Why do children always look down on the clothes they buy?

Because children don't know how to buy clothes, they want to buy when they see what they like a little, but when they see other people wearing clothes that are in the same category as this one, but the style is different, it is easy to think that other people's clothes look good and don't look down on the clothes they bought.

Because the clothes that children look at first glance may not be the most suitable for them, just like when we buy clothes, we often don't like them after we buy them.

Because children always like the new and hate the old, and have no idea when choosing, they buy it casually, and then when they go home, they don't like it when they look at it, and such children have problems with their choices.

There are many parents who will buy clothes for their children when they are young, but after parents buy back the clothes, the children may feel that the clothes are not particularly good-looking, in fact, this is also a very normal phenomenon. After the child reaches a certain age, he will know how to love beauty, if parents are using their own aesthetics to buy some clothes for their children, it will also make the children not very like, so when the child reaches the age of four, parents can let the child choose some clothes by themselves.

After the age of four, children will have something they like. At this time, we can also let the children choose their favorite clothes, especially like some little girls, who have known to love beauty since they were young, and now the children are mature and relatively early. By the age of four, they already know what kind of brand of clothes they like.

We can usually take our children out to go shopping more often, so that children can choose clothes according to their preferences, so that children can also cultivate their sensitivity to aesthetics from an early age.

If we let the child choose by himself, we can also cultivate the child's independence, and can promote the child's intelligence, and we find that many parents will choose some clothes for their children by themselves. But if we choose clothes for our children, it may not be very good for them to like them very much, and it is not good if parents do everything for their children. Parents too much to help their children choose some things, will make children rely on their parents very strongly, so we should let children choose their own clothes, especially some little girls know how to love beauty when they grow up, let children choose some clothes by themselves, but also can make children look less rustic.

The aesthetics of parents and children are very different, and if parents always choose some clothes for their children, it is also likely that children will not like it so much. Because every child likes things are different, and parents like things that children may not like, don't impose your own ideas on your children, let children do something they like, this is the most important thing, we must let children have more opportunities to choose.

Don't look at the child is small, the child actually has his own personal feelings, the child says that it is super ugly, and you can guide it from the perspective he likes. And children are sometimes affected by a momentary emotion, you can say, baby, look, this pattern of this dress is so cute, what kind of hero is it, it is a lot of monsters, or it is a lot of magic monsters, so that the baby is full of expectations for clothes, and he will change his mind!

You can take the clothes off and then take the child to choose a piece of clothing, you should choose a child who likes it more, so that the child is more confident when wearing it.

You can discuss with the child that we will wear this dress this time, and when you buy clothes in the future, let you go and pick them yourself, I believe that no matter what kind of clothes the child picks out, they like to wear.

Hello, I think the clothes have been bought back if the child is not very like, you can try to match the child, let the child see the highlights of the dress, you can also make some jewelry matching and use some jewelry to make some improvements, personal advice if the child has his own opinion, when choosing clothes for the child, you can properly refer to the child's opinion, the child and parents can communicate and discuss, choose both suitable and favorite clothes.

You can say to your child, "This time mom didn't buy the clothes you liked, so she will wear them first, and then the next time mom buys clothes with you, she will take you with her and let you choose the clothes you like, do you think it's okay?" "Then she will feel happy that next time she can choose her own clothes.

Understand what your child sees first"Good looking"What is it? What is good-looking and what is not good-looking is that children are judged according to their own feelings, and parents can guide their children"Pretty clothes in my eyes"How it is. Second, divert attention and let your child talk about himself and what is great.

Build a sense of pride in your child.

Hello, buy new clothes for your child, the child says it's super ugly, you can take the child to buy it, let the child choose it himself, adults don't make decisions for the child.

When the child is older, he has his own ideas, he is assertive, and the child behaves differently at each stage of growth, which means that he has his own aesthetics, so that parents can buy clothes for their children and let them choose by themselves.

You can go to the place where you buy with your child to change into a set of clothes that your child likes. When buying clothes in the future, don't buy them according to your own taste, but match them according to the actual situation of your child. It is to match the appropriate color of clothes according to the child's skin tone.

First of all, congratulations, the child has developed his own judgment. He already has his own aesthetic point of view. You can start by describing the merits of this dress and the reason why you fell in love with it at the time. Guide your child slowly.

If you buy clothes for your child, you must take your child to the store, you can try it to see what type he likes, if you buy it online, you can let your child choose it himself, so that the child will be happier and like it very much.

In fact, for the child's clothing, you should not be too disciplined by the child, you should help him buy it according to his own hobbies, and if he thinks it looks good, he will help him buy it so that he has the right to choose independently in advance, which is also good for his future.

When buying clothes for your child, you must respect your child's opinion, otherwise he is unwilling to wear them, you can return them and buy another one according to her preferences.

Because children also have to wear it, it is necessary to respect the wishes of children. You can tell him that this time he didn't think it through, and if he doesn't like it, let the child make his own choice next time.

If the child is older, he will have his own aesthetics and preferences, so if parents buy clothes for their children, they can choose according to the style and color that the child likes. You can let your child wear it first and buy clothes next time, you can take your child with you and let your child decide what kind of clothes to buy.

It is a natural thing to buy clothes for your child, as a parent who likes it, it is a natural thing to buy it for your child, but if the child says that it is ugly, it means that your aesthetics are not necessarily, and it is recommended to take your child to buy it next time.

When children reach a certain age, they have their own aesthetic sense, so when buying clothes for children, it is best for us to be able to take them with us to choose. It would be better that way. If he finds this dress ugly and you force him to wear it, he will feel uncomfortable in his heart.

The child thinks that the clothes you buy are not good-looking, which means that the child has his own aesthetics, and he can ask the child's advice before buying clothes.

Explain that the child has his own aesthetic point of view, so he can take the child out to buy it next time, which can improve the child's subjective ability, and will also bring the family relationship between mother and child closer.

You can say this to your child, isn't this dress very good-looking! You don't like it now, and when you wear it later, your friends will say it looks good.

When the child is older, he has his own aesthetics, and when you buy clothes for the child, it is best to take the child with you to see what he likes, and next time you will know what the child likes to buy.

Now that children are more mature in their minds and have their own ideas, as parents should solicit their children's ideas, and cannot impose their own ideas on their children, which will be very embarrassing and will also affect the parent-child relationship.

When taking children to buy clothes, you can try to choose clothes by yourself, and parents can give appropriate reference opinions, so that children's aesthetics can be cultivated.

Since I was a child, my mother took me to the mall to buy clothes, because my aesthetic is different from my mother's, and my mother always chooses new clothes for me according to her own standards, so every time I wear those "nasty" clothes, my heart is always not good.

Last summer, my height improved by leaps and bounds, and my previous clothes were shorter, so I discussed with my mother about buying new clothes, but my mother said to me: "You have grown up and have your own ideas, you can ask a few classmates to choose together." When I heard this, I jumped for joy.

Subsequently, I immediately called two of my best friends, and couldn't wait to come to the clothing counter of Shangsheng which field Pei lead, there are so many types of clothes in it, each piece of clothing looks very beautiful, I will look at this for a while, look at that for a while, almost all over the clothing counter of the entire shopping mall, but I still can't make up my mind, I don't know which one to choose, and some clothes although I like it very much, but ** some high, I am still hesitant to buy. If Mom had been around, she would have slashed the merchant's bid. No way, we just walked around the mall for more than an hour, and the two friends who came with me shouted again and again, no way, I had to accompany them to the bench on the first floor to sit on the bench for a while, and rest.

Suddenly, I saw a person on the other side selling clothes at a discounted price! There are 20, 30, 40, the most ** clothes sell for 50 yuan, I suddenly felt my eyes light up, and hurriedly ran over to see what was going on, and finally found the kind of clothes I wanted in the 30 yuan column of clothes, I didn't think much about it, and bought it happily. I thought:

When I bought such cheap and good clothes, my mother will definitely praise me.

When I got home, I was in a hurry to take out my clothes and show them to my mother, who touched them with her hand, smiled and said, "You! Buying clothes only considers the style and **, but ignores its quality, the clothes feel not very good, and will pill after washing, however, you are the first to buy clothes by yourself, and you also know that you want to save consumption, it is already rare, after such an experience, I believe that in the future, you will be able to do better.

After listening to my mother's words, my heart was both sad and happy, no matter what, this first experience of buying clothes is also a small episode on my growth path, and I will slowly grow up in every big and small grind.

It is said that the first pot of gold in life should be given to parents, if it is very filial at work, just don't object, and children also have their own aesthetic standards to understand.

Every year after New Year's Day and before New Year's Day, my mother would always take advantage of the weekend to buy me new clothes. The clothes my mother bought were beautiful, comfortable and durable. When other classmates showed off their famous brands, I thought that my mother's clothes were the best.

This year, my mother had something to do temporarily, and my mother hesitated for a moment, then turned around and asked me: "Geng'er, my mother has something to do today, can you go and buy clothes by yourself?" "I was a little excited, but I was also a little hesitant.

I've never bought clothes on my own, can I buy them. "It's fine. There is a first time for everything.

My mother read my thoughts and encouraged. My mom gave me the money and told me how to go to the place where the clothes were sold, told me my size, and repeatedly told me to give her a ** when I arrived. I thought about it for a while, and then I agreed to stop my mother.

Mom was relieved and went out.

I took the money my mother had left behind and got on the bus alone. I felt a little uneasy in my heart. When I arrived at the station, I jumped out of the car and hurriedly called my mother.

Then I found the place with the help of a kind aunt. I was dazzled by the variety of clothes. I tried to recall my mother's usual movements, looking around and shouting, and finally chose three clothes that I liked:

a red down jacket, worn during the New Year; a blue sweatshirt; A cyan sweater.

I returned with a full load and was complimented by my mother. I laughed.

1. Accept and understand children.

Affirm the child's aesthetic concept of things, what you want is very good, but we can appreciate it, we don't have to have it. There are so many good things in the world that we can't take them all for ourselves.

First affirm and accept the child's emotions, let the child's emotions be placed, and then the parents make suggestions, it will be more conducive to acceptance, directly refuse to say no, the child will turn the corner for a while, and will fight according to reason.

2. Distinguish whether there is a desired state value.

Discuss with your child whether they really need to have it, and if they already have similar items at home, we use them well, and it's just a waste to buy them, then we can not buy them. If not, the child's reasonable requirements can be appropriately accommodated as the family's financial conditions allow.

If the items that the child wants are too expensive for the ordinary family to afford, tell him frankly: "If you buy what you want, our family's life will be affected, and even enter a state of financial deficit, and we will not be able to make ends meet." "By the way, popularize the concept of financial management to children and achieve rational consumption.

3. Establish a correct comparison mentality.

The psychology of comparison is correctly guided to the aspect of rational competition, not in material enjoyment, than magnanimity, but in other spiritual aspects, such as spiritual wealth, academic excellence, there is a saying that "no new clothes than ambition," inner wealth is richer than simple material enjoyment.

At the same time, tell children that even if we don't have strong enough financial ability now, we hope that through future efforts and struggles, we can create better happiness, and we still have the ability to help others, and sometimes it is happier to give than to receive.