What does it feel like to be together with people of different nationalities?

Dad Zang, Mom Han, divorced. The two sides have different cultures, and they are not considerate of each other, not only because of their different cultures, but also because their personal personalities are not considerate of each other. I grew up in my grandfather's house, my grandmother brought me up, and my uncles loved me very much, like my own children.

But from time to time, there will be disrespectful calls or discussions about the Tibetan people in front of me, and then we will quarrel, I think I am half Tibetan and half Han, whether it is bad to say that Tibet is bad or Han is bad, I will not be happy, at least respect my identity. In short, the failed marriage, the tongue of relatives, disrespect for each other, I grew up to now, I also went to college, the three views are relatively normal, I feel very lucky.

I myself am of Han nationality. When I was in elementary school, the old campus of the Muslim Primary School was demolished and moved to share the same campus as our school. I was on the school team, and the sports team of the Muslim Primary School was very good at that time, but they didn't have a football team.

They watched me play football and were a little envious. I just kicked them together and they became good friends. We will compete against each other in every school sports meeting, but it really doesn't matter who wins or loses, no matter who wins or loses, we will give our opponents a big hug after each game.

It's also a pleasure to play with Hui children, and it's no different.

My husband and I are a Han and a Tibetan, and then the home decoration is also a combination of Tibetan and Chinese, and there will be Tibetan furniture at home and Han style, and then talk about festival customs. Our family will celebrate the Tibetan New Year and Spring Festival, before the Tibetan New Year, we will eat Gutu, a kind of gnocchi-like thing, and we will also eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner on the Chinese New Year's Eve, we will celebrate the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, and Shoton Festival and Sakdawa, and we will accommodate each other very well.

My ex-boyfriend and I are people of two nationalities, I am Han and he is of Hui nationality, and I feel that I usually have different values, different lifestyles and habits, different ways of thinking about problems, and sometimes different interests and hobbies of each other, and now we have broken up and can't get along.

It's just that the diet is not very convenient, I usually like to eat meat, especially pork ribs, but my girlfriend is a Hui person, and I need to avoid all pork things when I eat with her, which is quite distressing.

My grandmother, my grandfather, my grandfather, Tibetan, and my father are Han, so there are three ethnic groups hahaha, Tibetans on my household registration, but I grew up in Yi District, mainly for the Yi Year, the Spring Festival, the Torch Festival, and the Tibetan festivals are rarely celebrated. There are three ethnic atmospheres in the family, mainly my dad has a good temper, and my mom and I often joke that my dad is a Han haha, and after the joke, the family is still happy and happy.

The road to the relationship is more difficult than others, my parents want us to break up as soon as they hear that my boyfriend is Tibetan, they don't want me to marry far, and they are afraid that I will regret it after my boyfriend's life and diet are very different.

In fact, the benefits of marrying ethnic minorities are still many, first of all, everyone should know that Han people need to have family planning to restrict childbirth after marriage, in the past, each family can only have one child, but now the two-child policy has been introduced, and each family can have two children. But this is not the case for ethnic minorities, whose family planning policies have been relaxed, and families can have more children after marriage.

Secondly, the children born can obtain the nationality of ethnic minorities, you know, the state gives a lot of care to ethnic minorities, such as subsidies, low taxes, etc., which can make the quality of life of the family better, so as to live a happier life. Finally, there are extra points for children's college entrance examinations, and friends who are studying in college should know that students from ethnic minorities can add 5 points to each college entrance examination, so that they can have a greater chance of getting into a better university. Ethnic minorities who enter the university also have special treatment, special ethnic meals in the canteen, etc., in short, they are more favored.

After reading the above advantages of marrying ethnic minorities, do you think it is good to marry ethnic minorities? However, I would like to suggest here that marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't just choose to marry ethnic minorities just because of the many benefits of marrying ethnic minorities, but you should marry on the premise of love, which will be happy after marriage. In addition, the policies of different ethnic minorities are also different, relatively speaking, the more sparse the number of ethnic minorities, the better the treatment policy, so everyone should not think that everything is the same, so as to make jokes and embarrass yourself.

It is conducive to national unity, and all ethnic groups can communicate and exchange together, so that everyone can learn each other's language and understand each other's living customs, etc., deepen the feelings of various ethnic groups, and share a common destiny with each other.

In my hometown of Yunnan, there are many ethnic minorities in my hometown, so naturally I know more about them!

1 Miao people: They are gathered in various villages, inseparable from the mountains, Miao girls are very hard-working, and the men are also united!

2 Yi people: fire is their totem, every year on June 24 of the lunar calendar there will be the custom of the torch festival, wild, uninhibited, fiery!

3, Hani; Haha, our high school homeroom teacher is Hani, they are hardworking and brave, Hani Prince has heard of it, and he sings well.

4 Dai people; Also called the water tribe, Songkran is their favorite, the more you go to their splashing water, the more respect you have, stilt building = shows their national wisdom!

5 Bai nationality: Dali has a good scenery in March, and all kinds of ethnic costumes in Dali in March are very beautiful and very loving!