How to prevent negative energy from being brought in in the dormitory?

Buy a good Bluetooth headset, watch a movie by yourself, or go to the library to study, don't be afraid that you can't fit into the dormitory, and there will naturally be people who get along with you every day.

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The people in the university dormitory are people who have been living together for four years, and I think it would be better to have a more positive atmosphere in the dormitory. If you think about a dormitory, if it is full of laughter, it is always much better than the gloomy atmosphere, and there are always people around you who say that a person's emotions are actually very affected by the atmosphere around them.

Sometimes if there is no one in the dormitory to speak, I can't speak. Therefore, most of the formation of Xueba's dormitory is because of a good learning atmosphere, and the atmosphere is really a very important thing. If a roommate has been spreading negative energy in the dormitory, it is really a very annoying thing, I think I am a person who is very emotionally disturbed, if someone spreads, I feel that I will also become depressed, I don't know if I will become a person with negative energy after a long time.

I'm such a person around me, always talking about some bad results every day, really annoying such people, every time I lower the emotions of the people around me, every time I talk about our own dreams, she always sneers on the side, as if she understands it very well, it's really annoying, anyway, I won't be any friends now, but it's really annoying to face every day. To be honest, my emotions are really affected, I don't recommend being friends with such people, and the full of negative energy really can't make the friends around me feel the charm of friendship.

If there is such a person in your bedroom, I think you should choose to stay away from her, such a person really affects your emotions, and if you live in such emotions every day, I think you must not want to spend this kind of life. College is to get along for four years, there are always contradictions, you can think about how to keep a good distance from her, and the dormitory relationship will not be too stiff, but I will not recommend you to choose to be friends with this kind of person, this kind of life is too boring.

A college roommate is your buddy for four years of college, and they'll live with you for three to four years, so if there's any gap, it's going to cast a shadow over your college dorm life. No matter what situation you encounter in the dormitory, I personally advocate spreading out with your roommates, after all, the time of living together with each other is not short, and you will have some understanding of each other's temperament, and it is always better to be honest than to complain quietly in your heart, you must know that this kind of complaint may cause the relationship between you and your roommate to break, so it is best to explain this problem clearly in the early stage, and maybe the situation can be improved.

If your roommate has been spreading negative energy in the dormitory, you can have a frank and open chat with your roommate to find out if he has been experiencing any troubles recently, and help him enlighten him, and the situation may improve. Generally speaking, people will always pass on negative news and emotions around them, in order to vent their negative emotions, and in the case of a response, this emotion will be relatively reduced. When we encounter such a situation, we must not choose to ignore and be indifferent, this attitude may lead to the other person spreading negative energy even more.

In college, we will meet all kinds of people, the university is like a small society, we will also come into contact with all kinds of different people and things every day, but there are some people who may be pessimists by nature, and they are also full of negative energy when talking to people. Sometimes, because of their negative energy, others may make their good mood disappear.

The roommates who look up and don't look down every day in college, the people who chat the most every day, if they spread negative energy in the dormitory all day long, we should instill some positive things in her, because people with negative energy are too pessimistic by nature, saying that they are not good-looking, not in good shape, average in study, and will be eliminated in society in the future. And sometimes they are not only full of negative energy for themselves, she will also talk about others, if others go to study, she will also say a bunch of disheartening words, which makes the original fighting spirit to study, and as a result, others doubt life.

We should instill some positive energy in her for her negative energy, such as her behavior is not good-looking, her figure is not good, and everything is a mess, then we can say that the body can be exercised hard, as long as you are proactive and persistent. If you don't do things well, take your time, no one can succeed all at once, everything is practice makes perfect, and if you do more, you will naturally do it well. Try to encourage roommates who spread negative energy and watch more positive news.

But if you encounter something positive even if you say a lot of positive things, she is still pessimistic and still spreads negative energy, then, we can't be infected by her words, we should always maintain a positive attitude, if she keeps talking about negative energy, we can change the topic and try to avoid communicating with her about negative energy.

What kind of negative energy is he? If you can achieve the ability to eliminate this responsibility through your propaganda, then you can promote it when you come down. For example, there was a time when one of my classmates came to our dormitory every time to publicize, ah, why is it so difficult to find employment, and then how can I not find a job, I was studying geophysics at that time.

But he desperately advertised why this geophysics was so bad, why there was no future, and then how many companies wanted graduate students, and then never recruited undergraduates. Excellent people go to Xinjiang or Daqing's oil fields, even excellent people are like this, so what should we do if we are not excellent? Spread some of these negative energies throughout the day.

By the end of the day, we all got used to it, and then we didn't want to listen to his negative energy.

I always meet people who are full of negative energy, and after getting along with them for a long time, I feel that I can't do anything. When you meet such people, if you can't use your full enthusiasm to bring them as full of vitality as yourself, try to stay away!

Among today's young people, there are actually many people who always spread negative energy to you. It seems that the anti-chicken soup is reversed and then it looks malnourished. In their eyes, learning is because of insufficient IQ, and talking about ideals and ambitions is pretending.

Only games and love are the right way, and if you don't play games, you won't even have anything to talk about.

In the past, in the face of these people who were full of negative energy, I would pretend to listen to them and nod my head while thinking about my own business. I really don't have the courage to get angry or impatient with them. After a long time, when they complain, they usually don't care if you listen carefully, as long as there is someone around, they can keep talking.

Slowly, I felt that this was not going to work, and the more I showed that I was listening to him, the more he pushed him on. So, when he told me again in the future, I said that I had something to do, let's go, and then I quickly slipped away!

In short, if you don't like to listen to these negative energy words, try to stay away from them, and no one is obliged to listen to others complaining about the school, about the society, about the motherland, and about the injustice of the sky, right!

What's that, it's more annoying to deliberately disgust you with a set of smiles in front of your face, just stay away from pessimists, and stick to it to make it the most annoying.

I'm a person who spreads negative energy. Because I really hope that the future of China can be better! Or hopefully one day you will be able to do it.

You think China is very beautiful, you sigh that there is too much negative energy in society, and I laugh at you for being drunk and dreaming of death. The Jiang Ge incident, the three-color kindergarten, the Putian time, the loss of contact with college students, etc., just didn't happen to us, but if one day these things happen to yourself or the people you care about, or one day when the world abandons you, don't cry about the injustice of the world, think about what you have done.

Don't speak, kiss him, so that he will not even dare to speak when he sees you...

What you do is probably what most people do, there are no friends at work, everything is a competitor, and everyone is holding their energy.

Report major events to the leader.

Small things are unnecessary, they will make the leader feel that you are too stingy, affect your image in the leader's mind, he may listen to you, but he will never dare to reuse you.

You're a villain, why are you still asking, is there a friend like you?

Think about it from another perspective, is your current behavior the most hated person's behavior?

Secretly making a small report will only keep everyone away from you, including the leader, after all, no one can stand the people around them smiling in front of them and stabbing them in the back.

I think there are several reasons why a person is in a state of negative energy for a long time.

1.The predicament it faces is more than it can handle personally.

2.This person is not good at asking for help and is used to solving problems on his own. However, they are faced with the current situation of limited their own capabilities.

3.The person is emotionally unstable and does not have a strong ability to self-regulate. This kind of person is mostly lonely, because he has no friends to help him regulate his emotions, and he can only bear it alone.

4.The person has fallen into a state of self-denial, denying his abilities, magnifying difficulties, magnifying fears.

Combined with the above reasons, I think if there is a person around you who has been in negative energy for a long time.

Whether to help or not really depends on the individual's wishes, and it cannot be said that you must force yourself to help others, because most people are easily infected by this emotion, and they are very troubled by themselves, resulting in their own not easy to get out.

If the other party is a very important person to you, and your self-regulation and communication skills are very good, you can take the initiative to help the other party.

I believe that the premise of helping others is that you have the ability to help others solve difficulties, and if you don't have it, then protecting yourself is the greatest help to yourself.

Encourage them to get out of the strange circle, this thing is done, it will benefit them for life, it is a kind of exercise for you, some things, find a way to solve it, it will be better.

I think you have to deliberately avoid them, because people are inert and can easily be influenced by negativity.

Move to the dormitory, I'm sure to tell you! I was in the same situation as you in college. I'm more aggressive, and I even went on the yellow list in order to change dormitories.

In fact, it depends on the individual, if you can't stand it or they bring it bad, you can change the bedroom, if they don't bring it bad, you get along well with you, that's okay, after all, everyone has a problem should be volume, maybe you change the bedroom is worse than this environment, what to do, you can adapt to get along. This will strengthen your heart even more! Hope to adopt.

Decisively change the apartment and stay away from the rotten girl.

In that case, it's better to move to a dormitory.

Will move. Because if it goes on like this for a long time, it will hurt me! Let me go to bad habits. School is a place of learning. There shouldn't be any of these!

If you can, you can move it, but you have to consider whether it is the case if you can move one.

Move, if you want to be gregarious, you'll have to be like them! After all, it's your university's home.

Since I hate it, I don't want to go into the stream.

Life doesn't need to be too face-loving, just do what you want, this is normal, everyone can understand, if you don't understand, there is no need to explain. Life is all about doing your own thing, and that's it.

If you can change it, you can change it, you can't change it, you have to change it if you can't create conditions, and if you are not comfortable, don't accommodate yourself, let alone go with the flow.

There are a lot worse than this, so let's get used to it! In the future, when they encounter something worse than this, will they all run away?

Apply for a room change as soon as possible.

You can change it, but if you can persevere in this environment, you will feel much better in society.

Adapt, because to the society is more powerful than that.

If you can change it, you can change it, and if you can't change it, you will be compromised

I would acclimatize and tell them that it was not good.