What are the ways to judge whether you are suitable for marriage?

When you fall in love, as long as you are happy with each other, you will have the feeling of drinking water. When you get married, whether you admit it or not, marriage is not love. Love alone is not enough.

Love is sensual. Marriage requires rationality. It is necessary to judge whether the person is suitable for marriage.

Judging whether a person is suitable for marriage depends mainly on this aspect! Judging by the "point of view".

Love depends on the facial features, and marriage depends on three views. In this way, marriage is a mistake and a fusion of two people, or even two families, of their personalities, lifestyles, and social classes. If the three views of two people cannot reach unity, there will be constant quarrels after marriage.

Whether it is a big or small matter, there are always differences between two people, and neither is willing to compromise and make concessions.

The three views do not have to be completely identical. It is impossible for two independent individuals to exactly match the three views. But at least it is required to have common ground while reserving differences, respect each other, understand each other, and live together after marriage in order to be awkward and not aggrieved.

In the judgment of "ability", the economic base determines the superstructure. Only after getting married can you find out that "poor couples mourn".

No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, it is difficult to resist the various problems brought to them by reality. When you are arguing about money every day, you will find that love is completely untouched in the face of reality. It doesn't matter if you have money or not now.

The important thing is whether that person has the ability to make money, whether he is self-motivated, whether he has the ability to live a stable life, and if not, no matter how much he loves, he has to let go.

Otherwise, a hard day is ahead. In the judgment of "family", the Wentang family used to be the yardstick for judging marriage, but it is still applicable in this era. When the backgrounds of two families are very different, your love will be shattered in the estrangement and conflict of the family.

For women, "marrying" will inevitably put up a shelf at home, and it is easy to make princess disease, and men can put up with you temporarily, but they will never tolerate you. "Climbing high", the in-laws basically have no status. For the in-laws, they are no different from handmaidens.

May your love be pure and faithful, and you will be able to overcome all kinds of trials in reality!

See if you have a loved one, whether you have a desire for life and marriage, and whether you have the heart to tolerate each other. If there is, it is suitable for marriage.

I don't think it's suitable or not, the most important thing is to see if you have patience and tolerance. Marriage is a matter of two people, and there is no way for one person to achieve it. For a sweet and happy marriage, both parties have to put in the effort.

You can imagine your life after you get married, and see if you can accept it, if you can't accept it, it is not suitable for marriage.

I don't think I will choose to get married because the people around me are married, only if I find someone I like, only if I find someone who loves me and can give myself happiness in life, people will get married.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Fourth, learn to be understanding others, which is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst in the end, a fight, and even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

Learn to forgive: Learn to forgive your friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings.

can't explain, can't explain, outsiders can't see jokes, and they can't let go of their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back.

And the sooner you forget what you have said or heard in your anger, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

Everyone has a desire for love, and the ultimate goal of love is to find someone who can give them a happy marriage. Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not.

You can't ignore the happiness in front of you because of the future, and marriage is related to the rest of your life. There are great differences in attitudes towards marriage, and it is often said that "marriage is the grave of love, and after marriage, it is necessary to prevent oneself from moving one's own grave and to prevent others from robbing the grave."

Therefore, many people are afraid of getting married, worried about being unhappy after marriage; But there are also people who believe that marriage is a continuation of love and the beginning of a happy life.

In fact, no matter what others think of marriage, it has nothing to do with your marriage, just like the truth of "pony crossing the river", marriage needs to be experienced by yourself to understand. Of course, you can learn from the experiences and lessons of others, which will allow you to avoid detours.

When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, it is natural that there will be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.

If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.

Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.

There are no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

Each person's suitability for marriage is unique, depending on the individual's values, personality traits, and life experiences. Some people may indeed feel that they are not suitable for marriage, while others aspire to have a stable partnership.

For me, I think hard about whether I'm fit to get married. I look at my own personality, my values, and my ability to build stable relationships with others. I ask myself if I have the responsibility, communication skills, tolerance, and mutual support needed for marriage.

If I realized that I wasn't a good fit for marriage, I would seriously consider it. I think about whether I can approach the challenges in my marriage with openness and honesty, and if I can accept the sacrifices and efforts. If I determine that I am unable to meet these requirements, I may choose not to get married.

However, marriage is a complex decision that involves an individual's emotional needs and life goals. People choose to get married for different reasons, it may be because of love, partner support, family pressures, or cultural traditions, among others. So even if I realize that I'm not a good fit for marriage, I might choose to get married if other factors are very important to me.

The most important thing is that the decision on whether or not to marry should be made on the basis of careful consideration and a good understanding of yourself. Whatever we choose, the key is to find personal happiness and fulfillment in our decisions about dispersion.

First of all, you have to know whether you like two people, whether you like to set up a trip back to a home, and you are very eager for this kind of marriage, you want this kind of love, you want to have a warm family, you want to be a mother, you want to have your own children, you want to be happy in marriage.

Another thing is to look at yourself, are you afraid of being lonely, you don't like to be alone, you like to be lively, you like to be able to be hungry in the dead of night with your own company, with the people you love by your side.

In the impression of many people, it should be a logical existence from love to marriage. But from a practical point of view, only when the relationship has reached a certain level, can the two get married ......Specifically, when the two parties in love reach the three states of love, love, happiness and sweetness, communication and marriage, and the approval and support of both parents, two people can get married.

1. If both parties in love are in love and their love is happy and sweet, they have the conditions for marriage.

Whether two people in love can get married, one of the most critical factors is how the relationship between the two parties is. ......If there is a gap between two people, it is not allowed to get married. ......And if two people are in love with each other and their love is happy and sweet, then they are fully qualified for marriage, and both parties can consider marriage.

2. Two people who are in love get along well and reach the level of talking about marriage, and they can get married.

The state of interaction between two people who are in love is also an important factor in determining whether both parties can get married. ......If the relationship between two people is not harmonious and they have bad intentions, then they are not eligible for marriage. ......And if the two parties get along well and reach the state of talking about marriage after a period of communication, then both parties have the conditions for marriage and can consider marriage.

3. When two people in love are recognized and supported by their parents, they finally have the conditions for marriage.

Falling in love is a matter between two people, but it is not just a matter of two people. The attitude of the family also plays a very important role in whether the two parties in love can get married. ......If both parties in a relationship do not have the support of both parents, it is very difficult to get married.

And once the two parties in love have the approval and support of both parents, then marriage is a logical result, and the two people will happily enter the palace of marriage and start a happy new life.

There are three conditions for the best state of marriage: financial sufficiency, mental maturity, and emotional stability.

If you have enough money, you don't have to have a house and a car, of course, you can afford to have better. Two people have a stable income, in addition to daily expenses, there is a large part of the funds that can be used for investment and savings every month, even if they get married and have children, one person does not work, and the other person's income can cover all living expenses. It will not fall into a state of embarrassment and tension.

A good married life is also based on a certain economic and material basis, if the two people have low working income and are unstable, they still have to work hard for a period of time, and then consider marriage when the economic income is sufficient. Otherwise, the quarrel that occurred because of the economic embarrassment would hurt the feelings of the two people very much. Such a marriage will also be unhappy.

It is also very important to have mature thinking and correct three views. Look at things not only on the surface, but also on the essence of the problem, no longer make emotional decisions, no longer willful. If you complain about this and that all day long, you always give up halfway through doing things, you have a serious procrastination, you can't stick to anything, you run away from difficulties and don't solve them, it's best not to enter married life too early.

Let's not talk about what bad impact this state has on two people, get married and have children soon, your character and behavior will affect children, parents are the best teachers for children, if you can't set a good example for children in these aspects, negative outlook on life, immature thinking, emotional things, it is easy to let children go in the wrong direction.

Everyone has also seen a lot of such families, the children are rude and domineering, and the parents are almost like this. The children's cultivation is good, and the parents' cultivation and family atmosphere are not bad. Parents who blindly blame their children for bad habits and hate iron is not steel, why don't they want to think about whether they also have these bad habits?

Is there not a good example for your child when he needs the right guidance?

Finally, emotional stability is also the most important, it is normal for two people to be noisy together, but if every time it turns into a big emotional quarrel because of some trivial things, everyone will not back down, cold war, thinking about the worst breakup, divorce, after a long time, it will definitely develop irreversibly. No matter how good the relationship is, it can't help but hurt the vitality of every quarrel like this.