My husband insisted on meeting his ex girlfriend regardless of my feelings, what should I do appropr

Updated on psychology 2024-08-06
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Your husband goes to see his ex-girlfriend regardless of your feelings, it must make you angry, and the shock doesn't work. He told you about this in advance, and he didn't hide from you to meet secretly, which shows that he still cares about you and this family in his heart.

    Your husband just went to meet his ex-girlfriend, not to the point of divorce, he went to meet his ex-girlfriend regardless of your feelings, which shows that he has not forgotten her, and the ex-girlfriend still occupies a corner in his heart.

    Your husband has told you the news of meeting his ex-girlfriend, he knows that what he did is wrong, and he also said that he will no longer contact him, which shows that he is sensible and clear, knows that he has a family and a wife, and can no longer contact his ex-girlfriend.

    The ex-girlfriend and your husband have been in a relationship, but then they don't get together, and they will have a concern for each other, and they both want to know if the other party is living happily.

    The two of them have already met, and the relationship between them has come to an end, and your husband is anxious when you mention this matter, he may think that you are small-minded, maybe he has let go of this relationship, or maybe he thinks that you "have to ignore people" and "hold on to your pigtails".

    Frequently mentioning this matter will only make your husband and wife feel bad, so put this matter down, turn this one over, and don't mention it again in the future.

    You can find the right time to talk to him and tell him not to have any more contact with your ex-girlfriend and that you don't want to have a peaceful life again.

    If you feel unwilling, just "punish him once", you can go out with a few good friends to play, eat, karaoke, and then tell your husband to meet your ex-boyfriend.

    Friends have a good time together, and then ask your friends to call your husband, tell your husband that you find out that you are with your "ex-boyfriend", and ask him if he wants to come, your husband must be very angry, and he will come immediately, if you find out that you are playing tricks on him, maybe you will be angry, maybe you will laugh.

    Remember to take a few more photos of playing with friends, don't affect the relationship between your husband and wife.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If your husband has made up his mind, then I think it is better for you to face it in a different way, you can support your husband's actions, and I believe that your husband will think that you are a very empathetic person.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You should downplay it, pretend not to care, and certainly not get a divorce. A truly strong woman can lift a weight in a relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You should follow the most suitable to make yourself feel at ease; Of course, there is no need for a divorce, just to meet, and it is not a big deal.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In love, you should meet someone you like or try to be together, especially after having children, you should know how to cherish it more.

    Because he doesn't want his children to repeat his life as a single parent.

    In general, I don't want to get divorced like my parents' generation.

    However, the key depends on the person's character.

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