Parents who do not have a sense of boundary are often prone to raising abandoned children, and wha

Every family is composed of different family members, and each person plays different roles and responsibilities, and once the characters are confused and the sense of boundaries is not clear, it may cause a family crisis. The most difficult relationship in the world is family relationships, because they are related to each other, and it is very easy to be emotionally kidnapped, just as many parents cannot maintain a sense of boundaries in their children's growth and point fingers at their children's living conditions.

The moment the child is born is also the moment he is separated from the mother's body, and he begins to survive on his own separate system. I feel that at this time, I have already established boundaries with my parents, and I have officially started the process of gradual independence. It is very likely that many parents do not know what the sense of boundary is, they often impose their own thinking on the child's mind, and ignore the child's mind, and do not think that the child is an independent individual, which has a great impact on the rapid development of the child's self-awareness.

If the child lacks self-awareness and self-knowledge cannot be properly generated, then the child's sense of boundary awareness will be weak. When she grows up and goes to work hard in society by herself, it is very likely that he does not have a sense of boundaries and does not know how to protect his dominance, when his dominance is damaged, he does not know how to refuse, and when faced with things that make him very difficult, he does not know how to refuse others.

If the family atmosphere in which the child survives is a very poor concept of boundaries, then it is very likely that the child will not be able to learn to think, and he will become more and more timid and indecisive when he makes a decision, and once he faces difficulties or other obstacles, it will cause negative emotions, and he can recommend various problems to his parents to deal with. And I subconsciously feel that it is because of the parents' reasons that affect me, when this kind of child enters the society, it is very likely that its situation will become very unstable and cannot withstand the slightest setback.

It is said that Chinese parents will let their children pay wholeheartedly, which is a hardship in the world. But many parents just think they are good for their children, and they still don't notice that sometimes their love is a pressure for their children. Unexpectedly, they often pay considerate attention to their children, which will make children feel that this kind of care is taken for granted and has no boundaries, and intervening in children at will makes it very easy for children to rely too much on their parents or want to run away from their parents.

If you want to escape from your parents, it is very likely that your parents will not be able to accept it at this moment, and you will feel that you are dedicated to your children, and your children will not know how to be grateful.

In the eyes of children, because their parents restrain themselves too much, they let themselves live without freedom, they are afraid of doing anything, and they have resentment towards their parents, but they have no ability to resist. Once they have the ability, they can't wait to avoid their parents, and it is very likely that his sense of gratitude is weaker at the moment, and all he wants is to stay away from his parents.

Let children lose "gender sensitivity" and do not know how to protect their personal privacy in front of the opposite sex; may make the child a "giant baby" or "mom boy" in the future; Let the child have various psychological problems.

It will make the child become neither big nor small, especially like to talk back, and also become particularly short-tempered.

Let children become unrestrained and do not know how to respect others, and these disasters can befall at any time.