Why did Yu Minhong say that when you go to college, the farther away from home, the better?

Because the farther away from home you are in college, the more you can exercise your independence. When I was in college, I was far away from home, so I gradually became less homesick, and I would solve problems by myself, which really trained my ability.

This is because a place far away from home can better exercise a person, and only by getting rid of his parents can he really grow up and become more independent.

Because the farther away from home, the more self-reliant we are, the less dependent we are on our families, and the earlier we can integrate into society.

Because only the farther away from home can we exercise us more, so that when we encounter things, we will not blindly think about our family members helping us, but think about solving them ourselves.

Because he thinks it is better for a person to be independent, away from his hometown and his parents, and let himself work hard in the big city.

<> how to say it, as oneThe test was extremely far away from homeThe old senior sister plays, I can only tell you,It's a mixed blessing. When you're happy, you're really happy, and when you're sad, you're really sad.

Like me, I have seen the life of the previous ten yearsCompletely different customsI'm getting used to one tooThe customs of a new place。Spend four years in a strange place, and have a place that is not bound by booksA whole new understanding, which in itself is quite interesting.

<> tell me about myselfI met a lot of local friends in this new city, I learned that people from the same province can also beThere is such a big differenceI learned from their way of being good that I don't have, and that's something that makes people proud and grows.

I also went to the original meIt is simply impossible to go back to a place to travelBefore I went to Guangxi, I would not have thought that I would go back to Nanning and Dali to play, which would enrich my knowledge and increase my experience.

Sadness is always inevitable, being far away from home is really homesick, and I really don't dare to tell my parents. I remember when I was a freshman, I was a big homesickerI often cry secretly by myself, and I wake up crying in my dreams。I didn't dare to tell my parents that I was homesickThe message was typed and deleted in the dialog box, deleted and typed, but I didn't dare to send it out, I'm afraid that they will be worried, and they will also feel that they are unproductive.

<> for meIt seems that there is only winter and summer in my hometown, and there is no spring and summer。Every year, only during the summer vacation and the Chinese New Year, I have to go home with a big suitcase. I usually don't want to go back, take the time not to say, it's too far away, and the ticket is expensive.

As I got older, I wanted to stay with my family, so if I could be given another chance, I probably wouldn't have chosen to go to college in the south, which is so far away from home.

I'm a family lover, and being close to home at university has really benefited me. Every week, I can go home and drink my mother's soup, sleep on a mattress, and enjoy my father's car without breaking the bus to school. But where there is any dizziness.

body, you can also go home and take care of it. In this way, I will have a closer connection with my family, and I will save my parents too much worry, which is the so-called worry of a mother who travels thousands of miles. At the same time, the cost of travel has also been greatly saved.

Others basically have to go back to their homes for hundreds of dollars, and I can't go back and forth for 5 yuan. It is very close to my hometown where I have lived for more than ten years, and I am very adaptable and accustomed to both the living conditions and the climate and diet, so I don't have to worry about the sudden college life that will bring unaccustomedness. It is very convenient to go home every holiday, you don't need to take a long-distance bus, the ticket is also very easy, there will be no difficulty in grabbing tickets during the holiday, and you can often go home to get together with your parents, so that both parties can meet often and reduce the pain of missing each other.

Compared with those local students who come back from studying abroad and returning from vacation, they also have a time advantage and get a job first. I remember when I first went to college, I was quite a master, and I always introduced Jiangmen's customs, delicious and fun places to those new students from other places, and of course, I inevitably complained about it. Now that I think about it, I feel as if I was giving it to them.

Of course, I also did my best to be a landlord and take them on all kinds of sightseeing, eating, drinking and having fun. In short, I used my identity as a local to shorten the distance with my new classmates and expand my circle of contacts at the university, which is quite valuable to think about. Generally speaking, a large part of the students in the university are based on the principle of going to school nearby, so you have a high probability that you are actually fellow villagers, and generally you will not go too far after graduating from college to find employment, so these network resources are equivalent to accumulating, and your future road will become smooth.

For what kind of person you are, if you are enough, then it doesn't matter if you are far or near, on the contrary, it is recommended that you choose the distance, because this will allow you to obtain greater personal character development, after all, character determines success or failure, if you wait for the future to remember and then cultivate, it may be a little too late. College is a relatively relatively stressful period in life, not as intense as high school, not as busy as after work, there will be relatively ample time for you to arrange, whether you participate in club activities, participate in competitions, go to the library, do, travel, or go shopping, you will experience a lot of things. If there is a copy of the errand, I think it's good to go out once in a while, and there's no point in traveling differently, but the world is so big, it's always good to go and see it.

I disagree.

Away from home to go to college, transportation is not convenient.

Although the transportation is relatively developed now, bullet trains, high-speed rail, and airplanes are more common. However, if the school is very far away from home, no matter which means of transportation you choose, there will be fewer direct trains, and it will be difficult to book tickets. If you want to change trains, it will be more difficult, and the distance will be long, and people will be more tired.

Moreover, transportation such as bullet trains and airplanes will be relatively high. Therefore, it will be a little inconvenient to go to college away from home.

I went to college so far from home, a full eight hours by train, and only one train passed by. Every time there is a holiday and the beginning of school, I try all kinds of ways to grab tickets. Once, I grabbed the ticket, but when the train entered the station, the entrance was so crowded that I couldn't even squeeze in the train door with my suitcase.

Finally, I watched the train drive away in front of my eyes. There is no choice but to go to the bus station to buy a bus ticket, the cost is twice as high, not to mention, it is also difficult to find a ticket. There were 4 of us together, but there were only 3 tickets left.

It's not good to throw a classmate behind. In the end, you can only take a bus to another city and then transfer to school. So I don't agree with the idea of choosing a university away from home.

If you go to college away from home, you will not get used to the diet.

As the saying goes, "one side of the water and soil raises the other side." "The eating habits in other cities are different from those in my hometown, and it is very likely that the local diet will affect the learning and career, and even worse, there will be a situation of not adapting to the water and soil, which will affect the health of the body.

There is a classmate in our school who is from Guangxi, and they are used to eating rice and rice noodles in their hometown. But our school is in Yantai, where no one eats rice noodles and there are no noodle shops on the street. This classmate is also not used to eating steamed buns at school.

Not long after going to school, I couldn't stand it anymore and proposed to drop out. After three years of hard work, Li finally passed the college entrance examination and went to university, but in the end he gave up his studies because of dietary problems, which is a pity.

It is too much for parents for children to go to college away from home.

I think there is some truth to the saying "parents don't travel far away". My mother worries that no matter how old we are, we are all children in the eyes of our parents. No matter where we go, our parents will worry about us.

If we all go to college away from home, and our parents don't see their children a few times a year, it's too much pain for our parents. Moreover, many college students will choose to stay in the city where the school is located after graduation, and if the city is too far from their hometown, they will not be able to take care of their parents.

When I was in school, I was so far away from home that I could only go back once every six months. Every time I hit **, my parents asked me if I ate well and if I had enough money, for fear that I would be wronged. It's because they can't see me, they're not by my side, they're worried about me.

Once I fought **** with my mother and found that her background behind her was very similar to the hospital. It was only after my questioning that I found out that my father was sick and hospitalized. They didn't tell me because I was so far away and couldn't go back, and they didn't want me to worry.

So I really think it's better to go to college closer to home.

I agree with this point of view, as a person who has been studying far away from home for many years, let me talk about why Yu Minhong recommends that college students study far away from home.

1. Practical reasons.

Sometimes it's not that you don't want to study locally, but because you can only choose some schools in other provinces or some schools far away from your hometown because of your college entrance examination results, which is a more important practical reason.

2. The city where the university is located is a person's second home.

The place where we were born is our first hometown, our hometown, but the city where the university is located is our second hometown, because many people will stay in the city where they studied after graduating from university, which is why Yu Minhong recommends that everyone go to a big city or an economically developed place to study. In economically developed places, everyone's horizons are different, their horizons are broader, and they can also provide more jobs for fresh graduates after graduation. Many of us are ordinary people and need a good job to support our families.

Third, the need for independence.

At present, although some students have reached the age of going to university, they are not very independent because their parents are more caring. Going to college away from home and integrating into group life is very conducive to the exercise of everyone's independent ability. Because on the road of life, everyone is a person, and they must rely on themselves to complete the road of life.

But humans are social animals and must learn to fit into the community. If you study locally and go home on Saturdays and Sundays, your relationship with or without your roommates may be weaker, which is not conducive to the development of relationships after work.

Fourth, the need to increase life experience.

When we go to places that are different from our hometowns, you will find that the local food habits and customs are completely different from those that you have been exposed to since childhood. If you are receptive to this, you will find yourself more tolerant and broad-minded. And because you're independent, how you feel about your parents and the city where your university is located will be completely different.

Most of the universities you choose are located in the most prosperous areas, so you can take advantage of the weekends to visit the local museums, art galleries, etc. This is a great opportunity to increase your knowledge.

Some people may say that I am very attached to my parents, and I don't want to live in another city away from my hometown. This is no problem at all, as you have two options, go to university locally, go to university outside of the rented sedan chair, and then go home after graduation. Everyone says that the bylooker is clear, maybe when you really look at the world from this perspective, you may have a different choice.

If you go to school outside and find that you still love your hometown, then it is also a very good choice for you to return to your hometown with some of the skills you have learned.

At this time, it is just the time for college entrance examination candidates to choose the university they want to apply for, according to their own situation, according to their own reality, listen to the suggestions of others, consider comprehensively, and then make a choice.

If your hometown is originally a first-tier city in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, I don't think there is any need to stay away.

Choosing the city where the university is located means that the probability of working in the city after graduating from college is a little higher; It means that there are relatively more connections in the city; It means that most of your diet during your four years of college is what the locals are used to eating.

I am from the north, because I don't adapt to the southern climate and eating habits, plus there is a very suitable school in my hometown, I go to school locally, and I personally think there are advantages and disadvantages.

Pros:1Close to home, you can take leave to go home on weekends, which is very convenientI like the food in the cafeteria very much, and it is in line with my eating habits3There is a sense of belonging, and there are more locals in the school.

Cons: 1It's not good to expand your horizons. The sights and attractions of my hometown are all familiar and there is no novelty. However, if you go to university in a different area than where you live back home, you can get a taste of the customs of other places.

2.Difficulty cultivating the habit of independence. Because Li Duan is rented close to home, his parents will help solve problems if he has problems. If you are in other places, you will better cultivate your ability to deal with problems independently and expand your social circle.

I don't agree with going to college away from home, because I let myself be a family child, so I suggest that friends who want to go to college away from home can consider the following factors:

Character

For some children who are very homesick or have never gone out alone, if you choose to go to college outside the province, you really have to think carefully, I have a roommate who came from Xi'an to our Nanchang to go to college, before this, she has never lived overnight, has never left her parents, just a few days after school, every day she saw her red eyes to her parents **, said homesick, want to go back.

Pandemic

In recent years, the epidemic has touched me deeply, and it is very troublesome for students from outside the province to go home for approval during the holidays, and the epidemic prevention policies for cross-provincial and municipal circulation are always changing, and it is not safe, so that basically I can only return to my hometown during a long vacation, but if I choose to study in my province and city, I can go home and see even a short vacation.

Economy

If you want to go to college far away from home, the cost of transportation is also a big expense, my girlfriend is to apply for the university in Jilin, the plane ticket from Jilin to Nanchang is more than 2,000, her winter and summer vacations plus the National Day round-trip expenses are tens of thousands of yuan, for ordinary families, this expenditure is not small.

Teachers are stupid

If your score is in your province and city, you can have a good university, and you also have good teachers and teaching equipment, you don't have to be obsessed with going outside the province, after all, what suits you is the best, don't be swayed by others.

Regional differences

For example, northerners can't stand the dampness and cold in the south, and students in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai can't get used to the spicy food in Jiangxi.

All in all, whether you want to go to college away from home, you must consider yourself from many aspects.