What kind of care for children is the most correct love given by parents?

That is, we must establish a correct concept for the child, and then we must cultivate the child's sense of rules, and give the child more care in life, and then we must stop the child from lying as soon as possible.

You must establish a correct concept for your child, and you must also cultivate your child's sense of rules, give your child more care in your daily life, and stop your child from lying or bad behavior as soon as possible, and take a scientific way to guide and educate your child.

When a child encounters difficulties, we should guide him appropriately, rather than knocking him down with the difficulties.

I think the best love parents can give their children is "companionship". Compared with material satisfaction, children want their voices to be heard, shared with others when they are happy, someone to talk to when they are troubled, and someone to accompany them when they are lonely. These emotional exchanges are essentially a kind of pure "love".

So you can see that with the company of parents, even if the child lives in a poor family, he can still feel happy, on the contrary, some parents who are busy with their careers, even if they earn a lot of money, also provide their children with a very good material life, but the latter still feel depressed and lonely.

"Companionship" allows parents to appear around their children like friends, giving them endless spiritual strength. Whenever they encounter all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, they will not feel that they are alone, because parents will always stand behind them as the "most solid backing", and they will not hesitate to help their children if they cannot solve the problems in front of them. No one in the world will help others for free, except our parents.

At the same time, in the process of growing up, children are actually very lonely, they have no friends from birth to entering school, sometimes some hearts need to be confided, and some happiness wants to be shared with others. Only parents can take on this role, because this is when the child is closest to the family that he knows best.

But in fact, many parents have fallen into a misunderstanding, that is, they think that it is enough for their children to eat well, dress well, and live well, and choose to deliberately ignore their mental health and emotional needs. In fact, for the whole physical and mental health, spiritual support is much more important than external material conditions. After all, what age children are a key stage in character formation, the environment has a huge impact on them, if they lose the company of their families, they are bound to become introverted and sensitive, and even withdrawn and self-abandoned, because of the lack of friendship and do not feel the affection from their parents.

A childhood without family is destined to be bleak, and such children often have self-doubt, compare themselves to others, and think that their parents do not care about them because they are not likable enough. Over time, children will have various mental problems, they will gradually close themselves, from fear of loneliness to habit of loneliness, and eventually their psychology and personality will begin to distort.

When children have ideas, they should give them the best support, guide them correctly, and let them trust their parents.

Care and love, so that the child can be very happy, and also let the child live in a loving family.

Practice what you preach. In this way, the child will get a good education, and it will also make the child grow up happily and become a very lively person.

What can parents do to love their children best? When it comes to conflicts with their children, many parents always say that they can't wait to take out their hearts to their children, and parents are responsive to their children's requirements. But this is not the love for children, today I will tell you, what is the best love for children?

Most parents think that their children are still young and that everything is not well considered. Therefore, parents will choose to ignore their children's opinions directly. And for this phenomenon, it will also cause very serious harm to the child, so as parents, we should work hard to take care of the child.

If we always ignore the child's thoughts, it will definitely make the child very sad, so I hope you should pay attention to this situation. When the child speaks his or her own thoughts, as parents, we should know how to take care of the child's thoughts, and if there is something wrong with the child's ideas, parents can also put forward them in time.

It is found that some parents always do not know how to accompany their children, and after their children have some bad behaviors, parents will be very angry. We can accompany the child seriously, and when the child makes some mistakes, parents should calmly tell the child about their mistakes. Parents should be happy if there is something to change in their children.

Parents should pay attention to their own methods of educating their children, and should work hard to give their children a good opinion.

The best love for children is to let them know that they are respected by their parents, and also let them know that their parents love them very much. In this way, children can be more fond of their parents and more willing to communicate with their parents. Therefore, I hope that parents can change their education methods and not always ignore their children.

Parents do this to their children in the best way to love: to know their children, especially their mental activities; express emotions in an appropriate way; Be both a friend and a teacher to your children; Better communication with children, do not use a strong tone to ask children to do this and that, which is very detrimental to the cultivation of children's character, correct personal communication, must pay attention to their own tone, and communicate with children in a gentle tone; Help children understand themselves, help children channel emotions, etc.

Parents should respect their children's ideas, not let their children do things they don't like, can't force their children to do things, and give their children a space of their own, this kind of love is the best love.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, parents must encourage their children, learn to respect their children, and communicate more with their children.

Parents should set a good example, use their own study habits and living habits to influence their children, create a good family environment for their children, and teach their children the correct three views, which is the best love for children.

Parents should give their children enough love during their child's growth, and in this case, the child will become more confident. Confident children are grown up under the love of their parents, if the child lacks the love of his parents in the process of growing up, then the child is likely to have an inferiority complex. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they must know how to bring enough love to their children in the right way, so that children can grow up well.

If parents choose to be absent in the process of children's growth, then the children are likely to lose their sense of security, and in the process, children will lose their self-confidence little by little. Mom and Dad are very important for the child's guidance, and it is also very important for the child's education, if the father and mother are completely lost in the child's growth process, then the child will feel that he is missing something compared to other people.

Mom and dad must not let their children feel that they are inferior to others, because once the child has such thoughts, then the child may slowly close himself off in the future. If parents lack love for their children in the process of their children's growth, then the children are likely to feel very uncomfortable, all of which have an impact on the children, so parents must pay attention to it, and parents must bring enough love to their children, only in this way can the children grow up better.

Children will be severely beaten by their parents in the process of growing up, and should also be educated by their parents, if the child lacks the love given by his parents in the process of growing up, then the child is likely to be hurt accordingly. All these are very negative factors for children, so parents must know how to educate their children in the right way.

It will bring great benefits to the child, will make the child not have a cheerful character in life, and will also have a very lively side to face anything will have a good solution, will not make the child timid, and will not make the child insecure.

It can make children more and more independent, can make children more and more confident, become more and more efficient when doing things, become more and more autonomous, and can establish a particularly good parent-child relationship.

Make the child lively, sunny, outgoing, cheerful and generous, and confident.

Sunday, August 25, 2019 Weather: Cloudy.

Parent-child diary day 629 Galloping mother.

A conversation with Xiang at noon today not only reminded me of Song Qian played by Xiao Tao Hong in "Little Huanxi", but suddenly gasped. I'm going to be like that, why are I so strict with Xiang, and I'll turn my face when I say it. I finally went home for two days.

Does it have to be the same as the mother in the play? There was a strong voice inside me telling me – no.

Recently, this "Little Joy" is very popular. I also watched a few episodes along and was very touched, because many scenes were familiar, and I saw the shadows of me and Xiang in them. There is also "Little Farewell" that Xiang recommended me to watch, in which a line of Haiqing's mother and daughter is not the usual conversation between me and Xiang.

After reading it, I was really touched a lot.

We can't change the past, we can only do our best to grasp the present and the future. On the way to educating children, we need to constantly reflect and change ourselves, Koizumi's mother said that reflection is growth, and my heart suddenly became much better. Yes, children do not belong to their parents, and every child should be an independent individual, and we should teach them to be an independent and responsible adult who can think and behave independently, with full respect and space.

And not anyone's private property, or a copy. As it says in Article 9 of the "Parental Rules", from now on, I want my child to grow up to be what he wants to be, not what I expect, because I know that my child does not belong to me, he just came to this world through me to fulfill his own dreams and missions.

It is said that the relationship between parents and children is a fate, but also a practice. I believe that every child will remember and be grateful to their parents for their efforts. But parents are also parents for the first time, and they want to try their best to give their children the best education and love, but don't let this love become a burden and shackles for each other.

The understanding and respect of parents is the best love for children.

I hope that in the future, we will not become parents we hate, but role models for our children. Learn parenting knowledge from famous teachers, and truly be your child's best friend, closest partner, and most loving parent. I also hope that every family can understand each other, grow together, and let love grow.