happy", real happiness is actually around you, feel it with your heart, come on.

    Seeing through and seeing through the truth of life, this world is inherently painful, without exception. When you're happy, you have to think that this happiness isn't eternal, and neither is the pain, so you can let it go. There are 8 sufferings in life, and they come to the world from head to foot.

    Old age is bitter, youth is easy to lose, and the body gradually ages involuntarily. Sickness, whether physical pain or spiritual troubles, inevitably accompanies a person's life. Death is bitter, and I have to accept the day that it has been brought about.

    Can't ask for it, love parting, resentment will be bitter, the five yin weaving is bitter, (the body and mind desire is like a blazing fire, so bitter), too persistent to pay attention to oneself is the root of all suffering. I know that only by letting go of attachment can I feel comfortable and happy. can calmly let go of no worries.

    Therefore, when liberation comes out, we can be at ease with what happens to ourselves, teach sentient beings according to our circumstances, and always have a pure and peaceful heart. In the pure mind of the Buddha without arguing with others. Compassion is happiness, sorrow is to pull out suffering, joy is happiness, and freedom is to be at ease, cultivating these four kinds can not only be good for others, but also better for yourself.

    There is no one to replace the sick when the gas comes out. Do you do bad things to blame, people who don't have anything to do with you have nothing to do with him, is it worth it for you to be angry for something that has nothing to do with it, and hurt yourself.

    I'm tired, I'm tired, I've tasted all the hardships in the world, ups and downs, ups and downs, I've survived, why are you still so not strong, in fact, strength has always been cherished in the bottom of my heart, but you haven't dug it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, be optimistic, adjust your mindset, relax yourself, laugh, laugh, and breathe in nature. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky, life is in your own hands.

    You have to believe in yourself, and then become more mature, people must learn to give up, don't let pain control you! People don't live for troubles, people have pursued happiness and happiness for so long, don't let yourself be destroyed, be strong, don't be too fragile, persistent, and never forget will only pull you to the abyss of pain. To give, to give, to be happy for yourself, but also for a better life, you can not change the world, but you can change yourself, you can not surpass the soul, you can surpass yourself, people are always in continuous efforts to make progress, improve themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    1 Divert emotions.

    The road of life is bumpy, bumpy, and it is inevitable that there will be setbacks and mistakes, as well as troubles and depression. At this point, it is time to quickly turn your attention elsewhere. For example, sometimes when something unpleasant happens or there is a quarrel with relatives at home, you may wish to leave the scene for a while and change the environment, so that the original bad mood will soon be diluted and even driven away, and the calm and stability of the mood will be restored.

    2. Envision the future.

    It is human nature to pursue a better future, and it is also the driving force for human survival and social progress. Only by always looking forward to a better future can we always maintain an enterprising spirit. No matter where fate throws itself, it should be handled calmly.

    No matter how cruel the reality is, we should always believe that difficulties are about to be overcome, that the dawn is ahead, and that the future will be better.

    3 Confide in someone.

    If you are not in an unhappy mood but don't say anything, you will get sick, and if you are depressed, you should learn how to confide in others. First of all, you can confide in your friends, which requires you to learn to make friends first. Those who can give the suffering in their hearts to their confidants and can be comforted and even plotted, their hearts will naturally be as clear as if a door has been opened.

    In addition, we can confide in our loved ones, learn to confide in them the grievances and unhappiness in our hearts, and often make our mood immediately turn from yin to sunny.

    4 Broaden your interests.

    Interest is an important condition for the protection of a good state of mind. The wider a person's interests, the more adaptable they are, and the less psychological pressure they have.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you can't listen to the most basic blows of love, what can you do big, when you don't want to live, you go to the hospital to see those people who are terminally ill and can't buy their lives back with money, they can't buy their lives back, they want to live and use all means, I can't live, you don't think you should cherish, the life you should have now, what is more important in a person's life than living, only by living can you overcome everything, whether it is failure, or success, failure, you can live to defeat him and succeed, You can live to enjoy him, this is just the process of life, if you don't have time to enjoy the process of life, you have to solve it for him, if you don't want to live, won't you waste the life given to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Think more about the people who are good to you, does your family raise you so big and make you so vulnerable?

    After the pressure, it is your own growth, you will be considered a new student, comb your hair and go out, and the sun will still rise.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The mindset is more negative, and you need some positive energy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's going to pass, and I've had some terrible experiences in the past two days.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hope it helps, thank you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm 20 years old now, and I've been thinking about death for 8 years, and I'm not dead because I'm timid and afraid of pain, and every day is desperate and painful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you're just missing friends. You're so kind. You could have been dashing on the outside.

    But your sense of responsibility makes you study hard. Maybe you're not following your heart. Since you miss the country very much.

    Come back then. That's the root of the problem. You have a good discussion with your parents.

    Even if it's because they want a divorce. You are inconvenient for them in the country. You tell them plainly, it's okay for you to get a divorce.

    Or whatever. I'm going back, I'm going to die outside.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can make friends with others in Canada, and there are a lot of Chinese Canadians, right? Your classmates or something.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The main thing is to live there alone! Go to crowded places and be bold enough to communicate and make friends. You're still young.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I really don't want to live anymore. Don't do that. Because you're too young.

    Don't worry about your parents' affairs either. Parents have their own hands to solve their own affairs. Don't worry about you.

    A person studying abroad. Ya has no acquaintances. Is it a language barrier?

    No one communicates and plays. So it feels stuffy. Something happy to do.

    I think you're normal. There is also no need to see a psychiatrist. Your thinking skills are good.

    You have to think about everything. Why should you worry about the older generation? Do your own thing.

    Don't think about anything else. You just think about studying hard. What's the matter?

    Don't worry. It's about relaxing. Happy every day.

    Don't put too much pressure on yourself either. You'll be fine. A little suggestion.

    You think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What can't you think about like this, if you have something to say, you can find a way to solve the problem, don't waste the life your parents give you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can see what Western psychiatrists have to say over there. Depression generally comes from not being open-minded enough. Actually, you should let go of a lot of things.

    For example, if you want to have fun, then play to your heart's content, and if you want to make friends, you can make friends. Don't think about it so much. It doesn't matter what kind of academic pressure he has.

    All boasted to the back of their heads to go like a bad boy. Wish I knew it wasn't good to say that. At that time, for the sake of your health, you must do it now.

    After all, it doesn't have to be said. The most important thing is how good the school you want to go to and how much you want to live the life you want.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not everything in life is smooth sailing, as long as you have the courage to face it, not all of them are so difficult to solve, you just don't want to live, and you have to use your brain to think about how to end your life, since you can think of a way to die, why can't you think about how to live a good life?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Life needs to be cherished, as the saying goes, it is better to die than to live! The green mountains left are not afraid of no firewood! There is nothing that can't be overcome, hold on, you can continue, it's too easy to die, live well! Someday it will pass, cherish the present.

    How can I tell you, don't think too much if it's really uncomfortable, people, it's rare to be confused, there are still a lot of beautiful things in the world, no one does it, you have to live for yourself, it's not easy to live, and it's blasphemy to end easily! Be kind to yourself, there's nothing you can't get by!

    I want to open a little,. Really, I don't know what happened to you, but who doesn't cry and continue, there is hope in life! It's true.

    Hug you, I couldn't hold on, but why should I die? When I thought of this, I made up my mind to live well, there are still so many interesting things in the world that I have never seen or heard, and if you live longer, you will be able to watch one more day, so I advise you to persevere. It's really strong, compared to life and death, everything is a trivial matter, everything is a trivial matter.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's going to rain, and my mother is going to get married, and the parents' feelings are up to them! It's not you, don't adjust the reading gear too high, try to read, read to what degree is counted, even if you don't succeed, you try your best, 360 lines are out of the top of the line, your troubles are also karma in front of the present, want to get rid of the troubles, go to the temple to find the answer.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I am a teacher of career editors, and I have worked for two years to complete three years of compulsory education. But what should I do if I quit and can't find my next home?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Who hasn't been young and ignorant. Some people are ignorant all their lives, and they will not regret what they have done, and it can also be said that they remain young and naïve. If you regret what you have done, it means that you are growing and gradually forming your values, things are always moving forward, as long as you are willing to do it, the future is very bright!

    There is no need to commit suicide.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no way to undo what you regret, but you can learn from your mistakes, there is no one who does not make mistakes in life, but it is good to change it in the future, you must not be unable to extricate yourself because of these past things, people should look forward, forget the unhappiness of the past, and start a new life of their own.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and kindness is great. Knowing that you are wrong, you should think of remedy, instead of looking for death and life, even if you don't pay the debt in this life, you will have to pay it in the next life, karma. So since you know that you are wrong, find a way to make it up, if you can't make it up, do more good deeds, don't always verbally say that you regret it, this is all the practice of cowardly people, cheer up, come on!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have to learn to self-regulate, don't drill the horns, who will not make mistakes in their life, the main thing is to know that mistakes can be changed, and you must learn to look forward, otherwise you will be very tired.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is no regret medicine in life, if there is such a medicine, people will do more regretful things, only reflect on themselves, what can and what can not be done, don't be impulsive in everything, and regret can be no or less.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What can you do if you regret it, the past can't be changed after all, live to make up for it, death can't solve any problems, it will only make the people who care about you suffer, people will have regrets, think about their parents and family, even if it is for them, you have to persevere, there is no hurdle that you can't pass.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Life experience must have ups and downs, you are experiencing bitterness, after the bitterness is sweet, other difficult things are nothing.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In a person's life, it is inevitable that they will make mistakes of one kind and another, and if you think about how to correct them, you will not make such mistakes again in the future. Don't say you don't want to live, you have to live bravely if you can make a mistake. You can change the city to start anew, in real life, there are more people than you make mistakes, but if you have ambition, you will continue to study hard and persevere, and finally succeed.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Make a list.

    Foods that I haven't eaten, foods that I still want to eat.

    Places I haven't been, places I want to go to if I've been.

    Things you haven't done, things you want to do that you've done.

    Finally, find a girl and chase her.

    Then find a way that doesn't hurt. game over

    That's right. When the list is complete, please contact me.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is normal for people to have a few things in their lives that they regret, and it is not worth it to live for this reason.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Regret is in the past, and the most important thing is the present and the future, isn't it? Water under the bridge.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be so pessimistic, everyone has to go through a lot of things when they grow up, there are good things and bad things, just change your mistakes.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There will always be this or that stain in a person's life, everyone has it, just like there will always be a few dark clouds in the sky from time to time, this is our need to adjust, after the dark clouds appear, it will rain, and everything will be nourished and grow after the rain, the stain of our life, like this dark cloud, is also like a raindrop, its appearance is an inevitability, but it is also an inevitability to become the past, without it we have no room for growth, there is no regret medicine in life, and it will not turn into action to remedy the remedy, What can't be remedied is to let it become the past,,The current state of the pro is actually just a small emotional cold,A dark cloud passing in the bright sky has passed,People must move forward,Time does not allow us to turn back,Life is also a road without turning back,Spare hatred is useless,Turn into power,Turn into change,Compensation that should be compensated,Get out of what should be out,Everything will be fine,Come on!

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