Bao Dad quit the parent group and complained about the teacher, all for the sake of why the child is

The father just couldn't bear it anymore, so he impulsively quit the groupBehind the seemingly radical behavior, it is our education problem that is reflected. Here's the thing, a father posted on the Internet that he complained about the teacher's **, and it got a lot of likes. **The content is roughly to complain about the teacher's inaction, as a parent, not only to make money, but also to replace the teacher to correct homework after work, thinking that the teacher has not fulfilled his responsibility.

So I quit the group.

01. Should parents correct homework?Parents should not mark homework, which is a way for teachers to understand the level of learning of studentsJourney. Teachers can ask parents to monitor whether students are doing homework or not, and make sure that students have homework. Instead of asking parents to correct homework directly, you might as well just let parents teach you.

What do you want a teacher to do? Of course, teachers also have the helplessness of teachers, in addition to teaching students, they also have to do a lot of work that has nothing to do with teaching.

02. Reduce the burden on teachersTo reduce the burden on teachers, it should be the relevant departmentsIn terms of the requirements for teachers, do not let teachers engage in all kinds of things that are not related to teaching, for example, let teachers get materials that are not related to teaching, participate in meetings that are not related to teaching, and so on. Really, it essentially reduces the burden on teachers and allows teachers to return to teaching and learning. Instead, a teacher has to do all kinds of work that has nothing to do with teaching.

03. Understand and communicate more, this parent's practice of withdrawing from the group is definitely not advocated, it is too impulsive. If there is a problem, you can communicate and negotiate. Rather than just leaving the group, so for the teacher, the teacher is also very embarrassing, you don't even give a chance to communicate.

The teacher himself has to deal with dozens of students alone, and it is impossible to change anything specifically for your child. If parents have better ideas, they can communicate with teachers.

In short, teachers and parents understand each other more, and they are all for the good of their children, so why make it so embarrassing. It's on fire, and your dissatisfaction is vented, and then what? Is your child's problem solved?

At present, some schools and teachers have imposed some teaching tasks on parents, and they have also engaged in some formalistic things, which are called "everything for the children", and parents are really suffering because of the pressure in life.

Every parent has different requirements for their children, each has its own ideas, Bao Dad quits the parent group, it may be because the teacher's approach does not meet his requirements, or it may be because the parent group is too active, no matter which reason, for the sake of the child, to stand in the united front.

Bao Dad quit the parent group and complained about the teacher, all for the sake of why the child is so extreme? This is because education has been talking about reducing the burden though. But subtract and subtract, far from lightening the burden on the child.

The burden on parents has increased exponentially. As a parent, I worked hard during the day, was scolded by my boss, and scolded by my customers. When I go home at night, I have to tutor my child with homework and correct homework, and if I don't do it well, I will be scolded by the teacher!

It's so hard for parents! So the words are a bit extreme.

Because this father expressed his dissatisfaction with the teacher's approach, now grading homework has become a parent's business, tutoring children with homework, etc., and the teacher should do it for the parents.

Bao Dad quit the parent group and complained about the teacher, I personally think that the reason why it is so extreme can not be generalized that it is the fault of the parents, after all, the current education method is a WeChat group, saying that it sounds good is that parents and teachers work together to educate, and if it is not good, it is the teacher to shirk part of the responsibility.

There is a limit to what people can endure. At first, Bao Dad must have endured it, but now that life is so stressful, people are easy to be anxious, and maybe something will become that straw.

Bao Dad quit the parent group and complained about the teacher, all for the sake of the child but so extreme, because parents do not understand the behavior of the teachers to let parents correct homework, thinking that this is the responsibility of the teacher, so very reluctant, I think parents are very inconsiderate of a behavior, this behavior is very unfavorable to the child, when directly leaving the group, parents can not understand the child's learning in school.

Personally, I think this parent spoils his child too much, in fact, Bao Dad and the teacher are for the good of the child, but their ideas and perspectives are different, I personally think that Bao Dad should think about the problem from a different angle.

Bao Dad quit the parent group and complained about the teacher, all for the sake of the child being so extreme, because the teacher's behavior made the parent very angry, so using this method also shows that the parent's behavior is not very mature, and he did not use a more appropriate way to complain.

Because there are many parent groups now, some teachers may assign tasks to the parents of their children in the parent group, because parents may usually be busy with work, so they have to tutor their children's learning, maybe some parents will be very unhappy, they will think that this is the responsibility of the teacher, and now they need to do it themselves, so they must be very dissatisfied.

Text|Wen'er As soon as I entered the door, I heard the child's crying, I thought something happened to the child at school, and came back to complain to my father, but I never expected that my father did not guess that he had bought toys for his child, because last time my father promised that if the child's results in this exam can improve, he will buy the child a toy that he has liked for a long time.

But I didn't expect the child's grades to improve, Dad's promise has not been fulfilled, the child is aggrieved, feeling that his father is a **, so he uses crying to vent his dissatisfaction, and also said loudly to Dad, "You **, I will never believe you again, I won't do anything you let ** in the future." ”

Hearing such accusations from children, I think as parents must pay attention to their own behavior, otherwise they will ruin their children.

Words don't countMa Zhaofeng.

The child is convinced of what you say, so when you promise the child, the child will be full of confidence in you, thinking that you will definitely fulfill the promise, but when you break the promise, the child will feel that you are a **, everything is just talking.

When you grow up, your child will also attribute what you haven't done to objective things according to your behavior, and feel that not fulfilling your promises is the influence of objective conditions, which will make your child's path narrower and narrower, ruining your child's future.

Complain about your bad mood

Children's emotions are greatly affected by their parents, when you bring the pressure of work home, and when you quarrel with your wife when you complain, your child's mind will also be affected by your emotions, and they will have more extreme ideas about things, and they will begin to hate your work, and even because of your complaints and quarrels, so that the child's personality has a certain lack of delay.