How do you find a chance to be happy in a bad relationship?

The best way is to know what the standard of happiness is, when you can know this, and then find out with your heart in this bad relationship, or manage it with your heart, and strive to create your own happiness standard.

First of all, you need to give up this relationship, because many times you don't have to continue to insist on it, you have to learn to give up, and then find a new job in a new environment.

Seriously discover the highlights of each other, experience them with your heart, and work hard together, I believe that you can make the relationship between two people very good, and two people can also feel happy.

When looking for the other half, you must find the one you like and the one that fits your personality, so that you can go on for a long time and be happy with each other.

I think that in such a relationship, you must always be together with each other to communicate together, so as to promote the relationship between two people and find opportunities for yourself to be happy.

It depends on whether the other person can change, and if the other person can change, then try to try, and it is possible to find an opportunity to achieve happiness.

No, although there is a saying that people who are still together after experiencing great events are people to be cherished, but in real life, some people have a smooth road in their lives, and they can be happy without experiencing setbacks.

Not necessarily, some people can have happiness without experiencing setbacks, but some people have to go through some.

Yes, no relationship can be smooth sailing, and a good relationship can only blossom and bear fruit if it has gone through hardships.

I don't think so, everyone's fate is different, there are some people who are smooth sailing in terms of feelings, smooth sailing, and can have happiness without experiencing setbacks.

This cannot be generalized, it can only be said that after experiencing emotional setbacks, people tend to know how to cherish them more and deal with their feelings better.

No, some people are very lucky, their first love is married, whether they can have happiness depends on the individual.

The relationship between two people can only be slowly put on the right track after running-in, I don't believe in the relationship of love at first sight, it is just an impulse.

I think so, after all, the feelings that have experienced setbacks can withstand the exercise more and be more profound.

Re-recognize yourself, list the problems encountered in the relationship, find your own flaws and correct them, and your emotional life should improve.

Growing up in different environments, everyone's concept and method of marriage and love have always affected their emotional life. Some people fall in love once and then get married, and some people fall in love many times but return to being single each time.

Summarize the experience and lessons of every emotional failure, and re-recognize your own love concepts and ideas. I've also been in a lot of failed relationships, and at that time I always thought that I hadn't met the right person yet. But then I found out that no, I have a lot of problems in getting along with people, but I don't realize it.

This is a problem that I only realized when I talked to a friend after I broke up and asked him to help me find a problem. I always have a lot of promises in love, but not many that can be fulfilled; I've always been a little picky, and I'm not willing to spend money in love; I always thought that love needs to be gradual and go with the flow, but I never thought that every step needs me to take the initiative to do it to have an ending.

There are really a lot of similar problems, I wrote them all down on a piece of paper and tried to correct them one by one. I've been married for five years now, and I think it's still a good idea.

Look for your own shortcomings, let your friends help you list, and the problems that can be corrected are not a problem, and the rest depends on fate. Everyone will have a different evaluation of you, you want to find the root cause of your love frustration, self-awareness and self-improvement are of course very important aspects, knowing what friends evaluate you and what you do in love, it is also very important.

You need to make a list of all the possible problems and look for common ground. Because the difference may be caused by the difference in everyone's concept of love, but all friends think that it is the common interest of your defects.

It's not too difficult to find the problem, it's hard to fix it. You need to work hard one by one, and maybe in the process of your efforts, you can find your own true love.

Everyone has flaws, and that's not a criticism. However, after many failed relationships, there is always a flaw in your personality or life that is a fatal wound. Find this flaw and correct it, and you may be able to develop a new life in your life.

Happiness always needs you to create it yourself, and love also needs you to find it yourself.

You should calm down and think about your own problems, whether you are too considerate of the other person's feelings, or whether you have done something badly, so as to summarize the reasons for your failure.

You should calm down, don't start a new relationship for the time being, you should look back on the previous relationships, see if the problems are in **, and then change yourself, and then start the next new relationship after the change.

You should think calmly about what you are not doing well enough, and you can also talk about your experience with your friends, and let your friends give you some opinions and talk about your shortcomings.

When you encounter this situation, you can calm down, reflect on what you are not doing well, and then change it with your heart.

This shows that there must be something wrong with yourself, you can honestly ask the opposite sex who you have gotten along with before, whether you are ** or not, and then try to correct it.

You can do some self-reflection, or you can confide in your friends and listen to your friends' opinions, so that you can find out your own shortcomings.

First of all, reflect on the reasons for each of your relationships. Where are you not doing well enough, and how should you correct it in the future?

I think we must learn to accept reality optimistically, and then sum up experience and look for our own shortcomings.

Think about it carefully, what is wrong with you? Only in this way can we summarize the reasons for the failure.

You must think about your own shortcomings, your own shortcomings, and find the crux of the problem in order to end failure.

Some people will really choose to find the spiritual aspect of the ** in another relationship, I think this is very unfair to another person, others treat you with sincerity, and you just want to ** the pain that your last relationship brought to yourself,Who's on this matter, knowing that it's not a pure purpose of love, anyone will feel very uncomfortable, after all, everyone wants to be in a very innocent relationship, not to forget another person by themselves, so some things done in love look like a joke.

Love itself is a matter of two people, when you don't get the result you want in this relationship, and you can't get out of this relationship, then you should choose other ways to let yourself out, such as traveling, relax your mood, see the landscape you have never seen, broaden your horizons, sooner or later one day will forget that person,Or you learn to exercise and run, in order to enrich yourself, or you go to climb mountains, read books, these can slowly let yourself forget about unpleasant love, but some people choose the most unbearable way, use other people's good to let themselves forget the pain of the last relationship as soon as possible, have you ever thought that the other party is also a person who is eager for love.

It's really shameful to want to seek comfort and ** in another person who is out of love, don't do things that make others feel bad to make your heart feel good, this kind of thing feels quite immoral in my worldview, not everyone is willing to help you forget your last relationship for you,Before starting the next relationship, you should at least let the other person have a right to know and let the other person choose.

Anyway, I don't want to forget my pain in this way, so I'd better forget it myself.

New feelings don't cover up the wounds of the past, they're just a way you use to numb yourselfStarting a new relationship can indeed distract people and regain their self-confidence, but it is all based on the harm done to another person. In a new relationship, can you guarantee that you don't have the shadow of your ex in your heart, so you must learn from the experience and lessons of the failed relationship, calm down your mentality, and after you come out completely, you can find a new relationship, which is the respect for your feelings.

For each of us, in fact, we are very longing for our love, whether it is a man or a woman, we have been on the road of pursuing love. But for relationship failure, I don't think I will seek ** in another relationship, because this is also very unfair to my other partner, so I don't recommend everyone to do this.

Therefore, I have the following observations:

1. Unfair

For each of us, when we plan to have the next relationship, we have actually let go of our previous ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, because if we have not given up, we will choose another relationship, then there are many contradictions between the two people, so I suggest that you start your next relationship after you have completely let go of your previous relationship, so it is the fairest for each other. And two people can walk longer.

2. I didn't put it down

When we have such a thought in our hearts, we can actually show that we have not let go of the previous relationship, and even want to save such a relationship, so I think it is very immoral for us to do this, and after a long time, it will also be a kind of harm to ourselves, so I don't recommend that you choose your other partner when you have a goal.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that once you have such an idea, you should dispel such an idea in time, so that you can be more clear about your needs, and what kind of person you want to find.

I was very reluctant to look for ** in another relationship, but I did it.

Yes, a failed relationship does not represent all the feelings in life, as long as you don't give up, you will eventually find a relationship that suits you.

Yes, this is a natural reflection of people avoiding pain, wanting to use another relationship to forget the previous one, but it does not have any effect, but it will make both relationships fail.

Relationship failure can bring great psychological trauma to people. If you want to get rid of this sad emotion, you can choose to leave this sad place for a while, go on a trip, or start a new relationship, you can say goodbye to sadness.

I'm more mature, I'm not always dependent on each other, I'm going to give them enough space, I'm not always looking at each other's phones, and I'm becoming more independent.

In a failed relationship, I learned not to surrender my true heart too early, to be confident enough in the face of the other person, first of all, to love yourself, so that the other person will love you more. You can't give wholeheartedly to each other, and you can't lose yourself in a relationship.

Be more trusting when you get along with your significant other. Being too sensitive and nervous is not conducive to the exchange of feelings between you.

I'm still a college student, so I've never been married, but I've been in love and broken up, so I've gained a lot in this failed relationship, and I'll share it with you here.

I think when falling in love, girls really shouldn't be too active, such as thinking of everything for boys, such as even what weather is good to dry the quilt and other things, and the recent flu period, you must pay attention to your body, don't catch a cold, these seem to be the boy's mother should say, not his girlfriend, this is the last relationship of the self, always make such mistakes, maybe I really liked him at that time. There's also that I can't be coquettish.,In fact, boys still like those girls who can be coquettish.,But my own personality still doesn't like this very much.,It's safe and stable.,So it's boring to spend more time together.。 For girls, one thing that must definitely be learned is makeup, in the last relationship, the other party also told me that his makeup is actually very good-looking, but now the person he is looking for makes up every day, and it is that kind of heavy makeup, boys are visual animals, this is really not wrong at all, after the breakup, I also gradually began to learn makeup, you will find that you will become more confident in makeup, not for others, but for a better self.

The above is my harvest in the failed relationship, and it is worth mentioning that my roommate's harvest is that she usually likes those cosmetics bags or something, and hopes that her boyfriend can give her gifts on any holiday, and she doesn't like those cheap ones, and feels that her boyfriend doesn't care about herself, at the beginning, her boyfriend liked her a lot and bought her a lot of gifts, but then her requirements became more and more, after all, we are still students now, and we are not making money, Her boyfriend's monthly living expenses were only these, so he later felt that she couldn't give what she wanted and broke up. The roommate now understands that she didn't cherish it at the time, because the man was really good, but it was too late, and she decided to change herself and meet a better one.

In fact, it is normal to talk about a few failed relationships when you are young, the important thing is that you can gain in it, what you do is not good, it needs to be corrected, so that slowly corrected, you will become more excellent, when you have enough capital, at that time you deserve to have a better person, beautiful things always need to wait, including love.