For your good is actually that the other party thinks you are not good.

Hello, you think it's for him, in fact, the other party thinks you're not good to him, you have your thoughts, he has his thoughts, maybe he doesn't feel that you're good to him, so he thinks you're not good to him, but in your heart you're definitely good to him, maybe you don't care enough about him, he doesn't feel your concern for him, so he will feel that you are not good to him, if you are really good to him, he will understand that you are good to him, but he doesn't understand that you are good to him, It means that you still don't care enough about him.

This needs to be looked at dialectically, and it needs to be clear who is good for you, which can be divided into many situations, if it is a parent, then one may really not want to see you confused, make some decisions and considerations for you, and the other is that it may also be under the banner of being good for you to let you do what they expect, then if the person in this sentence is an ordinary friend, it also depends on your acquaintance with him and the character of this character, in fact, sometimes a sentence contains a lot of content, If we want to distinguish the true emotion, it is often not a matter of one sentence or two sentences, one day or two, it is a process of time precipitation and mutual understanding.

The meaning of this sentence is difficult for ordinary people to understand, and only people with considerable life experience can understand. I'm good to you, not because you're good, but because I'm good. More accurately, "prove that I'm good".

This phrase is not just used between boyfriends and girlfriends, but refers to all relationships between people in general. What he wants to express is: people have shortcomings, and there are even unacceptable problems in reputation, I am good to you, not that you have no shortcomings with Xu, how good it is, but I can tolerate your shortcomings, although you are not so good, I can still be good to you, proving that I am tolerant, cultivated, and educated, which proves that I am good.

Therefore, each of us should understand that if someone is good to you, you must cherish it, and you must always have a grateful heart.

Those so-called people who keep saying that they are good for you are not necessarily people who are really your friends, and they often come up to a certain extent in the name of being good to others, consciously controlling others and letting others do things that are actually beneficial to themselves.

Actually, there are, but some are not absolute, because of what they do. Sometimes they are thinking more about themselves, and they may hope that they can be proud of you if they don't have a dream that has come true. Fulfilling their dreams and being able to make your life better in the future may also be a very good choice for them.

It's just that the person who says that he is good to you is not necessarily really good to you, you can feel it through his behavior, I think that the good of parents to their children is really good, and the rest is not necessarily.

People who keep saying that they are good for you are not necessarily really good for you, but if they say these things, they may really want to be good to you.

I think those who keep saying that they are good for you should really be people who think about you, after all, they have said it, and I believe they must have done it, in fact, we will hope that every friend around us will be good.

Those who keep saying that they are good for you may not really be good for you, after all, some of them are just good for you, but in fact they are not really good for you, which shows that such people are more selfish.

This is not necessarily the case, many people are duplicitous, and their words and deeds are inconsistent. Sometimes they will speak ill of you behind your back. To spoil your good deeds, be cautious and stay away from such people.

Of course, it is still necessary to distinguish that some people are really good for you and consider you, and some people are from the perspective of others, that is, they simply impose their own ideas on others.

Not necessarily! Some are duplicitous, some are for your good! So you have to take your time!

Those who keep saying that they are good for you, are they really good for you, or fake, for your good, you should have a minimum judgment ability, you should suspect that others can't doubt your judgment ability at all, you should have a clear judgment, have confidence in your own judgment, and what you judge is correct.

Not necessarily, some people are giants in their mouths, more powerful than anyone else, but not in action.

Some people are hypocritical, but most people are genuinely good for you!

You are good to me because you are good, it does not mean that I am good;

I'm good to you because I'm good, and it doesn't mean how good you are.

A prisoner who has a mind to endure is like a prisoner guarding his own prison, whether he thinks about it or enriches himself, but Yechun is just a lonely person after all, no one communicates, and even coughing or shouting is just an empty echo.

There are no guards outside, and the chains are not locked, do you want to escape? There may have been, but when I walked to the door and suddenly found that it was wrong for me to escape from prison, I returned to the dark cage. Are you guilty?

I feel that it is a skin cover, and it is an unforgivable sin. Are you really guilty? There is something in one's own virtual world, but there may not be one in reality, and even if there is, it is not a crime that will lead to death.

The question is, what restricts the freedom of the mind that is dominated by the spirit?

Solidified thoughts, pride in the bones, goodness and pedantry in nature.

can't get out of their own obsessions, and it's a cage to go to **. ”

As a result, his obsession is too deep. I am actually looking forward to the sunshine, looking forward to the beauty outside, and taking that step bravely will be different.

Summary. This sentence is an obvious scumbag and scumbag, which means that I am good to you because I pity you so much, not because you are worthy of others to be good to you. The meaning of this is that it feels like the other party is making you feel that he is superior, and it is good for you no matter what.

The meaning of the sentence is difficult for ordinary people to understand, and people with considerable life experience can understand it. I'm good to you, not because you're good, but because I'm good. More accurately, "prove that I'm good".

This phrase is not only used between boyfriends and girlfriends, but generally refers to all relationships between people. What he meant was: Everyone is staring at the eggplant.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

This sentence is an obvious scumbag and scumbag, which means that I am good to you because I am so pitiful to you that I am good to you, not because you are worthy of others to be good to you. The meaning of this is that it feels like the other party is making you feel that he is superior, and it is good for you no matter what.

Many people take it for granted that what others are good to you is good to you, and what others are bad to you is not good to you. What is the original intention of whether to be good or bad for you to look at others? It's not that obedience is good for you, or it's not that it's bad for you.

There are children who grow up under the education of love, and there are children who grow up under the stick, they may be excellent, but they may also be polarized. Is it okay to be pampered blindly? Children who are not around and brought up by grandparents are the easiest to be pampered.

When my grandfather was in his generation, the living material conditions were not very abundant, and when he saw his grandson, he couldn't bear to let them suffer, and he gave them what he wanted, and he just raised a giant baby.

It's hard to imagine people in their teens and twenties, who don't even know how to live on their own, can't cook, can't do laundry, how they live when their parents are not with them, it's not that money can teach them to do these things, but that they lose this ability.

People around them who change a pair of socks one day, whether they are too rich, or too lazy, now people put the word "lazy" on their lips, not ashamed, but proud, feeling that they were born to be fierce and such people, and feel very proud, and now people are also difficult to read.

The first "good for you" is really something that we young people don't want to hear, and adults think that they give me what they think is good, but they don't really care about what we want.

The second is to identify if others are really good for you, from your description, constantly challenge the ceiling of what you do, and in the long run, it is indeed for your good.

Thirdly, what bothers you right now is: What does he say "for your own good" because these words remind you of your parents' control and make you feel uncomfortable? Or is it the work that the leader asks you to do, constantly pushing your limits and making you uncomfortable.

For example, parents do not let their children play games, saying that it is good for their children, here parents believe that children are not good at playing games, and it is good not to play games, so they will not distract themselves and spend more time and energy on learning, but they do not take into account the feelings of children, children just want to play, and parents have the right and obligation to supervise their children's behavior. Or between lovers, the boy says to the girl: "Let's stop eating that junk food, it's not good for your health, I'm doing this for your good."

It's the same, from the boy's point of view, it's not good to eat more junk food, and for the sake of health, don't eat junk food, but what girls may think is that it doesn't matter if you eat a little. The "good" of "good for you" is the subjective feeling of the person who does the act, but it is not necessarily the feeling of the person who receives the act.

He thinks it's good for you, but maybe it's not for you.

I'm doing this for your good" is it really all for our good? When many people don't communicate well with their parents, most of them will say, "This is for your good!" I don't deny that most of the time it is, but there are many times when it is not.

Sometimes it may be because some things were not done by oneself back then, or some regrets were done, so I want to let my children do well, but ignore the children's own wishes, which is the imposition of wishes.

Of course, this is not always the case between parents and children, but also between friends.

You discuss something with your friend and you want to do it, and your friend gives you another proposal and says to you, "Listen to me, I'm really thinking about you." ”

Although what my friend said was true, we still wanted to try it ourselves, so we decided to do it our own way.

If you fail, your friends may say that I will tell you that what you are doing is not feasible, how good it was to listen to me at the beginning; If you succeed, your friends will congratulate you, and sometimes they will come with their own opinions: in fact, it is not impossible to succeed according to what I said.

Of course, this is just an example, and all I want to say is that sometimes "for your good" is not always true, and what should be done in this part needs to be carefully screened.

After carefully thinking about the causes and consequences, thinking clearly about the possible pros and cons, deciding our own behavior, and taking responsibility for our own choices, this is our own responsibility.

This "good" is a practice and concept that the other party thinks is good for you from his perspective and position.

Generally, it is hoped that the future development of TA will be better and better.

However, it is usually affected by the age, environment, and personality, and the person who says this sentence cannot understand and accept it, and is also tired of this kind of speech.

At this time, you need to rationally analyze whether it is in line with your own development, and do not blindly obey or oppose it.

I think it's good for you.