Why run away and why do we always choose to run away?

I think the question you're asking is very broad, why escape? What is it that he wants to escape? If it is to avoid work, it means that this person is a lazy person, who just wants to sit and eat empty, and does not want to repay the grace of knowledge and education, which is not advisable.

If you avoid feelings, then it depends on whether he hurts others, if not, maybe it is just to make the loved one happier, and I don't want to affect the good life of my lover because of myself. On the other hand, people with bad morals will not think about paying any responsibility, but will take the way of avoiding and making fun of themselves. If it is to avoid school, it must be something that has happened in the school that makes him very embarrassed and humiliating, he feels very painful in his heart, does not know what to do, is in a dilemma, does not dare to face it, and adopts an evasive behavior.

There are many other things that are avoided like this, so I won't list them one by one.

Because I don't want to face it, I'm afraid of the outcome. In the face of reality, there are many feelings, dreams, and hopes that are powerless. When you are faced with a fact, and the truth of the truth is miserable and unsatisfactory.

If presented in front of you there are two options, one is to pretend and the other is to face. Although there is only one result in the facts, it plays a different role. Pretending to make yourself a little better (psychological effect).

That's why a lot of people choose to run away.

Run away when you encounter it, and then what?

What is the reason for our avoidance?

1.Fear of failure.

It is the nature of living beings to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and we are no exception. We all have our own defense mechanisms, and we are hungry for success and afraid of failure.

We all hope that we can avoid failure to a greater extent through our own choices, because we don't have the courage to face failure, and people will point fingers at us after facing failure.

2.Fear of challenges.

We always like to stay in our comfort zone, unwilling to face the cold and cruel truth, we would rather repeat the same work every day than challenge a new self.

Fear and laziness in human nature determine that people are content with the status quo and fear of challenging new things. We seem to have a solid understanding of the difficulty of this matter from our hearts, and we feel that we must not be able to cope with it.

3.Fear of success.

You may ask, how can anyone be afraid of success? I want to succeed every time. That's right, it's because people are forward-looking and will never stick to a one-time success.

In fact, a success will also bring a certain amount of psychological pressure to people, because he will start to worry that the next failure will subvert others' perception of him.