Is he fit for marriage? 20

I used to hear that there is love and water is full, which is indeed an exaggeration, but since I am reluctant, since the feelings are still there, it is better to live as much as you want. It's a little harder, a little tired, and think about it is better to be happier than to live a good life with someone who has no feelings.

Aren't so many poor people in the world not getting married, but your boyfriend is not motivated is a problem, you can tell him to ask him to give you a reason to marry him and be happy.

As long as the man is capable, being poor now doesn't mean anything

Judging by your narrative, he is not an ideal candidate to marry.

Sometimes, feelings become a habit that is difficult to break; What to do is up to you.

Actually, it depends on whether you really like him or not.

But if you want to look at money, you can go to a rich businessman.

Chinese women have a characteristic, that is, they want their husbands to become Jackie Chan, and educate their husbands like educating their sons, if you really like it, you can do it "with affection and water full", if you look at him with unmotivated eyes every day, "educate" him, sooner or later you will break up. Because if he really wants to be motivated, he doesn't need you to "educate". If he doesn't have this idea himself, the more you talk about it, the more "educational" it will affect the feelings.

The details speak for themselves, and I've always felt that travel is the best litmus test!

A friend once told such a story, saying that she didn't like how good her boyfriend was to her, and she was obedient, and when she got married or fell in love, there would be no gap in her heart, but it was terrible to get an unscrupulous man. Many girls enter marriage in such a daze, and when they get married, they find that it is not so beautiful, but they will regret it! Some people will also say that I didn't have to him at the beginning, but he pretended to be too good, so Jian Jiyuan chose it!

Enjoy love when it comes, and when it goes, I hope all girls can be brave, don't drag the mud and water, and always be the best version of themselves! A sense of security and happiness is never given by others, it is given to oneself!

Love yourself, love life, and live the way you want!

Love yourself, love life, and live the way you want!

You can judge for yourself according to your own wisdom.

If you meet a man, during the period of love, you will drink heavily every day, and when you meet this kind of man, do not choose to marry him. Although in today's society, sometimes you can't drink alcohol without all kinds of entertainment. But uncontrolled alcohol abuse is not allowed.

Alcoholism can cause a person to lose self-control, which can have serious consequences.

Moreover, alcoholism is very harmful to society, and men who have the habit of drinking are like time bombs. There is a certain tendency to violence and potential danger after drinking.

Filial piety comes first, if your boyfriend loves and cares for you before getting married, and does everything to you, but when he treats his parents and relatives, he seems to be particularly short-tempered, and he is also difficult for his parents. Then the girl must be more careful, his current attitude towards his family is the attitude towards you after marriage.

A good man who really likes you doesn't just say sweet words, doesn't bother you just makes you happy, and he takes action to fulfill his promises. He likes you and will use his actions to make you feel his love for you, instead of simply perfunctory you and make you happy.

A man can't be unmotivated and ambitious, and his married life will definitely be slow and cautious. You can choose to be poor with him for a while, but you can't be poor with him for the rest of your life. After the two of you get married, you still have children to raise.

If you need a man who needs to worry about even the child's milk powder money, do you think it's worth marrying him?

A: I can't give advice on getting married to a specific person. But from a sociological point of view, whether a person is suitable for marriage or not, there are usually the following factors to consider:

1.Stable economic foundation, including financial status, job stability, etc.;

2.Mature mental qualities, including attitude towards feelings and responsibilities, ability to cope with stress, etc.;

3.Healthy physical condition, including physical health, fertility, etc.;

4.Good educational background in the family, including family harmony, parental education style, etc.

Of course, the above are just some common factors, and whether it is suitable for marriage needs to be analyzed and judged according to the specific situation.

At the very least, both sides love each other.

The three views are compatible, so as not to quarrel with different values.

Be responsible, and be able to take responsibility for you and your marriage.

There is no such thing as a perfect person, and part of the shortcomings depends on how quickly you accept it.

You can take a look at her attitude towards the radical nuclear family, as well as his anti-brazen response when facing more difficult things, and see if his interpersonal relationships are complicated, whether he likes to have ambiguous affairs with other people, etc.

Let's see if he has a sense of responsibility, whether he will pick a child, whether he will empathize with the banquet, whether he has the ability to be assertive, and whether he is an emotional initiative.

You can look at your eating habits, daily life habits, your various concepts, and the solutions to the problem of potato cores, and judge by the educational background of the two people.

Some people will understand "inappropriate" as the other half disliking and belittling themselves, thinking that he looks down on himself and wants to abandon himself to find another branch, so he found such an unconvincing reason;

Some people will think that the other half has changed his mind and feels that they are "inappropriate" with each other because they don't like themselves, and they think that he likes someone else, so they use the excuse of "inappropriate";

There are also people who will agree with the saying "inappropriate", two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us. Maybe you don't know if he's your Prince Charming, maybe you don't know if he'll treat you the same in the future.

In a long life, there will always be a few unsuitable people passing through our emotional world.

So, how can we be sure that he is the most suitable and gentle and considerate person? How can you find your true love? It's just sweet talk, don't.

I believe that the method of coaxing is used by many girls.

When the girl said she was unhappy, he said: Kiss and hug your dear. When the girl said that she wanted to work hard and work hard in Lun Zhichang, he said: Come on good baby. When the girl stayed up late to watch the drama, he said: I will feel distressed in this way, don't stay up late next time.

However, he is only talking. He never urged you to study hard with you while you were in bed; I didn't turn off your phone when I stayed up late to let you go to bed early; It never takes you to vent your emotions when you are sad.

This can't be judged, because marriage and love are just a stage of your relationship, some people may know that they are in love for a long time to accompany Liang Lu Ai, but they don't want to get married, but some people feel that they want to get married to a certain extent, which is completely dependent on the meaning of two people.

I don't think marriage needs to be entangled in whether he is suitable for marriage, of course, there are many kinds of people, in my cognition, the appearance is ordinary, someone is willing to marry themselves is already very good, because no matter whether men and women are good or not, whether they have a sense of responsibility or not, they can talk about marriage with themselves, which shows that they have a certain status and value in the heart of the hidden shirt, even if they do not fulfill the responsibilities of the husband and wife, they also have a certain love and affection for themselves, and the status in their hearts. Of course, if the other party is asked to have a sense of responsibility, the ability to support a family, and the self-motivation just like engaging in construction and military logistics, I think there will be a little less romance and the most instinctive things between men and women. Of course, real life is more rigid, it requires excellent skills, psychological quality to face overcome, to achieve the goal, as long as both parties recognize each other, accept each other, believe that there is nothing that cannot be achieved.

Have a great day!

You can judge this for yourself, you should have your own opinions.