I borrowed a few hundred dollars from my boyfriend, how can I be more emotional?

Updated on society 2024-08-06
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Secretly put it in your boyfriend's pocket and leave a small note, don't borrow your boyfriend's money from your boyfriend in the future, or your boyfriend won't let you pay it back, and you will feel embarrassed. I have always owed favors in my heart, and I have to pay back the money I borrowed, and I should go to play when I should play, these two should not be involved together, as long as I am not married, the borrowed money should be returned.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    How much exactly? You can send it to him in the form of a red envelope, or transfer 521 ah or something, if it's not enough, then you can pay for what common consumption in the future,

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Some love, it's not that you want to be forever, it's more that you are still in love, and the other party is already in a state of love, or two people are still together, but they can never return to the original state.

    Either way, it already says one thing: you are no longer fit to be together, this love is gone.

    Although it is very heartbroken, sad and reluctant, but this is the truth, no one can change it, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how hard you try, you can't save the other person's heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    How can anyone lend you money willingly, whether it is repaid once or twice, you can repay it however you want, and it will not affect the relationship between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You borrowed it from your boyfriend, and you didn't want it, so it's good to pay him back, but if he doesn't want it, then you can keep it and buy him something later.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In fact, in this case, there is no need to consider whether it will hurt face or not, it is normal, just pay him back, after all, it is natural to repay debts.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Are you and your boyfriend at the point of talking about marriage? Or is it casual? Borrowing money often?

    If it's the first time, and you don't know much about your boyfriend when you first get started? She's also careful with you? Then you have to pay it back.

    I think it's okay to talk about marriage and not get married. 200 is not much, but if it is not returned? When I first fell in love with you.

    You're just reaching out to borrow money? What do you think about your boyfriend? If you don't understand, you will think that you are a woman who is not very authentic.

    Always feel like a man to rely on? Therefore, if an independent economy wants to be independent, it must be returned. If you want to have a good impression in the future, you have to pay back the money.

    Look at his attitude towards you, or do you want to look at your attitude towards him? There is no conflict between the two. One sees one person clearly.

    If you think your boyfriend is generous and rich. Then don't pay back the 200 yuan. If you don't know your boyfriend well yet, it's best not to reach out and ask someone else to borrow money, especially to borrow your boyfriend?

    After all, it's an outsider. It's not yet time to talk about marriage. There is nothing to say about getting married, they are the property of the two of them, and everything you and mine are the two of them.

    But before you get married, you must grasp your selfishness, and don't think that your boyfriend borrows 200 yuan. Is it always the case next time you borrow it? What is your boyfriend's impression of you?

    You should know it well in your own heart. It's best not to reach out and borrow money from others. You have to work on your own, earn your own money, and spend it yourself.

    That is, even if it comes to talking about marriage, then we must be financially independent, be an independent individual, whether it is marriage or family in the future, whether it is or whether there are children? These uncertain factors will give you extra points? Or rather, a straight discount.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, it should be returned, but at least it should be mentioned, if the boyfriend doesn't want it, you don't have to pay it back, if the boyfriend wants to take over, you don't have to have bad thoughts and still have to pay it back, depending on whether they want to do it, if you want it, there is no need to have a psychological burden, because after all, you are not married, and it is better to separate the money.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My boyfriend borrowed 200 yuan, I think it should be repaid, although the two of you are a couple, but the borrowed money is the borrowed money, if it is a red envelope sent to you by your boyfriend, or, a sweet little activity between lovers, it is not necessary, if you borrowed it at the time, you should pay it back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you borrowed it from him, then you will pay it back. It's another thing for him to say no. You actually borrowed it from him, you still lack war, he is a boyfriend, but you borrowed the shell egg, then you will pay it back, anyway, you don't lack the 200 yuan, why leave a bad impression?

    If he doesn't accept it, it's another way of saying, if he does, I feel that your boyfriend may be a little more straight, he doesn't know how to be sophisticated, and he doesn't coax girls very much, if he doesn't know each other, I feel like it's still a bit desirable. If you talk about boyfriends and girlfriends, I think it's best not to spend your boyfriend's money, and you should be in that equal position. Today you invite me to dinner, tomorrow I invite you to dinner, that's all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I borrowed 200 yuan from my boyfriend and should pay it back, because 200 yuan is just a small thing. But the little things can show a person's credibility. If you borrow 200 yuan and don't pay it back, then if you borrow money again in the future, others will be interested in your character.

    It's suspicion. Whether he wants it or not, you should pay it back. Show your attitude.

    You are not a person who takes advantage of others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I borrowed 200 yuan from my boyfriend, and I should have paid it back. In this way, you can also gain the trust of your boyfriend and show that she is a girl who keeps her word. You can increase your status and image in your boyfriend's heart. It is very beneficial for the development of the relationship between the two parties.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Definitely have to pay it back, there is a loan to repay, it is not difficult to borrow again, besides, your boyfriend is very rich, if he is very rich, and people don't care, forget it, if there is no money, you are someone else's girlfriend and embarrassed, then you have to take the initiative to repay the money, otherwise the image left for others is not good, it is not a good thing to take advantage of love, you will suffer a loss in the future, borrowing, and giving, are two different things,!

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since it was borrowed, of course it should be returned. But if your boyfriend takes the initiative to ask you, it proves that this man is not very reliable, and he wants 200 yuan, which is too stingy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think since you are asking her to borrow the money, you still have to pay it back, whether it is a dime or 200, it is not difficult to borrow and borrow again, because he is your boyfriend, you want to cheat and not pay it back, which is a loss of your credit.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think I should pay it back, although I don't need to worry so much about being a boyfriend and girlfriend. But after all, the two of you are still two independent individuals, and if it has been shown before that it is indeed borrowed, then I suggest that you pay it back.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although 200 yuan is not a lot, sometimes your boyfriend may care about these small details, and you should pay it back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    borrowed 200 yuan from my boyfriend, if it was normal, it should still be returned to him, otherwise don't say that borrowing this thing is to get along, a basic code of conduct.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This needs to be analyzed specifically, if you really borrowed money from your boyfriend, I don't think you care how much money you borrowed, you must pay it back. If it's the two of you giving it to each other, that's an exception, so I think it should be returned, but if the other person doesn't want it, you can choose to give a gift.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Money borrowed between boyfriend and girlfriend.

    It's still time to pay the money back.

    There is no need for two people to worry so much.

    But after all, the two of you are still separate individuals now.

    If I had said before that I was borrowing money from him.

    And not what he paid you for.

    Then I suggest it's better to give it back to him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are sure that you are borrowing money from your boyfriend, of course, it is better to pay it back, I don't know how your relationship will get along, so since it is not the money that your boyfriend spends on you, it is the money you borrowed, of course, you should go through the normal process to pay it back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It should be repaid, since it is borrowed, it must be repaid, whether it is his business or not, and it is not your business. If you asked him for 200 yuan at the time, you don't have to pay it back. Since it is a loan to show that your relationship has not yet reached that level, you still have to pay back the money, even if it is for show.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It should also be returned, as long as the two do not become a family, they must be clear in terms of economy, which is good for anyone. After the province, there was friction and contradictions.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If it has been stated before borrowing it, it must be repaid, and it's not your business, but it's also his business, and I think if it's a generous boyfriend, he generally won't want it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I borrowed 200 yuan from my boyfriend, I should pay it back, the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend has only risen from a friend to a couple relationship, whether the two can really come together in the future is still a matter of two words, you can't avoid talking about borrowing money and repaying money because the two are lovers, no one's money is blown by the wind. If you really don't pay it back, and you end up breaking up again, isn't that a more serious loss? In addition, for the sake of insurance, as long as you open your mouth to borrow money, it is best to make a note or mention this kind of thing in the chat log, so that it can be used as evidence later.

    Otherwise, you won't be able to figure it out when you meet the old guy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you borrow 200 yuan from your boyfriend, you should pay it back, even if you borrow 20 yuan from your boyfriend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You don't have to pay it back, the 200 yuan is not a lot of money, right, I believe your boyfriend won't ask you, he won't care about the 200 yuan, if you give it back to him, he will feel a little raw, then your boyfriend will feel, oops, take 200 yuan to you, lend it to you and you say you want to pay it back, just let him give it himself, I think, I want to be the identity of this feeling. No need to pay it back, it's fine.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The money borrowed from my boyfriend should also be repaid, since it is said that it is borrowed, it must be repaid, and it is not cost-effective to lose personality because of these two hundred yuan.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I borrowed 200 yuan from my boyfriend and should pay it back, so I must pay it back, after all, the two of you haven't got married yet, and your brother has to settle the account, what about the 200 yuan in the future, now he doesn't say anything, if the two of you quarrel in the future, then the 200 yuan is a matter, and this is it, so I said pay it back as soon as possible.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Summary. The process of civil litigation is as follows:1

    The first statement of claim shall be filed, and the corresponding number of copies shall be submitted according to the number of opposing parties; 2.The plaintiff filed a lawsuit with the court and submitted relevant materials; 3.When a party submits documentary evidence to the court, it shall fill in a list of evidence in duplicate; 4.

    Within 7 days after the parties have completed the necessary formalities and submitted all relevant evidentiary materials, the case filing division shall handle the case filing formalities if the requirements for case filing are met; where the requirements for filing a case are not met, a ruling is made in accordance with law not to accept it; 5.The parties shall pay the case acceptance fee and other litigation fees in advance within seven days from the date of receipt of the notice of acceptance; 6.After the case is filed, the case is scheduled by the court**.

    1.You can ask the other party to repay the loan through negotiation; 2.If the negotiation fails, a lawsuit may be filed with the court, and the complaint shall be submitted to the people's court, and a copy shall be submitted in accordance with the number of defendants.

    Where it is truly difficult to write a complaint, a lawsuit may be filed orally, and the people's court shall record it in the written record and inform the opposing party.

    The process of civil litigation is as follows:1The first statement of claim shall be filed, and the corresponding number of copies shall be submitted according to the number of opposing parties; 2.

    The plaintiff filed a lawsuit with the court and submitted relevant materials; 3.When a party submits documentary evidence to the court, it shall fill in a list of evidence in duplicate; 4.Within 7 days after the parties have completed the necessary formalities and submitted all the evidentiary materials for repentance, the case filing division is to handle the case filing if it meets the requirements for case filing; where the requirements for filing a case are not met, a ruling is made in accordance with law not to accept it; 5.

    The parties shall pay the case acceptance fee and other litigation fees in advance within seven days from the date of receipt of the notice of acceptance; 6.After the case is filed, the case is scheduled by the court**.

    Article 675 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China [Time limit for the borrower to return the loan] The borrower shall return the loan in accordance with the agreed time limit. If there is no agreement on the term of the loan or the agreement is not clear, and it is still not possible to determine the amount of lead in accordance with the provisions of Article 510 of this Law, the borrower may return it at any time; The lender may demand the borrower to return it within a reasonable period of time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Dear, you can borrow it, but it depends on your actual situation. Because 20,000 yuan is not a small amount, legally speaking, you are not husband and wife, so there is no such thing as public ownership of property, you lend him nothing more than in friendship, then the money lent out at this time has to be repaid, I think you can borrow a part, but you can discuss with him when to repay <>

    My boyfriend borrowed 20,000 yuan from me, and I borrowed it or not.

    Dear, you can borrow it, but it depends on your actual situation. Because 20,000 yuan is not a small amount, legally speaking, you are not husband and wife, so there is no such thing as public ownership of property, you lend him nothing more than in friendship, then the money lent out at this time has to be repaid, I think you can borrow a part, but you can discuss with him when to repay <>

    Dear, do you think this is okay?

    Hello. Can you take a look at the above solution?

    Just because I lost money in a bet on the World Cup, let me help him, lend him 20,000 yuan, he didn't touch it before, he has always been very good to me, the relationship is very smooth, very comfortable, dear, then you need to know what to do with borrowing this money, have you asked him what he is borrowing this money for?

    I can understand how you feel that if you don't borrow it, it will affect your relationship.

    But 20,000 is not a small number.

    So, at the very least, you should know where the money is going.

    Are you right? Repay debts, I sometimes often nag him to buy a house and a car, said that I forced very tightly, just touched these, he has been very good to me, I didn't think about the third watch in the middle of the night to transfer my mobile phone to his account, where to fight back, deeper and deeper, and then I was very angry, said him, he was very sorry for me, and did not have the face to talk to me, after a day, he said to change, no gambling in the future, the economy will be handed over to me for safekeeping, I lend him money, four months ago will pay you back. But I'm sure he'll pay it back, so I want to say if I want to help him.

    Dear, then this side looks like you've lent him once.

    So did he give it back to you later?

    Judging from his motivation for gambling, he hopes to achieve a house and a car through gambling as soon as possible, and give you the life you want.

    So I think you want to help him in your heart.

    Do you think he's doing this because of you?

    It's back, you understand, right, if I help him, I'm afraid that something like this will happen in the future, so I'm struggling.

    So at the beginning, my advice to you was whether to borrow a part or not, and discuss with him the deadline for returning it.

    One reason for this is to reduce losses.

    That won't make him gamble again.

    Meaning can help him.

    Dear, don't you think so in your heart? <>

    Actually, you know that he gambled because he was stressed and lost money, but you have already helped him once.

    The other is because he is for your future.

    The last one is that there is some guilt in my heart.

    You need to write a loan contract, which is safer.

    Dear, I think it's okay to have an IOU. If you have a loan contract, it will make him feel uncomfortable.

    IOUs have the force of law.

    Dear, but you have to know what you're doing it for.

    Not to make him pay back.

    but to restrain him.

    And untie him appropriately.

    Can you understand?

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