Am I at a loss? Why is it always me who suffers?

If it's really the two who don't get along, then they can only regret breaking up. In fact, I believe in true love, if he really loves you in the future, he won't care. For men, of course, they will care more or less, as long as you don't deliberately mention it when you get along.

I think you'll get along well too. I sincerely wish you for the future. At the same time, emotionally, I prefer to see the good side, and I don't want to think about those sad things.

Memories are like sparkling lakes, I advise you to pick up some sparkling ones and put them in your heart" In fact, I can see that you are very kind. Good guy

This thing doesn't suffer or loses Even if you do that, what if you do it Are men and women equal now What can others say if you want him to do so As for the latter question Why don't you want to think about whether he had those things before Do you mind Hehe.

Please, that's the case in this society right now, unless you're looking for the next one that's a lot bigger than you.

It's all a hanging, you know

Whether you suffer or not depends on your personal psychology I don't care what you have done No matter whether your feelings can be irretrievable As long as you feel that being with him can be regarded as a sweet memory Even if it is a little green It is also a life experience As for the next person, I can't say it can only depend on your luck But if he says that he loves you and dislikes the history Then I can only say that that kind of man is hypocritical at all Don't believe that love is not to love each other's advantages At the same time, love each other's shortcomings This is your true love I wish you happiness!

Summary. I suffer because I am too kind and too honest. So people will want to bully you.

If you don't want to be disadvantaged, then you have to get a little bit worse. Don't always think about others when you encounter things, and sometimes be selfish. Don't always say yes, learn to say no, not what others say.

Then, you must know how to refute, not what others say is what it is, and it is useless to move in an ambiguous way, and you must properly express your true thoughts. Therefore, if you want not to suffer losses, you have to become "bad", and of course, I still don't advocate doing bad things.

I'm always at a loss.

I suffer because I am too kind and too honest. So people will want to bully you. If you don't want to be disadvantaged, then you have to get a little bit worse.

Don't always think about others when you encounter things, and sometimes be selfish. Don't always say yes, learn to say no, not what others say. Then, you must know how to refute, not what others say is what it is, and it is useless to move in an ambiguous way, and you must properly express your true thoughts.

Therefore, if you want not to suffer losses, you have to become "bad", and of course, I still don't advocate doing bad things.

I am dissatisfied with society.

My dear, how can you be dissatisfied with society? How long have you been thinking about this?

I've been suffering for a long time.

If you always suffer, that's your problem, you have to face up to this problem and find a way to solve it, but when others make these unreasonable demands with you, you have to learn to refuse.

All sentient beings, biased towards "self-grasping", for their own life, obsessed with their own pay, too concerned about the balance of their own pay and gain, only remember what they have done and what others owe, but it is difficult to remember what others pay and what they owe, so I who suffered, and he who took advantage, there is always a moment, he who also suffers, and takes advantage.

Everyone's psychological presuppositions and returns for "loss" and "taking advantage" are inconsistent. For example, if he loses the half of the eraser he borrowed from the same table, you are very angry, but he doesn't think so, and even thinks you are stingy. And you think he doesn't know how to be grateful, and he likes to take advantage.

It's always you who suffers, which means that you are a very good person and an honest person. But if you are entangled, you must learn not to suffer, learn to do things correctly, and let yourself grow is the right way.

It may be because you have a weak personality and look more honest in the past, so many people will ask you to do things and support you, in fact, you have to become more confident and tougher, and others will not dare to direct you to do things.

Because you make others think that you are easy to talk to, and never refuse other people's requests, it is yourself who suffers after a long time, so sometimes you have to learn to say "no" appropriately.

Clean up the relationship regularly, have your own thoughts, don't be dominated by others, do what you think, don't restrain yourself, and be confident in yourself.

Why is it always you who suffers, you think that you feel that you are a blessing, and you don't want to deal with those people, so every time you lose, it is you who suffers.

Laughing at fame and fortune, indifferent to fame and fortune, always how, always fate, struggle to create.

It's easy for me to let myself suffer incorrectly. The older generation will always say, "Suffering is a blessing".

Suffering is not a blessing in itself, harm is harm, it only makes us feel discouraged and sad, we don't want to and don't have to thank those who make things difficult for us, forcing ourselves to forgive them is actually a kind of cruelty to us. What we should be grateful for is that in the face of such difficulties, we have not given up.

The way not to lose:

Treat people with sincerity and tolerance, if a person wants not to suffer, he must first treat others with sincerity and tolerance. Because the interaction between people is actually interactive, if you are sincerely good to others, others will reciprocate with sincerity, you care less, have a tolerant heart, can tolerate the shortcomings of others, and similarly, others will ignore your shortcomings.

Calm and calm, not alarmed, in life, we are the same way as people. If you are not disturbed by the outside world, think calmly, and adapt to changes, then you can deal with all kinds of problems and resolve all kinds of crises. If you are strong in your heart, there is no such thing as suffering.