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It's not that, it's mutual, I'm very accommodating to my girlfriend, but she'll be very obedient and respond to me, so that it can last a long time, although I think women are used for care, but I still care about her reaction, if you want to live together, the answer is supplemented, hehe, find an opportunity to let him understand at the right time, and the answer is supplemented, don't say it directly, it should be in place at one time, you can make him understand in the comparison.
It's complicated, on the other hand, true love, why care so much, love her very much, just tolerate her, you better not maintain the status quo, otherwise it will become a common disease, either increase efforts to care, or attack violently.
We can't get used to it, can we?
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<> "When two people first brought dates together, they were accommodating to each other.
When the two of them first got together, they were stupid and accommodating. If you are angry, you will not blush, and you will hold back the contradictions in your heart and not say anything, which is considered a novelty. Later, one day the problems accumulated and the quarrel became more and more intense, and finally they couldn't help but explode and began to emphasize how much they had endured for this love.
You feel wronged, the other party also has a stomach of grievances, the more noisy the two people are, the more annoying they are, and neither of them wants to make concessions anymore, so they decide to break up in a fit of anger.
After breaking up, I often think of each other's goodness, and even regret my impulsiveness, but what's the use? If you really regret it and feel that you hurt the other party, then why did you have to do it in the first place.
Love after the novelty is more understanding and tolerance, every time there is a conflict, can you be honest with each other, if there is any dissatisfaction or discomfort, honestly tell each other. If you want to go on forever, you have to solve problems with each other as soon as possible, and if you communicate well, your relationship will naturally be good.
If no one refuses to bow their heads first, let alone communicate, and everything is pressed in their hearts, then they will continue to quarrel because of the same problem in the future, and the quarrel will escalate. Two people can be noisy and noisy together, but there can be no overnight gas, love is to grow in the hug after every mutual injury, love is not blindly retreating, nor is it blindly giving.
There are no two people in this world who are compatible and suitable, and only mutual tolerance and understanding can go on. Maybe we all have our own temperament and our own personality, maybe our lifestyles are different, our interests and hobbies are different, maybe we all have edges and corners, and we need more time to run in. Although each of us is not perfect, I am willing to become a better person for you.
Actually, I like you very much, I don't want to miss it with you, I can't help but want to tell you, I like you, I really like you, it's the kind of kind that I like very much.
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The couple come from different families, they are two completely different individuals, each with different personalities and hobbies. After forming a family, each other cannot completely lose their personalities and hobbies, and one party should not try to conquer the other, let the other do what they like to do, and do not interfere too much. The so-called conquest is not about kneeling with a snort.
It's admiration from the heart, thinking about what sustains your married life and what makes you lose the love of the other person. In fact, it's just that the external pressure has passed to the brain, and the more incompetent you are, the more you want to use an aura to overwhelm the other party, for fear that you will never be respected again, and you are afraid of being ignored permanently.
When encountering a thing, whether it is left or right, forward or backward, safe or adventurous, no one has the ability to predict the future, if the two sides do not give in, then in the end it is likely to end up in two shots. If everyone takes a step back, and the pace of life will not be out of rhythm, then it will be harmonious and full of spring breeze. If each one takes care of each other, is it still called husband and wife?
In the end, the family relationship was very bad, very annoyed, and even wanted to divorce. Why, husband and wife can't talk about high and low, win or lose? Can't even conquer the other party?
The two of them sometimes quarrel, there is no kind of scolding, I remember one time my dad was in a hurry to quarrel, my mother ignored him with a calm face, my sister and I looked at him, my dad himself quarreled for a while and felt very boring and shut up, and then went to the kitchen to cook. At noon, the family sat down and ate together, and everything disappeared. The male protagonist is outside, and the female protagonist is inside.
It is the pattern of most families.
Endure the calm for a while, take a step back, and open the sky, which can also be applied to getting along with husband and wife. It's like two partnership businesses, the hearts are not aligned, today you are scheming to eat money, tomorrow he selfishly lies about the purchase price, and in the end he is destined to close the door and leave. If husband and wife don't like each other, they will also fail.
But due to the current high prices, mortgages. Car loans. There are multiple reasons for the cost of children's education.
The model of the man working and the woman doing the housework can no longer meet the household expenses.
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In the life of couples, differences are everywhere, and couples should accommodate and tolerate each other, so that the relationship can go further; At the same time, couples should not become more unscrupulous because of each other's accommodation, which will affect the relationship.
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Personally, I think that depending on the situation, it is okay to accommodate each other if it is something that is not too important, and accommodating the other party can increase the relationship between couples.
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Although we often say that don't change for anyone's sake, if two people want to get along, they are running in with each other, and unconsciously accommodating each other and changing themselves. Therefore, I think it is appropriate to accommodate appropriately.
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In some cases, it should be a good communication, and it really can't be said that it is necessary to blindly accommodate each other, but it should be a good communication under the condition that both parties respect each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and solve things.
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Between couples, don't blindly accommodate each other, but also have your own bottom line and principles, too much accommodation may hurt yourself in the end, and feelings should not be handled like this.
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Of course, it is needed, because it is not easy for two people to be together, and the other party will also have some shortcomings, so two people must accommodate each other and tolerate each other, so that the relationship can go further.
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If there is no matter of principle between couples, they can accommodate each other, and only in this way will the couple's relationship be better.
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It is possible to accommodate the other party in some small things, but there is no need to accommodate the other party on some issues involving the bottom line of principles.
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Should. Because we must learn to give in in our relationship, so that our relationship will last longer.
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Yes, there should be some accommodation in the relationship between couples, and they should not be too indifferent, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship.
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Between couples, you have to accommodate each other, but don't accommodate each other in everything, you should still have your own opinions, and if you feel uncomfortable, you should bring it up.
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Accommodating is a way of behavior for us to deal with people, that is, we treat the other party's wrong words and deeds with a generous attitude in our daily interactions with others, hoping that he will correct his own shortcomings in a certain time and space. Therefore, although accommodation itself is good-natured, this tolerance is limited and conditional. The consequence of not accommodating is what we often say, which is tolerable and intolerable.
Relocation without restrictions and conditions is an irresponsible behavior towards others, which will push the wrong person to the edge of the cliff and face various dangers at any time.
The side that is accommodated: Once the other party is too accommodating, the weakness of human nature will be stimulated, showing a specific reaction, such as getting an inch in and becoming more serious.
Accommodating: Our overly accommodating behavior often means that we love each other deeply, or we are very tolerant. The starting point is good, and the motivation is good.
The accommodating party: more and more dependent on the other person's love, becoming unable to be independent, more and more impersonal, inseparable from the other party. Or torture the other party in disguise, because they think that the other party will accommodate themselves, even if they ask too much, the other party will tolerate and satisfy.
As a result, if we accommodate the other person, we will lead the other person to the path of self-degradation and self-loss. It's a harm rather than love.
Accommodating side: We will habitually accommodate the other party too much, and when the other party's demands become more and more excessive, we will not be able to cope with it and feel tired and troubled. At the same time, we will also become unprincipled, until we finally push ourselves to a dead end.
In short, excessive relocation is harmful to no benefit, and two people will push each other to develop in the negative direction of development, thus forming a vicious circle, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Based on the above understanding, as a couple in the most intimate stage of the relationship, it is necessary to move to each other, because two people must run in with each other, understand each other, and be familiar with each other, in order to achieve emotional maturity, maturity, and the palace of marriage. Accommodation is to create a harmonious atmosphere, in order to better deepen the emotions of both parties, and always control the process of love in the best state. What are the elements of accommodation at this stage?
That is, whether two people become a couple by getting along, including a series of comprehensive factors such as living habits, eating habits, dress, income and expenditure, and treating family members well. If these are in harmony, the accommodation will last forever, and once it is not in tune, it will inevitably be a parting of ways.
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This is because when they are in love, two people will always quarrel because of some small things, always thinking that the other party can tolerate themselves, and always want the other party to accommodate themselves, and also want the other party to take the initiative to admit their mistakes to be able to see the other party's true feelings for themselves, so they can't accommodate each other.
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Because the two are just in love and have no marital relationship, they are unwilling to accommodate each other or tolerate each other.
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Because you don't love each other enough, it's important to communicate and get each other's thoughts out there! I hope that the other party will say what has changed! Let's run in.
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In love, there are many couples who accommodate each other, after all, love is a matter of two people, and two people's personalities cannot be completely consistent, so there will be differences of opinion in getting along, which is to accommodate each other on both sides, and the matter will be properly resolved.
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Hello, love someone to accommodate each other, if only one party accommodating, then she (he) will feel very tired, such love will last long....I used to do the same, and we ended up separated. He told me that he accommodated me because of me, and his patience got better because of me, and because of me, his patience wore out.
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From the perspective of emotional psychology, there are usually three types of accommodations in feelings:
The first is that one party is always accommodating, and the other party is always enjoying being accommodated.
In this mode of getting along, the party who is always accommodating is prone to negative emotions such as grievances, unwillingness, and anger. He will feel that he is always accommodating, compromising, and giving, and the other half is paying very little, and his heart will become unbalanced, and he will begin to be dissatisfied and complain about the other half. Driven by this mentality, he will especially desire his other half to be able to accommodate himself and pay for himself.
However, the other half may have already become accustomed to being accommodated, or take their partner's "accommodation" for granted, and will subconsciously ignore their partner's feelings and needs, and even complain that their partner is not as good as before.
At this time, the party who is always accommodating will have a strong sense of anger, and then conflict with the other half, and start quarrels, cold wars, and so on.
The second is that both people want the other to accommodate themselves.
This situation will put both parties into an atmosphere of "power struggle", and when two people talk about accommodating in their relationship, they will think: Why do you always ask me to accommodate you? Can't you accommodate me? Why?
At this time, you want him to obey you and prove his love for you, and he wants you to listen to him and prove that you have him in your heart.
You compete with each other, you care about each other, you all want to gain dominance in your relationship, you fight each other for blood, and you wear out each other's feelings in the power struggle again and again, and finally you can no longer feel each other's love, and you can't go on.
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I feel that when two people fall in love, they need to accommodate the other half, so that they can make the relationship longer, but don't blindly humble two people, they must tolerate each other, understand each other, and trust each other.
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You need to accommodate the other half, because when two people fall in love, they are completely different individuals, and when they fall in love, they need to accommodate each other and tolerate each other, so that the relationship between two people can be maintained.
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Of course it does. Because getting along with two people is originally a process of accommodating and tolerating each other, two people must run in with each other, so as to make the relationship more long-lasting.
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I believe that as a couple, it is necessary for both parties to move each other, mainly including the following aspects.
First, tolerance is needed in love. The process of our relationship means that two people will be together for a long time, so that the other person will get to know each other better. No one is perfect, and everyone has some shortcomings and advantages.
It's the same with people in love, both men and women will find that there is something bad about their boyfriend and girlfriend. So, what should be done at this time? The answer is to learn to be tolerant, to be moderately tolerant of some insignificant minor faults of the other party.
For example, if you are a person with a regular schedule and life, but your boyfriend likes to stay up late and play games, you can tolerate it moderately and persuade him in a reasonable way not to quarrel with the other party. Because in the process of falling in love, noisy will only worsen the relationship, and noisy will not solve the problem.
But if the other party has some principled problems, such as often taking your money without telling you or having a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with you, and still messing around outside. Such a mistake of principle should not be tolerated, once you find that the other party has such a problem, the best answer is to break up immediately, end the relationship, even if you like the other person very much, but also think about the rest of your life.
The second point is that love itself is a process of mutual accommodation. I'm sure many people know that one of the true loves is to like to see him happy, and in order to make him happy, we may accompany him to do something he likes. For example, if you don't like spicy food, you will order his favorite spicy pot every time you go out with him, and if you are afraid of heights, you will insist on going to the playground with him.
Playing with the Ferris wheel, you will accompany him to watch horror movies if you are afraid of ghosts at night, and show in front of him that you also like these things, proving that you both have many similar interests. This is the process of falling in love, and these are actually accommodating all the time, maybe in places you don't know, he is also accommodating you, such as accompanying you to eat ice cream he doesn't like, accompanying you to visit the mall he doesn't like, etc. In short, in the process of love, it is inevitable that both couples will move to each other.
In fact, most people will encounter such problems now, many people say that two people who love each other together, no matter what difficulties can be solved, I don't believe it, but in today's society, love alone can not solve all problems For example, the pressure of parents, and the pressure of parents is just the following: whether the other party has a fixed job (income), whether the other party's parents have a pension, if it is the woman's parents, they will worry about whether the other party will be good to their daughter, whether the other party has a house, Whether the man will bully his daughter and other very realistic things, we can't say that what they say is not right, but it doesn't seem to be all right, so many couples who love each other now break up under the pressure of parents who really care about them!
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