My husband is going to get a divorce. My husband insists on getting a divorce, what should I do

First of all, divorce should be your last resort. At this time, you should be calm, whether your husband's divorce is based on your sister's quarrel as an excuse, whether you have other conflicts before, or whether you have a mistress or other reasons, even if you want to divorce, you must be clear.

Secondly, after understanding the reason, find out the problem and make up for the relationship with your husband.

Again. If your husband really divorced you because of a quarrel, is there also your reason? If you do what you should do, and your husband wants to divorce you because of his sister's instigation, such a man is not worth nostalgia.

If it is money given to his sister before marriage, and there is a mailing certificate, you can ask her sister for it.

Family conflicts! There's no need to divorce at every turn, your husband may be angry, and you don't have a child's temper. There is still a big difference between obligation and responsibility, since it has been paid, why do you need those meaningless returns?

It is recommended that both of you think about it in a different position, after all, it is not easy to get married, get married, and have a long life.

If you have to go to the divorce stall, I hope you can hire a lawyer in the field of marriage, at least you can fight for more.

Never mind. When all the sick cats and dogs are relieved, how sure are you that you want to come back? On the contrary, he is physically and mentally exhausted, since he wants to divorce you, then he doesn't love you at all.

Forget it, you have a better tomorrow, don't spend all your time on him anymore. And one day he wants to turn back, and you have to think deeply. A woman's time can be tolerated there, if he turns back, and this kind of thing happens again in the future, what will you do?

There's no legal reason for you to want to come back. But you can use other means to make the money you voluntarily give to his sister's education as forced. As for the way, do you recall any evidence for yourself?

It's definitely impossible to come back, people's hearts are unpredictable. The next time you get married, you must find a gentleman to calculate the eight characters before making a decision.

Once loved, why bother to pay, there will always be no regrets for love.

It's hard to say without evidence

If the husband and wife are still emotionally attached, they can sit together and talk calmly. Think about each other from the other's standpoint, make compromises and concessions, and manage the marriage relationship well. If the man must divorce and you cannot negotiate a divorce by agreement, then the man can divorce through litigation.

The husband may file a lawsuit with the people's court at the place where the defendant is domiciled, and in special circumstances, he may file a lawsuit with the people's court at the place where the plaintiff is domiciled. If you do not go to court after being sued, the court may grant you a divorce or default judgment. Then, if the husband is unable to provide new facts and new reasons, he can file a lawsuit for divorce again after six months, and the divorce will generally be granted at this time.

Therefore, whether you agree to the divorce or not, the man can achieve the result of the divorce through legal means. It is recommended that you actively communicate with the man and take a better way to solve this problem. Through divorce by agreement, as long as both parties reach an agreement on the division of joint property and the ownership of custody, the result of divorce can be reached quickly and with less cost, and it is recommended to consider the actual situation of the two parties.

On the contrary, if the relationship does break down and the marriage relationship cannot be continued, you can also go through the normal procedure and choose divorce. According to[Laws and Regulations].If a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant departments may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

Who has custody of the children after the divorce.

1. The custody of children after divorce is generally handled by both parties through negotiation. If the child is under two years of age, it is generally raised by the woman. In accordance with relevant laws and regulations, the ownership of child custody needs to be determined in accordance with the principles of benefiting the child's physical and mental health and protecting the child's lawful rights and interests.

2. Under normal circumstances, children under the age of two live with the woman, and those over the age of two need to consider the comprehensive conditions of both parents to judge, and those who have reached the age of eight should also consider the opinions of the child.

[Legal basis].

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076.

Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

If the negotiation is successful, the marriage relationship can be maintained, and if the negotiation is unsuccessful, the other party can sue for the other party, and some evidence can be collected to prove that the relationship between the husband and wife has not broken down, and the Ziling court will not grant a divorce if the relationship between the husband and wife has not broken down. One party suffers from a disease that is legally prohibited from marriage, or one party has a physical defect, or is unable to have sex for other reasons, and it is difficult to **. Lack of understanding before marriage, hasty marriage, and failure to establish a relationship between husband and wife after marriage, making it difficult to live together.

Concealing mental illness before marriage and not being cured after marriage, or marrying the other party knowing that the other party is mentally ill after talking before marriage, or one party suffering from mental illness during the period of living together as husband and wife that cannot be cured for a long time. One party deceives the other party, or falsifies the marriage certificate during marriage registration. After the parties have registered their marriage, they have not lived together and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

Arranged or bought or sold marriages, where one party files for divorce immediately after marriage, or where a relationship between husband and wife has not been established even though they have lived together for many years. Where they have been separated for 3 years due to emotional discord and there is no real possibility of reconciliation, or where they have been separated for 1 year after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, and they do not perform their obligations as husband and wife. Where one party commits adultery or illegally cohabits with another person, and after education there is still no sign of repentance, and the party who is not at fault sues for divorce.

Legal basis: According to the provisions of the Supreme People's Court's Several Specific Opinions on How the People's Court Determines that the Relationship between the Husband and Wife Has Truly Broken Down in the Trial of Divorce Cases, any of the following 14 circumstances shall be deemed to have broken down the relationship between the husband and wife.