After the implementation of the double reduction policy, the importance of family education has be

After the implementation of the "double reduction" policy, primary and secondary school students do not make up classes or make up less classes after school, and they have more time at home, and the importance of family education is highlighted. However, some parents are very strict with their children, and use constant fault-picking and belittlement as a way of motivation; Some parents spoil their children too much and blame others for all their problems.

After the implementation of the current policy, there are teachers on campus to strengthen the management of children's learning, training and life, but after school, students do not tutor or reduce tutoring, and this period of "empty" time is called for the supplement of family education. As a teacher who has been working in a classroom management position for a long time, I can't bear to see the "widowed parenting" method.

There are many factors that contribute to this type of parenting education method. Some are due to the fact that one parent cannot be with the child because of work or location; Some are due to family misfortune and only one parent accompanies the child's development; In the long run, family education lacks the effectiveness of the father or mother, which causes the balance of family education to be out of balance.

Childhood is brilliant and the most precious, it is often said that a happy childhood heals a lifetime, and a tragic childhood heals with a lifetime. The harm of "widowed parenting" to a child's development is irreversible. "If the son does not teach, the father is at fault", children who have been absent from their father's company for a long time will reflect the characteristics of lack of self-confidence, timidity or exceeding the standard of self-esteem.

Father's love", without the company of the father's tall and big shadow, it will lead to the lack of self-control of children, especially boys must be promoted by the father's example, and the father's responsibility, bravery, cheerfulness and other excellent qualities will deeply endanger them.

Mother's love is like water", and the personality defects of children who lack the company of their mothers for a long time are more serious. I once taught a student that his mother was working in a different place and rarely met her children. Due to the lack of mother's company when he was young, the child's self-control ability is very strong, but he is irritable, reckless, and very irrational, and often fights with his classmates because of a trivial matter.

Lacking the love of his mother for a long time, his heart is "hard", and the shortcomings of his temperament cause him to be anxious about interpersonal communication in the class.

In family education, the cultural education of parents is particularly important for the transformation of children, and the love of parents is like the two wings of a bird taking off and landing, all of which are necessary conditions for children to grow up healthily and happily. In the "double reduction" environment, it gives enough time and indoor space for family education, so that children can shine in the company of their parents. The company of parents is the best gift.

Attention should be paid to the protection of children, the way of educating children, the pressure of children's learning, and the timely understanding of children's minds and the state of children.

Family parenting should pay attention to the child's feelings, and must understand some of the child's conditions when education, so that the child's psychological growth is better.

Family parenting should be careful not to beat or scold children. Try to help your child with homework. Don't put too much pressure on your child.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, and they must support their children, cultivate their independence, and cultivate their children's good character, so that their children will grow better.

Family education will become particularly important, and after this policy, parents need to help their children do their homework more in order to improve their children's education.

First of all, parents must lead by example, teach by example, set a good example for their children, whenever children encounter something, they must let their children solve it by themselves, tell children not to always rely on their parents, and want to buy some books for children they like to read, and often give children some anime they like to watch, I think this can make family education in place.

Summary. The "double reduction" policy will further promote the return of school education and family education to their respective roles. Before the introduction of the "double reduction" policy, there was a trend of homogenization between families and schools. The school is like an examination room, and the home is still like an examination room.

After the implementation of the double reduction policy, how to coordinate school education and family education in home-school co-education.

The "double reduction" policy will further promote the return of school education and family education to their respective roles. Before the introduction of the "double reduction" policy, there was a trend of homogenization between families and schools. The school is like an examination room, and the home is still like an examination room.

So what can parents do to give time to their children? The first is to maintain close ties between home and school. Actively participate in parent-teacher meetings and parent schools, take the initiative to communicate with teachers, understand students' learning and physical and mental conditions, formulate targeted home-school linkage education programs, and build a harmonious home-school relationship.

The second is to update the concept of parenting. Understand the laws of children's physical and mental growth, improve their own educational quality and ability, rationally plan the future development direction of children, and do not blindly send children to participate in extracurricular training. The third is a harmonious family atmosphere.

Pay attention to the changes in children's thoughts and emotions, listen to children's voices, be children's friends, form a good communication and interaction mode, and help children solve problems. Fourth, it is necessary to guide students to make reasonable use of their time at home. Encourage your child to go to bed on time and get enough sleep.

Arrange housework appropriately, strengthen physical exercise, and carry out parent-child reading. Strengthen the supervision of children's online behavior, promptly discovering and stopping it. Fifth, you might as well shift the focus to cultivating children's habits.

The formation of habits is not achieved overnight, it is accumulated over time, and this process is inseparable from the promotion of external forces, and the process of going through from passive to active, from other discipline to self-discipline. The habit of reading can effectively promote the development of thinking; The habit of exercise can effectively promote the improvement of attention and concentration; The habit of work can help children establish correct values, a sense of responsibility, and improve their independence. The habit of participating in family life contributes to the development of a child's sense of citizenship; The habits of hobbies and hobbies help to shape and cultivate a sound personality, all-round development, self-confidence, and positive health. Good habits make a good future, and children are more likely to gain a sense of accomplishment and happiness, and their internal motivation will be stronger.

The real education does not lie in the off-campus training institutions, but the dual combination of school education + family education.

Under the influence of the "double reduction" policy, how should parents help their children learn better? Let's take a look at this problem, hoping to help friends in need.

1.Help your child broaden their horizons.

The more things children have seen since childhood, the broader their horizons will be, and the more truths they will understand, they will be able to look for opportunities in challenges, and they will keenly smell the breath of success. Parents can choose to let their children participate in team activities and outdoor activities, so that children can experience the fun of the team and the grace of nature, and parents can also accompany their children to read some classic books or learn some geographical knowledge, which can effectively help children broaden their horizons, encourage children to diversify their ways of thinking, and accumulate experience.

2.Develop your child's creative thinking skills.

Create a harmonious and relaxed learning environment for children, stimulate children's positive initiative, and cultivate the development of children's creative thinking. When children grow up, it is necessary to know how to protect children's innate curiosity instincts, and to develop children's ability to accumulate knowledge and apply knowledge comprehensively in order to encourage children's independent thinking and innovation ability, because rich knowledge is the source of creative ability.

The cultivation of children's creative thinking ability requires the companionship and encouragement of parents to children. When cultivating children's ability to innovate, parents can try to ask their children open-ended questions, which can make their children's minds more flexible and think positively. In the process of an attempt, the child will come up with the most effective way, accumulate experience in repeated failures, and summarize the merits of failure, conduct a comprehensive analysis, so that the child has new ideas, so as to get a solution to the problem.

3.Change the way you educate.

Many parents are confused by professional training institutions, and the requirements and standards for their children are so high that it goes against the nature of their children. Parents should respect their children's independence and self-esteem. It is necessary to fully mobilize and stimulate children's enthusiasm and initiative in learning and development; Secondly, teaching children according to their aptitude is the key, for children of different ages, we should adopt different education methods, do not blindly follow, or even pull out the seedlings to grow, go against the interests of children, and force children to develop according to their own wishes, which is not a good way of education.

As a parent, you should reduce some pressure on your child, and you should often cultivate your child's self-confidence, and you should also establish a correct three views for your child. You should also take your children out often to play and do some parent-child activities.

Under the influence of the double reduction policy, parents need to help their children take the initiative to learn, need to guide their children to learn, and create a more favorable learning conditions for their children, which may be better.

As a parent, you should check your child's homework, and you also need to let your child develop a good habit of pre-studying, so that the grades will help.

Parents should arrange for their children to review what they have learned that day and check their learning efficiency in class to help their children's grades improve.

Parents must create a good learning environment for their children, develop learning methods for their children, and be sure to set aside a period of time for their children to play.

For parents with average family economic conditions, the implementation of the double reduction policy is undoubtedly a heavy blow. Because the child could only attend a large class in the past, he could barely accept it, and he couldn't afford the small class.

The "double reduction" policy has constrained these non-class classes, which has hit these parents very hard, because the make-up classes are not allowed to go to school during the holidays, and they can't afford to hire one-on-one tutors, so they feel helpless and sad, and their children will be opened up by others.

Double Reduction Introduction:

In order to thoroughly implement the spirit of the 19th National Congress of the Communist Party of China and the Fifth Plenary Session of the 19th Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, effectively improve the level of school education, continue to standardize off-campus training (including online training and offline training), and effectively reduce the excessive homework burden and off-campus training burden of students in the compulsory education stage.

On July 24, 2021, the General Office of the Communist Party of China and the General Office of the Communist Party of China issued the "Opinions on Further Reducing the Burden of Homework and Extracurricular Training for Students in the Compulsory Education Stage". All localities and departments are required to conscientiously implement them in light of actual conditions. In August of the same year, the Office of the Education Steering Committee issued a special notice to report the progress of the implementation of the "double reduction" work in each province every six months.

The impact should not be very large, because the knowledge that children learn in school should be enough for them to cope with the exam, so as long as they study seriously in school, then the impact of this policy is minimal.

Reduce your child's learning load. More time for outdoor sports is conducive to physical health, cultivating children's other interests and hobbies, and more time is conducive to children's moral, intellectual, physical and all-round development.

The education double inspection policy still has a great impact on children from ordinary families. Many children do not receive good supervision and education because of their busy parents, so they can complete their homework at school.

What is the impact of the education double reduction policy on children from ordinary families, this is still a better policy for children from ordinary families, because they may not have too much money to enroll in tutoring classes or the like.

For ordinary children, we need to work harder, especially in terms of knowledge understanding.

The policy of double reduction in education has a very great impact on children from ordinary families, and this can affect the child's life.

As parents, they should properly understand the original intention of the double reduction opinion and understand the issue from the perspective of the child's physical and mental development. Parents should know that for their children, physical and mental health comes first, and academic performance is relative to physical and mental health, so it is not worth mentioning.

Schoolwork and extracurricular training have become two seats that inhibit the healthy growth and all-round development of children. Let the children have no normal childhood and adolescence. If the "double reduction" goal can be achieved across the country, parents should be able to relax and pull their children out of the competition for scores so they can travel, play, and be free to do nothing.

But what if extracurricular training became? In other forms, parents will face greater pressure and competition. The investment of energy and financial resources will be greater, and the anxiety will be higher.

Therefore, it is more important to continue to explore and change the talent evaluation method to ensure that the national chess thinking, change thinking and behavior, and strengthen supervision of the "double reduction" policy to truly land.

In the past, when we were studying, we controlled the rest of the time except for completing homework, but now many children, especially those in the city, do not control the time by themselves, but by their parents. Think about how we sometimes feel comfortable when we go to work because time is not under our control, can a child be cool? The child's free time is "garbage time", which is not derogatory.

A person's life should not only learn, people are not learning machines, so children must have free time. It turns out that they are stuck in a "prisoner's dilemma", and some parents are afraid to give their children such time because everyone is in cram school. Nowadays, many students can get it, and the free control of "garbage time" plays a very important role in the child's development, which can promote his ability to improve in other aspects.

Children are not only the future of society, but also the hope of a family. Especially after being an only child, children become the only hope. The child bears the future of the family, and the parents do not dare to relax, so the child is tired and the parents are anxious.

How to make children become successful needs to be viewed rationally, and do not exceed their own abilities and make excessive demands. When you think that your child must be the master, you see my answer above, and in your eyes there are only two words Keiga Mi: nonsense.

So I think the most important way for parents to cope is:

Ordinary heart. Calmly analyze the characteristics of the child, and then give him a choice rationally, at first there was no way to choose, but now it can be said that temporarily relax the parents and give them the opportunity to choose independently, which should be used by Qianyan. Of course, your mentality has collapsed, and when it comes to education, you are anxious, so I think that no matter what you do, you are always anxious.

To clarify a reality, it is unrealistic to make hundreds of millions of people exactly the same, there must be differences, and parents must accept it.