My boyfriend is more homely and doesn t go out during the day, what should you do?

Updated on society 2024-08-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think it's too painful to have this kind of boyfriend.,It's really bad to complain if you don't want to go when you play together.,I also like to go out on vacation.,If he really doesn't want to go, find a friend.,But sometimes not all friends have time.,In fact, it's your boyfriend who spends the most time with you.。 I feel that many men don't want to spend money and don't want to spend money on their girlfriends, so they say they don't want to go because they don't have money, or they are really poor and have no money, or they don't pick it, if they don't have any income in school, it's understandable, but it's really hard to work like this.

    If I find your kind of boyfriend, I can endure it for a while at first, because I love him, and then if I say that everything is ruined and my love for him is exhausted, I may not be able to stand the breakup, really, because your three views are not very consistent, even if you can get married, it will be very painful in the future, one wants to stay at home to save money, the other wants to go out to play, and in the future you ask him to give him money to go out to play, he will find a bunch of excuses not to go. Everyone has to spend so much money in a lifetime, money is always lacking, and the excuse of saving money without money can be used for a lifetime. If I really want to go, even if I don't make much, I can save money to play, and I can save money when I go to school.

    Actually, I think the boy is straight, because he is more selfish. Prioritize thinking about yourself in everything, many things boys don't know, they don't want to do it, so they are told straight by girls, in fact, he is pretending to be stupid.

    You can observe it first, or many boys like to go out and play with female tickets, I think the most important thing is to find a hobby that is consistent, so that everyone can get along comfortably. Isn't falling in love just to be happy every day, if you are resentful and tired together, it is actually very draining on the feelings of two people. I think the subject should communicate with his boyfriend about this problem first, see how he reacts, if he really loves you, he will make changes for you, if you still go your own way.

    However, life is not all about love, he ignores you and you can find something to do and play your own. Hahaha,Look at the subject's boyfriend.,Why are you looking for him, he feels troublesome.,I don't know why he wants to fall in love.,And criticize girls or something.,It's estimated that he hasn't been in love.,It's going to be bad for society to find a girlfriend after breaking up.,By the way, I want to ask the downstairs owner what you like about him.。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    A person who always likes to stay at home and not go out is socially phobic or obsessed with online games. You should take the initiative to go out to him, buy groceries, go for a walk in the park or play ball, etc., because it is not good to stay at home all the time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Invite your boyfriend to the movies, go to a party, or go on a picnic together, and if it doesn't work, you can choose to adapt to him instead of changing him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I would take my boyfriend out for a walk, because I think it's a bad habit for us to be at home, and I should also let him go out and exercise more, which is good for his health.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should communicate with the other party accordingly, and you should also let the other party go out for a walk, so that the other party's health will get better and better, and the immunity will also be improved.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The boyfriend is an otaku who doesn't like to go out, but he likes to go out and play very much, and at this time the girl can consider whether she can accept a person's trip. If a girl thinks that falling in love is hoping to find someone to travel with her, she should think about whether to continue to be with the other person. Because the other party obviously can't meet the girl's requirements, instead of wasting time on the other party, it is better to choose to find someone who is really suitable for you, so that you will not delay the other party's time.

    If you are in love because you like each other, rather than asking them to travel with you, you can consider finding a compromise solution, such as a reasonable distribution of vacations between the two parties. You can spend the holiday in a separate way, you can stay at home with your boyfriend at the beginning of the holiday, and you can ask your boyfriend to go out with you during the next vacation. Excessive confinement may not be a good way to live, and girls can also choose to make changes with their boyfriends at this time.

    Falling in love is the process of constantly getting closer to each other, in which both parties will accept some of each other's shortcomings, and they can use the time to fall in love for a good run-in. Girls can try to play games with their boyfriends at home, and boys also need to change their behavior at home. Both people should make changes for this, not just one person for all the problems.

    In the continuous running-in, the two sides can always reach a balance, and this is the best way for two people to get along. If there is still no way to solve the problem after trying many run-ins, the girl should consider whether to continue the relationship, because persevering may end up with a very painful result for both people, so it is better to choose to stop the loss in time at this time. It is true that you should accommodate each other when you fall in love, but if this accommodation makes you unhappy, there is no need to continue to wronged yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think this situation is also very normal, don't be too anxious, you can communicate with your boyfriend, let him go out with you, let him contact your friends, and get closer to each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You must learn to understand, don't force your boyfriend at this time, but also communicate actively, and sometimes let your boyfriend take a step back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At this time, you should seek a balance between the two, in the other person's leisure, you can pull the other person out to feel the world, let him get in touch with nature, let him become less homely, which is conducive to the enhancement of your relationship, and also achieve your purpose of going out to play.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should communicate with your boyfriend in a timely manner, tell your boyfriend that if you don't go out during the day, you will suffocate yourself, let your boyfriend accompany you out shopping, and let your boyfriend go out to breathe.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be sure to talk to your boyfriend about it, hoping that your boyfriend can go out with you, such as going to the playground, for example, going shopping, and your girlfriend will drive your boyfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can ask him why he doesn't go out, ask him to go outside with him, breathe fresh air, and the two of them can go outdoors to play together, or they can choose to go shopping.

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