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This is not a psychological problem, it's just that you and Uncle Belle agree to have a double manly relationship, and you can find his sense of solidity from them, or a sense of dependence, or a full sense of happiness, as long as they are not your own uncle, and your uncle is not related to you, you can love each other, this can't be considered a problem in your heart, you can only say that you really love them.
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Why do I always fall in love with married men from my uncle or uncle's generation, is this considered a psychological problem?
Personally, I think it's a bit of a problem psychologically. It may be caused by the lack of fatherly love in your family of origin.
Or because of the lack of father's love since childhood, so when you grow up, you are desperate to get your father's love.
I think you can try to change yourself, go to people of the same age, not to find uncles, married men of the older generation.
Because peers are very compatible, there is no generation gap among peers.
There will also be many people your age who love you.
If I can help you, please give, thank you.
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It is indeed a bit of a psychological problem, it may be the influence of the original family, since you have discovered this problem, you should take a timely **, find a psychologist to talk about it, and reduce the impact of the original family on you. In modern society, it is normal to find a psychiatrist, do not have a burden, and bravely face the past in order to get out of the past.
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It's not a psychological problem. This should be a manifestation of the lack of fatherly love since childhood, and the inner desire for security.
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Maybe it's like, why don't you look for your peers, don't their financial conditions meet your requirements? Or do you feel insecure.
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You lack fatherly love, so you like uncles, uncles, change your mentality, and get along with boys of your own age.
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You lack fatherly love, you want to be cared for, you are insecure, you want to have someone to rely on.
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Always? It seems that you have more than once, but the result is that you are injured, it may be related to your original family, are you a single parent?
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Not count! The charm of a mature man is more attractive to some young girls.
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I guess it's a lack of love in this part.
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Liking married men is actually the potential to be a little 3.
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It's a father-lover complex, only by slowly adjusting your mentality!
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Wait a minute, there's always someone you like! Good things always come last!
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From a psychological point of view, there are three possibilities: 1: he has interests in him that you can't let go of, 2: some of his places or an encounter makes you feel very warm and romantic, and you don't want it to be a fleeting comet light3:
You are in an emotional entanglement, and perhaps you have not let go of it and feel like you are dead.
But this person walks into your world when you're hurting and gives you some security.
That's what it should be, and it's a more pertinent and human answer.
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It doesn't matter if it's a psychological problem, it's important to like an uncle who is not married or has regained his freedom, otherwise, your love life should be magnificent. Women can't stand the toss, like flowers and beautiful couples, they can't stand the flow of water, it's better to be bland.
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A normal problem, the father-lover complex, is something that many girls have.
When you grow up, become psychologically mature, and have your own life, your own boyfriend, and your husband's family, you will feel that it was good to be young.
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No... Actually, you're more precocious.
I don't like my peers, I feel insecure, I am naïve...
The normal manifestations of puberty... It's okay... It'll be fine when you're older.。。
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There's nothing wrong with that, it's just a matter of personal preference.
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Come to me, Uncle Apocalypse awaits you. Guarding for you
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Analysis:
This is an unruly relationship, do you think you will be happy when you come together, can you stand the eyes of the world.
Guidance: Divorce if you can. If you can't, live your life with peace of mind and love your husband and children well. Everyone likes to appreciate different people at different stages, and the key is how you grasp it.
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Psychologically speaking, everyone has some degree of father-love or mother-love complex, which is too normal, and it can be said that if there is none, it is not a person. Your situation is a little stronger than usual, and it is also because the absence of fatherly love makes you want a fatherly role to fill it, and it is still normal to enjoy the feeling of being included and free. In fact, it is not impossible to be with a man who is more than ten years older, but the problem is that you are only 15 years old, and not being fully mature mentally will make you absolutely weak from any point of view.
On the other hand, even if the uncle is sucked over, it is nothing more than to make you young. In short, the mental gap is too big, and it is too easy to be used and hurt.
Seeing that your conversation is indeed a bit precocious, you can have the opportunity to contact more young men in their twenties to see if they feel it. But how mature it is is not necessarily, at least the love of uncle always shows that women's consciousness is not mature, but they are brave to express their desires and ideas, but they don't feel that they want to be a person who has the ability to give to others, and when they encounter love, they still feel that they have to put themselves in a role to be taken care of.
In fact, it is not necessary to spend too much time thinking about these at this age, after all, love is not the main thing. A 15-year-old girl has a good time, so it is better to study hard, cultivate hobbies, and cultivate herself. Anyway, you're not interested in men of the same age, wouldn't it be cooler to be the queen of the iceberg?
Make yourself very good, and from now on, uncle or Zhengtai will be with you.
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Maybe it's because your father treats you badly, so you crave fatherly love, and pin this affection on someone who is much older than you and is good to you.
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It's normal for you to always like older men, because a person's personality and life habits are different, and there is a strange ingredient, and older people have a sense of maturity and security.
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Prove that you are more mature, it is better to find a man who is older than yourself, who can take care of you, and I also like to be older than myself.
Older than himself, he has more social experience, knows how to deal with things, and understands more than those of his peers. Find someone who is similar to yourself, isn't it tiring that both of you are naïve when you encounter something? Maybe you're a bit of a father-lover. Maybe your father's image of calm and tolerant has influenced you.
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Maybe it's because you hate your father, so you think about your father's favor in the deepest part of your heart, but your father may not be very fond of you, so you transfer this kind of plot to someone else, but you don't find out about it.
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It is estimated that you have a kind of dependence, and you like to rely on a mature man who is older than you, but heroes are teenagers, and some teenagers are still OK, age doesn't mean anything, the key is yourself.
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At your age, you always want to be in a movie.
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Age is not a problem, the question is whether you love that person or not.
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This is rare. Look at boys of the same age. Try to fall in love with you boy. Hopefully it will get better.
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Ignore him, and he'll come to you when the time comes. If you contact him, he will understand that you can see through and eat?! You should have your own life, entertainment, and circle of friends, and read more books if you have nothing to do.
It's only a matter of time before he's 100% looking for you. The game between men and women has to know how to calm down. It doesn't matter if he's a married man or an unmarried man, don't ask me how I know, baby.
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Don't fall into it, after all, they are married and have a marriage relationship protected by law. If a man ignores you, it means that he cares more about his family.
So, let's open it
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Yes, why would you want to destroy someone else's family? Xiao San is the most hateful! Don't be a junior, immoral!
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Hello. The zodiac sign represented by the crossroads is the --- rat As we all know, the rat is not a very good sign in people's minds, but it impresses with its wit, flexibility, intelligence, and humor. For those who belong to the genus "rat", it is better to choose a character with a cursive prefix or a single person, because traditionally, these characters can protect it well.
Such as:
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Everyone has the right to love.
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You should be sensible, there are good men in the world, those amorous beautiful young men are waiting for you!
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This is not right, in fact, there are better men waiting for you.
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Personally, I think it's admiration because he's so good.
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Yes, it's your heart that's at work.
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