Tell us about your own special rules of survival?

My rule of survival at work is to "learn to refuse" I used to be a person with a "pleasing personality", always embarrassed to refuse anyone's appeal, last time a colleague did not finish the task, asked me to help, I was embarrassed to refuse, the result is that I worked overtime until the early hours of the morning, the next day's spirit is super bad, the key is that colleagues do not appreciate it at all, this way of doing things makes me extremely painful, as the saying goes, "Shengmi endou Mi hatred", the more subconsciously please others, The easier it is to be worthless in the eyes of others. ‍‍

When I was studying, I didn't like to memorize English words, and my vocabulary was no different from that of a high school student throughout my four years of undergrad. I found a different way, and finally I found a way to do the right thing on the basis that I couldn't read the text. By analyzing the answers and lifting the stems, look for the typical characteristics of the correct and incorrect answers.

As a result, I may not really understand what this article is about, but I can finally "guess" the correct option by relying on structural analysis and dry analysis. I used this method to pass a series of examinations such as the written examination for interpreting at level 4 and 6. Then I was very happy that I had bypassed the mountain of memorizing words:

There are shortcuts everywhere in this world, but some people don't notice it! ‍‍

As a scumbag in marketing, there are many so-called "love experts" around me, I once asked many great gods for tips on love skills, and found that they all have a common skill, that is, "make good use of the first time", for example, when they go on the first date with each other, they will create a lot of small surprises, such as magic, small gifts. You will also dress up and prepare your day in advance. When giving the first gift, they will definitely go out of their way to buy more expensive or self-made gifts, and the result will of course be touched and favored by the girls.

My rule is to be cautious in what you say and do, especially in the workplace, and talking a lot will not make others feel good about you. And your unintentional sentence is likely to offend others. Speak little but precisely, just point to the point. ‍‍

My experience is that in your work, don't "treat others with yourself" your honey and the arsenic of the other. Something very simple for me may consume an afternoon of time for the other person; For me, I enjoy things that may be disgusting to the other person, so I never simply impose my opinion on the other person.

To understand the voice of the leader, in the workplace, if you have a suggestion idea with the leader in a meeting place. The leader's reply was: "It's good, I'll think about it again."

Or, "Okay, let's talk about it" means that they don't accept your proposal, but just veto you because of bad feelings. Don't take it seriously and keep chasing after it, it will really cause disgust from the leader. ‍

Judge a person not by first impressions. There are too many people who are good at packaging themselves, and are very good at bragging, can speak well, and will make a good impression at first; But as time goes on, you realize that it's just a name. Others, who are not talkative and good at interpersonal communication, do not have a particularly good impression at first, but as time goes on, you will find that he is a very worthwhile person. ‍

People who do a good job are often a bit obsessive-compulsive. This is the experience I learned from our manager, because he went to the office every morning to review yesterday's work email, and the desktop was meticulously organized, and the work efficiency was extremely high.

Don't judge people's rights and wrongs, there is no impermeable wall in this world, not that I am moral, but I know that once someone says bad things behind my back, it is very likely to reach him. I have experienced it a few times, and it is very embarrassing. ‍‍

The rules of survival score reality, the rules of survival in life and the rules of survival in the wilderness.

This one is all different.

The rules of survival in real life.

It is necessary to do a good job in personnel relations and between superiors and subordinates.

And learn the skills to survive.

To survive in the wild, you have to learn some knowledge about the wild.

and some survival skills.

2. Don't expose anyone who pretends to be X in public.

3. Don't dwell too much on your weaknesses, give full play to your most powerful abilities and make the most of them.

4. Colleagues are colleagues, no need to deliberately please, let alone maintain a relationship.

5. If you have been struggling with whether you should do something or not, then start doing it with your head down! After working for a while, you will naturally know what problems and difficulties there are.

6. When the other party takes the initiative to ask for their own suggestions, they will not do a good job of being a teacher, and they will not rush to give advice to others, 7. Don't believe too much in your future self, and try to leave yourself as little as possible if you want to do something. If you want to study, go to the library! If you want to read a book, you will cut off the network of your mobile phone!

If you want to work out, set an alarm clock and get up early! Remember, you, like the people around you, are not 100% reliable.

8. Don't put your last hope on others, and always ensure that you can survive the worst. Don't always think that you can survive if the company pays you every day, so what if it goes out of business one day? Your core competitiveness is the golden job for your own survival.

9. Don't try to be happy for a while. There are a lot of angry words, and if you don't say it at the time, you may feel very panicked, but if you don't say it, that's it. If you say it, you may suffer serious consequences because of these words.

10. Keep in touch with your parents every day, even if it's just a meme, don't let the person who loves you feel lonely, and treat your lover the same.

1. Walking in the workplace and entrepreneurship is like a modern person playing a survival game in a primeval forest. Survival of the fittest in the jungle, there are too many deadly laws, one wrong step, the game is over.

What is success? Don't fight for one day, just to live to the end. The rules of survival may not make you the final winner in the jungle of workplace and entrepreneurship, but it will certainly provide the most important help for your survival, so that you can live a more nourishing life at the same time, obtain huge benefits, and lay a solid foundation for your success.

2. The world is full of stress, we have to face pressure from school, work, and even friends and family, and sooner or later this will have a negative impact, our state may start to decline, our friends or family members are becoming more and more distant, we start to feel overly tired and nauseous, however, we can make life more energetic and creative by taking good care of ourselves and taking care of ourselves.

3. The essence of networking is the consumption of favors and the exchange of interests, and improving oneself is more efficient and has a longer half-life than extensive socialization.

The number of people you know does not mean that you have a wide range of connections, and those who can be valuable to you are called connections.

For others to be valuable to you, either you have enough affection between you, or you are valuable and worthy of others' investment. In the former, a normal person can only maintain in single digits. The latter is the one that really has no upper limit, and you don't need to take the initiative to drill the camp, and people will move closer to people who can generate value.

4. Don't draw any conclusions about anyone based on other people's evaluations, your conclusions are likely to be wrong.

5. People who talk sweetly to you may not be really good to you, and people who find fault with you and criticize you all day long may never treat you as an outsider.

6. Don't ask others for what you can do. Whether in life or work, if you can find time to do it, you don't want to trouble others, and you always feel very uncomfortable when you let others help, just like you owe a lot of money to others, and you have to pay it back sooner or later.

1. Speak through the brain, don't speak ill of the boss behind your back.

Women are sometimes outspoken and sarcastic about unhappy things or people, which can indeed make people happy and happy, but please remember that this does not apply in the workplace. Especially in the face of the boss, don't expect the boss to hear what you say in private.

The boss knows everything, that's the truth. As long as you're not talking to yourself, you have to worry about the person you're talking to. When talking to anyone, think carefully about what to say and what not to say. You can't say what you shouldn't say, and shut up if you can't say it.

2. Be the protagonist and let others play tricks.

If women want to have an easy life in the workplace and don't want to climb up, they can only do it for a lifetime. The disadvantage of being a trick is that you go first to die, there is no credit, and layoffs are considered first.

The current workplace is by no means a place to raise lazy people, if you want to survive better than others, you can only be the protagonist and let others do the tricks. You can't step on other people's shoulders, you can only be someone else's back.

3. Respect and obey superiors.

Your superiors have some resources and authority at their disposal, and it can be difficult to juggle the problem from a team perspective. Respect and obedience to superiors are important conditions for ensuring that the team accomplishes its goals. If employees do not think about problems from the height of the team, only stand in their own perspective to find trouble from their superiors or even arrogant talents, it is difficult to survive, let alone talk about going well and going far.

Please refer to the last article for exceptions.

1. It is best not to stay at home for more than three days. This is the most typical "distance produces beauty".

2. Don't report work beyond your direct supervisor.

3. Never contradict your boss in front of outsiders.

4. The nervousness before making an important choice and the guilt after making a mistake are meaningless.

5. Say thank you.

6. Don't take the initiative to give advice to others frequently. Even if the other party asks you to mention it, you have to be careful about your words.

7. The best way to get along with the opposite sex is to be natural and relaxed. One thing you have to think clearly is that you have only one partner in the end, and you don't need to be detached in patience and courtesy with all members of the opposite sex.

8. The best way to get along with the opposite sex is to be natural and relaxed. One thing you have to think clearly is that you have only one partner in the end, and you don't need to be detached in patience and courtesy with all members of the opposite sex.

10. There is no "everything ready" in this world, and everything should be learned by doing.

In fact, there is no special rule of survival, treat each other with sincerity in life and work. Respect others, and then be down-to-earth and down-to-earth, that's enough.

The rule of survival at the work level: young people who have just joined the work carefully choose the industry, once chosen, try not to change careers easily, as long as there is accumulation, at least they can become senior people or reach a certain management level; Treat the work seriously and dedicatedly, even if it is a small thing, we must do our best to complete it; In the workplace, you must maintain demeanor and etiquette, and treat the knowledge at work to live and learn from the old.

Survival wisdom and rules for newcomers in the workplace 1

1. There are always people with dark psychology in this society, remember not to unconditionally defend people, if you don't do well, you will offend people who can't be offended in the company, but you don't know it. And don't have the idea of "you don't keep your master here, you have your own place to keep your master", this is very naïve, and "rivers and lakes are dangerous" everywhere.

2. Do more things at work, talk less, even if you speak, be mellow, don't go straight. Learn more, see more, think more, talk less, and have a city.

3. What is implemented on paper, it is necessary to say more good things, even if you have to reflect some things, you must notify the parties involved in advance so that they can deal with it. Multiple friends and many paths, maybe next time, he will also help you escape.

4. You have to learn to say the tasks assigned by the boss: Okay! No problem! Even if you have a question, you can't refute it in person, you have to learn to communicate privately.

5. Don't block the way of others and do things that harm others and yourself.

If you want to further your career development, you need to:

1. Learn to manage yourself. We need to have a clear career orientation, understand our strengths, ways of doing things, and values. On this basis, establish your own network and favor account, and it is best to make the boss owe you favors.

2. Establish a personal style and personal principles, that is, establish your own brand, so that even if the boss who promoted you leaves, you can survive, because you have completed your workplace positioning.

People who are better than us around us, they all have a common characteristic, that is, they especially know some ways to survive, especially the following 5 rules of survival, really powerful people, very understand the curves inside, who doesn't understand, in the process of their own development will be very disadvantaged, see if they are also in the ranks of losses?

Live before you delight

Many people have a lot of ideas in their hearts, and they also have great dreams, and they always want to be eager to express themselves, eager to show their own magnificent ideas, but when they first arrived at the unit, they have not yet established themselves, and they have been made a mess by many people, so they will definitely follow a basic criterion, that is, in this environment, let themselves survive and stabilize first, and consider their future development, which is worth learning and learning from all people.

Love before things

In fact, really powerful people will follow a basic rule, that is, to do a good job first, at the same time, in the matter of things, many times we ask for help, this thing has become a tool, as long as the relationship between you is in place, the work is just a matter of words, and the foreshadowing of the favor in front is the key to the matter.

Profit first, then small

That is what we usually say, brothers settle accounts, whether they cooperate with others, or ask others for help, we must put the interests in front, we think about doing a lot of things, is it because we have not made the interests clear, and in the end these things will be gone, after the interests are made clear, even if others suspect that you are a villain, you must insist on doing so for a long time.

First far and then near

This is also a criterion that those very powerful people insist on, when they deal with relationships, if they meet an acquaintance and a stranger who has just met, they will give priority to taking care of the person they just met, that is, when dealing with interpersonal relationships, they should go from far to near, this method allows their connections to continue to expand, and do not accumulate a large number of interpersonal relationships and new relationships for their own development.

First come, first served

We often hear a sentence called first come, first come, in the workplace also called seniority, the key is to seniority, you have to go to the queue first, many people do not understand this truth, feel that it is their turn, in fact, you don't even have the consciousness of queuing, when will not stop you, after all, opportunities are always scarce, such a rule, must arouse everyone's vigilance, when seizing the opportunity, who takes the initiative, the opportunity is whom.