My husband of the second child asked for a caesarean section, what should I do?

I think you should listen to your own voice, not to listen to your husband's request, if the second child can be born naturally, then you and I will have a smooth birth.

If you are willing to have a natural birth without danger, if you are willing to have a caesarean section, you will have a caesarean section, the safety of your mother and child is the most important thing.

It depends on what the situation is, if it is because the baby is too big and afraid that it will not be produced, so it is required to be caesarean, then listen to the husband, but if the baby is not very big, but the husband still asks for this, don't listen to the husband, do what you want.

I think you can seriously discuss it with your husband, after all, having a second child is a matter for the two of you, and you need to have a unified opinion.

After the introduction of the two-child measure and the three-child measure, some people who are relatively financially well-off have begun to prepare for a second child. But for most families, many families do not have enough financial strength and energy to raise children, and they will be relatively entangled when giving birth to a second child. Either way, you need to agree internally.

One, it depends on the two of you.

This principle is actually very simple, marriage and family are not a matter of one person. If your husband wants to have a second child and you don't want to have a second child, you need to at least agree and also respect each other's ideas. To some extent, having a second child will increase the burden on a family, and this burden is mainly concentrated on the economic level and the time level.

Second, it depends on your own family conditions.

In most cases, whether or not you can have a second child depends on your family's circumstances. If your family conditions allow, you will have more options. If your family conditions are average, many people don't actually want to have a second child, because having a second child will only reduce the quality of life of a family.

In the meantime, I suggest you re-evaluate whether you need to have a second child. <>

Third, it also depends on your physical condition.

For families who want to have a second child, economic conditions are the first factor, and physical conditions are the second factor. Although many people want to have a second child and have a strong enough economic foundation, it does not mean that every couple has the physical conditions to have a second child. I suggest that the two of you go to the hospital for a physical examination and have a basic understanding of your physical condition, which can help you evaluate whether you can have a second child.

In addition, whether or not to have a second child depends on the decision of both of you, you just need to follow your true heart. <>

You should negotiate some issues with your husband, you should say what you think, and the two of you will synthesize their opinions before choosing to have or not to have children.

If your husband wants a second child, but you don't want it, you can do some ideological work with him and say that you are very tired of being pregnant.

At this time, we can calculate an account for our husband and let him know that it is not easy to have a second child, and there will be many problems.

Two people should discuss it carefully, consider the current family situation and economic strength, and then go to have a second child.

When Dabao was more than two years old, I changed my mind about not having a second child.

It may have something to do with the fact that after changing careers and becoming a teacher, it is very cute to look at the children, especially the children who have siblings at home, and I feel very loving and warm.

I began to test Mr. Xu's opinion, his attitude is very firm, only one is enough, one is stressful, and the other is that I want to cultivate one well.

I was a little shaken by not having the support of my other half.

When Dabao was almost three years old, my parents began to hint to me that now the policy is good, and they can still help if they have a second child while they are young.

I was tempted and decided to find a way to convince Mr. Xu.

And so began a months-long road of persuasion.

I started to use some of the people around me as examples.

I told him that I didn't want to regret it when I got old.

I said that young people can endure hardships, and the pressure will pass as soon as you carry it.

I said that raising children does not require too much money and material things, as long as we give them enough love, it is intensive and rich.

I said that raising children is also an investment, and there is a return on the effort.

I said that with two small children, my attention and love can be diluted so that it does not fall on one person.

I don't know what made Mr. Xu excited, so he started our second child plan, and we are about to welcome our baby rat in July this year.

Such behaviour is completely unacceptable, as caesarean section is a very complex and risky procedure, and postpartum women need more support and care. If I have such a husband, I will take the following measures:

1.Immediately stop the husband's misconduct. I will immediately stop my husband's misconduct and tell him that such behavior is extremely disrespectful and irresponsible, and at the same time make him understand that women need more care and attention after giving birth.

2.Helped the husband to dissect the risks and consequences of caesarean section. I will help my husband to understand the risks and consequences of caesarean delivery, so that he understands his wife's physical condition and needs, as well as his responsibilities.

3.Seek counseling or**. If my husband's behavior has involved family relationship and mental health problems, I will seek counseling or help to help my husband solve his psychological and emotional problems.

4.Seek family reconciliation. If communication with my husband does not solve the problem, I will seek the help of family reconciliation and involve family members together to solve the problem and find a common solution.

If you have such a husband, you need to take active steps to protect your rights and the safety of yourself and your children, including stopping your husband's misconduct, helping him to dissect the risks and consequences of caesarean section, seeking counseling or help, and seeking help with family reconciliation if necessary.

Listen to the doctor, not to your husband, and if he insists, let the doctor explain the stakes to him.

I think you must choose natural delivery according to your physical condition, if everything goes well in the examination, after all, caesarean section will bring some damage to the body.

As long as a caesarean section is not necessary, you can discuss it with your husband. C-section is particularly harmful, you can tell your husband that he will definitely think about it again, and a natural birth is the most beneficial for the fetus.

I think whether or not to have a caesarean section should be based on the doctor's judgment, not the husband's request. If the body is suitable for a normal birth, a natural birth, if the conditions for a normal birth are not met, a caesarean section is chosen.

Whether it is necessary to have a second child, if the conditions of the virtual beam policy permit, depends on the couple's cognition of the concept of fertility and their willingness to have children.

As a family, having children is naturally a big deal, before conceiving a second child, you should consider the family situation carefully, and face the current situation, including family economy, age conditions, work status, husband and wife health, nurturing environment, etc.

If "my husband is determined to have a second child" and you are still hesitant, you can communicate with your husband more and strive to reach a consensus.

I hope my Bihe can be helpful to you.