A friend of the opposite sex who doesn t want to lose her

Everyone can have their own friends, that is to say, more intimate, such as confidantes and confidants. It is normal for this kind of friend to exist, he (she) does not understand himself, or he (she) does not want to tell him (her) about what happens, in this case, he or she will need to have a confidant, need to tell, and need comfort! However, many friends don't like themselves very much, and he (she) has this kind of friend!

After all, I don't want my lover to be shared! You can talk about friends again, have such a friend, but you'd better put your mind right, she's just a friend, not someone you like, you can't have more than some actions or thoughts about her than a lover, otherwise you will be a flower, splitting legs, and betraying the person who loves you! You'd also better not tell your lover, your confidant, I don't think anyone who doesn't get angry, although they can all understand, understandable and angry when two concepts!

Hehe, if you accidentally get known, you can be honest and honest! She'll tell you what she thinks, maybe it's okay, maybe you're going to face a choice! Maybe that's the end of it!

If there's anything you don't understand, ask me! Hehe.

Don't think too much if you don't want to, don't change any of your relationships, don't think too much ... Knowing what you want, it's not easy to have a friend, especially the kind of friend who is close to you, don't be changed by external factors...

Let go of the past and let time work things out. Since it has been lost, it means that this is what we should be experiencing at the moment, then accept it calmly, and now we are free, we can think about the freedom of accepting people, and then strive to make ourselves better, and believe that the next friend of the opposite sex will be even better.

You can take a look at your hobbies, spend some time on your hobbies, and work hard to make yourself better at work. When you are more successful, you can match a better half, and you must believe in yourself.

There are many people who are out of love, but there are not many people who can learn to grow in the matter of falling out of love, you can think about the reasons for the other party's departure, find your own problems from them, and learn to improve yourself, so that you don't fall out of love in vain.

Losing a good friend of the opposite sex is a very helpless and sad thing.

Theoretically, there are many ways to get rid of sadness, such as:

1) Accept it rationally, it is a fait accompli, and there is no need to hurt your mind about it.

2) In order to forget, immediately find another one to fill in the emotional gap by investing in new feelings.

3) Self-deception and helplessness: There is no one here, there is a place to keep people.

However, in reality, this is not the case. It's better than if it's closed, it's better; To be sad is to be sad. This memory will remain in the heart for a long time, and it is difficult to erase.

Someone once said that everyone has a grave in their hearts, in order to bury the unforgettable feelings of relatives, lovers and friends who have walked away in his life, especially a confidant and confidant who can't be loved.

I think it's normal to be sad to lose a former soulmate of the opposite sex and the beauty that accompanied me. But good things don't have to be"Get rid of", let's keep it in your heart as a thought! From now on, each of them will work hard to start another life, and bless each other!

Immediately look for another friend of the opposite sex who can replace him, distracting himself.

Everyone will have one or two good friends of the opposite sex around them, they have known each other for many years, they can talk to each other about anything, and they can also confide in each other about their troubles.

The relationship is not as natural as when he was a friend, and he no longer has nothing to say, the man suspects that the woman is always in charge of him, and it doesn't take long for him to break up. After the breakup, there was less contact between the two, and they slowly changed from friends to ordinary friends, until Jiaoxiao later lost contact and socialized with good friends, thus losing a close friend.

There are also good friends who can only see the shortcomings of the other party.

After dating, the relationship between the two people is one step closer, and they feel that the other party is not as good as before, and they can only see each other's shortcomings in their eyes, machismo is very serious, and they have to listen to the man in everything, and they are not allowed to have different opinions, otherwise they will be angry.

After dating friends of the opposite sex, I become very concerned about each other.

When the two of them were still friends, he went out to eat or sing with other friends of the opposite sex, if he didn't call me, I didn't mind very much, and I would tease him with this kind of thing, make fun of him, and although I often went out with women, I still couldn't find a girlfriend.

But after the two of them were together, I became very concerned about each other, if he went out with the opposite sex and didn't tell me in advance, I would get angry, thinking that he didn't have me in his heart, and if I talked to other women a few more words, I would have a cold war with him, which made our relationship more and more stiff, and finally broke up peacefully.

In real life, it is difficult to have a pure friendship between the opposite sex, if you don't want to lose a good friend, you have to keep a distance from each other, not to be too close, not to cross the line and interact with each other, only in this way, the friendship between the two can last.

We talk about love every day, but there are actually a lot of relationships, and it's not love.

If you only last for a few months, most of them are only supported by the initial excitement and freshness, then it is not love, and each of you has some purpose or need, and naturally it is not love.

But if you really want to talk about what love is, each has its own interpretation. We are not opposed to yearning for love and pursuing love, but it is not good to die or live because of love, or because love affects life and affects life.

Of course, love can be had, but it must not be the whole of life, if you want to be the all, then your life may be a little tired.

This kind of love, which seems to be focused and selfless, may not receive good feedback. No matter how much you love someone, you have to give each other space, and you have to have your own things to do, once you love someone too much, it is easy to make the other party feel tired.

No matter how beautiful things are, they can't stand it when they are stuffed into each other all the time. In this way, it is easy to evolve into a bad cycle, you are obviously very focused, dedicated and affectionate, but people have to change their minds.

But you've already made up your mind that you want to live a lifetime, so you're especially afraid of losing. The more you are afraid of losing, the harder you try to love, to guard, and even to become humble and cautious. It's just that this state doesn't help you, and you generally can't keep the people you love.

So, once you are always worried about losing someone you love, you have to think about whether you are affected by the three questions.

The first: you are afraid of being lonely, for fear that there will be no one to accompany you. The second: you're afraid that you won't find a better object, and you don't have too many good options. The third: You are a person who wants to save face, and you are a person with low self-esteem.

These three problems often affect a person who grabs an object and does not let go, and is always afraid of losing.

Even if the other party doesn't love himself anymore, he still can't bear it and refuse to let go. Or the other party is obviously hurting himself, or he still can't bear to let him leave.