Relationship Problems... What to do if you feel uncomfortable

This is probably your personal personality problem, as a man who is too clingy will not seem so manly. Don't say that your friends around you can't look past it, even that girl will think you're a sissy after a long time. Be a man with a voice.

If you feel lonely alone, you can text her or something, there is no need to get tired of being together. This has nothing to do with private space, you haven't mastered that degree. You must be in a relationship for the first time, it's inevitable.

If you want to catch the old and indulge, haha, you have to listen to the ancients, you have to catch her, then you have to give her some space first, or she is too stressed, and when your relationship is strong, it doesn't matter if you get tired of being together every day. Haha, when you have a strong relationship, maybe you won't want to pester her so much.

Don't impose what you take for granted on others, don't do to others what you don't want to do to yourself, think about it, if your relationship is reversed, what kind of mentality you have, you will understand how to deal with the current situation. The tighter you grip, the faster you run

Endure... It must be "semi-saccharism".

Not all marriages are unbreakable, after the high temperature of love is lowered, in the face of real life, no matter how loving the couple is, there will be all kinds of contradictions, and if they are not handled well, it will lead to the breakdown of the relationship, and finally the labor will fly.

From a psychological point of view,"Relationship breakdown"It has to go through four stages: dispute, vigilance, rift, and rupture.

Dispute. After the husband and wife enter the cave house hand in hand, after the hot period, they enter the conflict period, and if the conflict is not resolved in time, it will turn into a dispute, and the dispute will be entangled. Generally speaking, disputes are mostly manifested in leakage among low-level and choleric, bloody parties, such as quarrels, fights, and destruction of property.

Through mediation, it can be resolved, but then it repeats itself, and the civil war continues. Among the parties with high education level and mucus and depression, they are mostly depressed internally, and they do not quarrel or quarrel on the outside, but they are cold to each other in their hearts, and their mediation is not easy to be effective.

Alert. The accumulation of disputes, husband and wife from the estrangement and guard, commonly known"Same bed, different dreams"。In the form of vigilance, fetishists mostly hide from each other in terms of property, income and expenditure, and external types hide from each other and associate with the opposite sex.

In order to prevent the other side from grasping the handle and learning the truth, the two sides are on guard in terms of economic and social relations, and even personal career and future issues, etc., are also tight-lipped and guarded against each other like anti-theft.

Crack. There is always a day when secrecy is revealed. Covert disclosures lead to more serious disputes, which increases vigilance; As a result, a vicious circle is formed, and finally cracks appear.

The rift is manifested in strong emotional dissatisfaction and in behavioral deviations. At this time, most of those who have the conditions to live are separated; Those who do not have the conditions to live together, even if they live together, are back to back, and the well water does not interfere with the river water.

Break. The rift is getting bigger and bigger, and it can't be bridged, and the relationship is completely broken. Couples who have a broken relationship have roughly three modes of choice:

One is to part ways and divorce through legal procedures; the second is to consider various reasons, it is inconvenient to divorce, so I have to make do with life, endure frustration and burden, and the relationship between husband and wife exists in name only; The third is that the relationship is broken and cannot be reversed, just to torture the other party and refuse to divorce"Hold him (her) and don't let him (her) be happy"。This kind of drag is both stupid and immoral, and harms others as well as oneself.

If the form is inside, it will be outside. Of the four stages of relationship breakdown, the first two are inward, is"Cause", which generally belongs to the category of inner activity; The latter two are on the outside, yes"fruit", which generally falls under the category of putting into action. Therefore, in order to prevent the breakdown of the relationship, it is necessary to adjust when the conflict between the husband and wife occurs, and resolve the conflict in the bud.

One is the lack of communication with each other, and the other is that the two sides do not understand each other and do not trust each other, so it is recommended that the two sides should be honest and sincere, understand each other, take leniency and trust as the forefront, and unite and self-discipline, so that it would be good.

The best way to have a bad relationship is to break up. If you are in a bad relationship, it will be painful for both of you not to break up.

If the relationship is not good, you have to cultivate the relationship well, communicate more with the two people, understand each other, and tolerate each other. When you encounter a problem, you have to find a way to solve it.

The problem of feelings is a matter of two people, colluding with each other, exchanging ideas, and slowly the relationship is good.

If the relationship is not good, try to redeem it.

If you can't get it back, let it go as soon as possible.

There is no need to be difficult for yourself or the other party.

Give both parties a new space to find their own happiness.

Why is the singleness rate so high in modern society? That's because the pace of society is progressing very fast, and young people are pursuing to be richer, more independent, and more able to integrate themselves into this society, so they give up their love, family affection and even their children are for freedom, for the future and plan, so there are really a lot of single people in society now, maybe I am not right, but I think there will be some reasons for this.

Then the two of them should communicate well.

If the relationship between two people is not good, it is called slowly cultivating.

Whether you are a man or a woman, men and women have different ways of coping.