Clearance Mage If you don t want to get married, is it a big deal?

If you don't get married, then there are sentient beings? It's misleading.

When Mr. M, President Xi and President J were all good friends who followed Mr. Sun Yat-sen, and when Mr. Sun Yat-sen passed away, the two of them had different opinions, and they became enemies in the future. After I passed away, I met them all, and they came to me in possession ......Where did they come from? Originally, they were gods, who descended from heaven to earth to assist Mr. Sun Yat-sen.

Mr. Nakayama made a mistake and was taken back by heaven.

In the autumn of the year, the clearance is said in Hong Kong (sensitive places are treated).

I have never studied Buddhism, but I know that the so-called Buddha is not so much a form of life as a spiritual practice, so whether or not to study Buddhism and not to get married are fundamentally different things, and it is your own subjective belief that there is a conflict between the two. In fact, learning Buddhism is a kind of practice, life is also a kind of practice, and it is a kind of penance, which is more difficult than enlightenment, because life is a real open-mindedness, and what is exercised is the real ability of self-improvement and self-reliance. The shadow of childhood has caused problems in your outlook on life, it is your pity, I suggest you don't guard against a little bit, your parents' marriage is their own business, that is a way for them to practice, your life is your own practice, you should not be shrouded in their shadow, but don't complain, as an adult should have the ability to be responsible for your own life, the first priority when encountering problems is to analyze your own problems, and then how to solve them.

So, marriage to tie up, but to combine with people who have a common outlook on life and values, in view of your outlook on life has been distorted, so I suggest you go to find a person who is sunny enough to take you out of the shadows, life is actually very beautiful, there are many happy marriages, open outward, go to the sunshine to find, come on little girl!

Becoming a monk is a very great blessing, whether there is fate to become a monk in this life, we are ordinary people, I don't know. Therefore, the last school suggests that when it comes to the matter of not leaving the house, you can sincerely recite Avalokiteshvara and ask for his blessings, and leave this matter to the Bodhisattva to decide. Avalokiteshvara is compassionate and wise, and the decision he makes must be the best for you.

If the bodhisattva thinks that you have no problem becoming a monk, then he should design the conditions for you to become a monk, and then the problem will be solved naturally. If the Bodhisattva thinks that you have not yet reached the fate of becoming a monk, it is better to study at home, then it should arrange a marriage that suits you, let a good man practice with you, and finally both of you will be reborn in bliss. If you don't have faith in Avalokiteshvara, you can do the other great bodhisattvas or Buddhas.

This is Sugaku's advice, I hope it can help you.

First of all, you are really not very mature, for example, you talked about that you have severe depression, you are only 21 years old and can say that it will be difficult to heal for life, who can say what will happen in the future? A lot of things are constantly changing. And you say that you want to practice, which is nothing but your choice, but in the end you say that you have long been psychologically twisted and cannot achieve marital happiness.

So can a mentally distorted person practice?

You just look at your parents' own marriage is a constant quarrel, making you feel that you are not capable of managing or managing a marriage well. This could be the effect they have on you.

And IMHO, how difficult it is to practice to Elysium, you have to be perfect to do it. But can you control your shortcomings and see everything out of the way?

Listening to your description proves that you simply can't.

Entering Buddhism does not completely solve the problem, and becoming a monk is not a safe haven for liberation. Due to your parents' early marital relationship, you are depressed and unable to understand the marital relationship correctly and positively, and you think that you are not worthy of a good life and marriage. Little girl, you are still young, you can learn Buddhism, you can't be impulsive.

Of course, depression must be done early**, and of course, you can also use the power of religion to turn yourself into a beam of light, which can illuminate yourself and warm others.

You can get married, you won't be unhappy, treat them with kindness.

Everyone has their own ambitions and cannot be immune. However, people are self-aware, and the current Buddhist view does not necessarily exist, it is all illusory, you should still face the reality and change your cognition. Building a family is the right way to do good deeds.

Have you worked ? If you work, move out or your parents will force you all the time. If you are from a rural area, your parents will want you to marry even more for face.

Hello, I am a man of learning. I'm having the same problem as you right now, is your problem solved? Maybe we can talk.

You have to prepare money to make the trip, you earn money first, no more than 100 million, and then donate it to the Shaolin Temple, people will charge you for your refueling, and are you a college student? There is only a college degree or above, as for marriage, just wait for you to meet the person you love, you come to the mortal world to show that you have suffered in the previous life, this life will punish you to experience the suffering of the six reincarnations, but you want to become a Buddha, first pay back what you owe in your previous life, Buddhism believes in it, and if you don't believe in it, you don't have it, it depends on what you think.

First of all, I admire you for being young but you have such an awareness and vow, I also have the same idea as you, I think the important thing in life is to figure out how I should live, I haven't figured out why I live, and I have to worry about another person. I don't understand why people have to get married, just as others don't understand why I don't get married. It's nice to be alone, feel at ease, and don't have to worry about others.

The most important thing for people is to fix themselves, the world is impermanent, I am not attached to marriage, I have no interest. Just follow fate, if there is really fate, I will not refuse. If I don't have it, it's even better, and it's more conducive to my cultivation in this life.

I only care about whether I have grown in virtue, whether I recognize my shortcomings every day, and whether I have new understandings and improvements every day. I am also very distressed about my parents' nagging, and I don't understand when I tell them. I'm going to write them a letter to explain my point of view and hope that they will understand a little more.

Hello senior brother, the end of the school also has similar thoughts and troubles as you, I wonder if you are married now, or do you still insist on being single with the importance of cultivation? I hope the senior brother can tell me, Amitabha.

Throughout the ages, the monks and laymen of the Pure Land of Bliss have practiced in the heart, not what the external minister wants.

That's what happened to me.

Problem, through studying Buddhism, I realized that the human body is rare, so I don't want to start a family, but my parents don't understand that I understand their thoughts very well, and now I am very busy with work, if I am starting a family, it is difficult for my lover to get along if I don't believe in Buddhism, if I meet a person who thinks the same thing as me to get married, I think practicing together is a good way to solve this problem, practice the Dharma well, pray for the blessings of the Guru Buddha and Bodhisattva, so that I can get my wish, the Three Realms are impermanent, and I don't want to be distracted by trivial things!

Find out why you don't want to get married, and then analyze whether the reason is correct, the key is whether you choose the right person to marry. Marriage can be suspended.

Marriage can't be messed up, since you don't want to get married yet, don't mess up, because the person you want to marry hasn't appeared yet, don't worry.

Then don't get married, forced marriage will be very painful Find the other half first, and then talk about it The meaning of marriage is not to get married when you reach the age You have to love each other to get married I believe you will find it! =^_^=

Do what you want to do, besides, there are so many people who don't want to get married now anyway. Hehe, just live well alone. When fate comes. You can't help but want to get married! I believe you will be happy drops @-@

There is a reason why you don't want to get married. It's just that you don't know it yourself. Go and experience love! It's not in vain. Bless you.

This is your freedom, and it is also your responsibility, since you are of age, you should plan well, not for yourself but for your parents!

Then don't get married, the law doesn't stipulate that you must get married when you reach the age of marriage, so enjoy it!

Love and marriage can't be forced. You can't just marry for love, nor can you marry for responsibility, the unity of the two aspects can be a happy marriage.

If you don't want to get married, just live alone!What is this.