Why do I feel so sad after a fight with my partner or loved one?

No matter who you are, you will definitely feel very sad after a quarrel, because at this time, you will feel very painful in your heart, and the person you are very close to will feel very sad in your heart if you hurt yourself so much.

If you feel very sad, it means that you care about the relationship very much and value the person very much. After a quarrel, I feel sad, and I have both regret that I shouldn't have quarreled, as well as grievances and unwillingness.

Because they are the people they care about, and you care about his feelings, it is also a harm to yourself, and you will feel sad. So try not to lose your temper with people who care about you.

The main reason is that the people closest to me, and then hurt myself so much, I will feel very wronged in my heart, and I will collapse all of a sudden, and I will feel very painful in my heart.

After arguing with your partner or loved one, you will feel very sad, because they are the most important person in your heart, and we don't want to quarrel with them, let alone let ourselves down, let alone let the other party down.

Because when they quarrel, no matter who wins, each other's hearts are broken.

Unlike quarrels with strangers, mainly for the sake of reason, but quarrels with relatives or objects, most of the time it is to vent emotions, emotions are vented, but they will still be sad.

The reasons may be different for everyone, mine is like this :

Every time I fight, I feel sad because I feel like I'm always like this, I don't grow anywhere, I only hurt the people around me, I feel like I've been punished if I don't grow anymore.

Summary. Hello dear, I see your question and understand you very well. There will inevitably be some misunderstandings and friction between the two mouthfuls! Now that you're done arguing and you're feeling uncomfortable, you can go outside for a walk or talk to a friend, which will ease your negative emotions.

Hello dear, seeing that the stool leaked your problem, it is very reasonable and coarse to understand you. It is difficult to do training between the two mouths, so there will be some misunderstandings and frictions! Now that you're done arguing and you're feeling uncomfortable, you can go outside for a walk or talk to a friend, which will ease your negative emotions.

Hello teacher, I have been with the object for 4 years, he has always loved to play and ignore the home, so far we have no house or car, the temper makes the hail more and more bad, every time he quarrels he does not realize his fault, we have been divided and combined many times, this quarrel said that it is good to break up and get together and disperse, last night after I went out to scatter Qi slip Zhaobu, and he locked the door and did not let me in, and then I called his uncle ** to persuade him to open the door, and then it was opened, this kind of man can not rent a high body, I won't have a good life together in the future.

In the past few days, I have been looking for a house and moving immediately.

After his uncle found out about the situation, he sent me a message, "Teacher, I'll send it to you, you tell me to give a better reply to his uncle."

Wang Juan, I didn't rest last night, okay, you have to do things during the day, right? Listen to my uncle's words, because since I know you, it's also a kind of fate, what about me, I also talked to him for so long last night, I also talked about him, I said about him, I said that you are a man with a tendon, you no matter what, a girl has been with you for four years, right, don't always look at his shortcomings, be a man to see his advantages, change to think, anyway, don't think so much, really, because you are all young. You must choose the right person for yourself, I am also a man, let me tell you this, a man must protect his woman, if this is not a vertical point can not be done?

I don't want you to be together, you know what I mean? Be sure to find a man who pampers you, protects you, loves you, cherishes everything you have, that's the key, you know.

This is a message from his uncle to me, we had a fight last night.

If his personality is really like what you said, I think you should revisit Zhaoxin to assess whether he is worthy of being able to stay with him for a long time. Keep your eyes open before the result, and open one eye and close one eye after the result.

I feel that I have been very committed to the round game for so many years, and I have nothing so far, and the other party is still complaining about the simplicity of the gods, and a man who has no responsibility and no motivation has advised me to leave now It is not too late, otherwise it will be painful for a lifetime.

Marriage is a big thing for a woman, and if this man doesn't even have a sense of responsibility, he can't love his woman. What do you want him to do?

You can reply to Uncle Senchi: I am grateful that Uncle Xie can say such straightforward words, your language makes me feel a lot more comfortable! I will recognize you as a good uncle for the rest of my life!

It is difficult for me to have a future with him, I want to find someone to rely on, not to find someone who breaks my heart every day.

Summary. Hello! According to your description, you have self-harm, it is recommended that you go to the psychiatrist for psychological **, control your emotions, do breathing training every day, adjust your mentality, and exercise more.

Hello! According to your description, you have self-harmed and traveled to the empty world, it is recommended that you go to the Neurolimb Psychology Department for psychological **, control your emotions, conduct breathing training every day, adjust your mentality, and have more luck and loss.

Hello, this is a psychological disorder, the old type can not vent your emotions through normal channels, and the opinions and suggestions are included: Nachai does not know how to deal with your own troubles, and it is recommended to actively seek medical attention**Let the doctor help you clarify the problem and then see how** or how to counsel.

The kind that can't be restrained at all, even if it's because of small things, I will feel broken, but after the quarrel, I will regret it, and I feel like I should die.

But there was no self-harm.

Hello, you are still young, you have come from your age, you will change, sooner or later you will know that you are wrong.

Let me say it, I will think that you are wrong, as long as Lao Lu digging people is normal, accompanying Hannu is for the good of the child, of course, Lao Fan, sometimes their methods are not acceptable to the child.

But what if it's something that means something special to me? They often favor my sister, and I think I'm superfluous.

Don't live with your parents Parents are too partial, they will definitely think about the children they like in everything, if you still live together, you will only do this and that like a slave, and you have to be thankless. If you don't obey, you will speak ill of each other at least and beat and scold at worst. So the skin is in the way, or separately to burn and hold the front, out of sight, not upset, just look at the New Year's holiday.

I'm not an adult yet, but whatever it is, they're going to let me go.

It's a half-sister. From candy to dolls, to things my dad left me.

Let everything.

Why are you so domineering?

Why do you let anything?