Before the child is three years old, is it more important for the mother to take the child at home w

Updated on parenting 2024-08-10
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    <> many mothers will always linger for a problem after giving birth, on the one hand, they want to give their children better companionship and education, on the other hand, they are worried that they will be disliked by their husbands if they do not go to work, and even very worried that they are out of touch with the whole society, this problem has become a contradiction for many women, so after giving birth, should they take the child at home or go to work?

    Take the kids at home or go to work.

    This has a lot to do with the lack of necessary respect and recognition for stay-at-home mothers in society. Once we understand the importance of motherhood in the early stages of our children's growth, we must first agree with our husband that it is important to get his support to make him understand the value of being a stay-at-home mother.

    Also, don't think about sacrificing everything for your child. Such a mentality sometimes makes stay-at-home mothers complain, and even expects their children to be grateful to themselves and unconditionally obedient to themselves, which will distort maternal love, and in the end harm the child and herself.

    What are the benefits of a mother taking her child at home.

    1. Don't worry about who will take care of the baby In fact, I believe that many working women will start to struggle after giving birth, after the baby is born, who should take care of the child?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Working at home or out of the home, it's up to you. Because in fact, no matter which one you choose, you will lose some of it, because there are gains and losses, so it is still up to you to choose, and no one is important.

    If you choose to take care of your children at home, what you will lose is definitely money and some life, but you must adjust your mentality, don't feel that you are sacrificing yourself or something, otherwise your mentality is not good, and it will also affect your children, but it is definitely best to be able to accompany you. Because it is very important to accompany before the age of three, of course, what we are talking about here is effective accompaniment, not accompaniment.

    If the family economy does not allow full-time and chooses to work outside, then the hard work must be very hard, because you have to accompany the children when you go home, so the effective companionship here is even more important. Of course, don't feel guilty about your child, compensating with money will make your child develop bad habits.

    So no matter which one you choose, remember that effective companionship is eye contact, verbal interaction, and physical contact, rather than staying in the same space and maintaining a normal mind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I am a stay-at-home mom, and I personally feel that the company of parents is very important before the child reaches the age of three.

    Nowadays, most of the children are taken care of by the elderly, although it solves the problem of our work, but we ignore the most important thing, which is the education of children and the formation of habits. The biggest disadvantage of the elderly with children is that they are too doting, so that most of the children who grow up with the elderly do not have strong self-care skills. Three-year-old children generally need to go to kindergarten, and in kindergarten, some things need to be done independently, such as going to the toilet, eating, drinking, sleeping, ......But most of the children can't do it themselves, and most of these children are also raised by the elderly.

    As a parent of a child, going out to work is also to give the child better living conditions, after all, there are children at home, the expenses have also increased, and it is all dependent on one person to go out to earn money, and the economic pressure is indeed very great. Even so, we can't ignore the education of our children, which is irretrievable no matter how much money we make, because children's childhood is only once.

    In some families, it is also because life is forced to be helpless, that both of them will go out to work. This is understandable. And some families are also more special, that is, the elderly in the family can't help bring it, so they can only bring it themselves, and they are forced to be a full-time mother, and I am one of them.

    At first, I was bored and depressed, and sometimes I got up in the middle of the night and sat at the end ......of the bed crying silentlyI am sad that I am useless, I am sad that my family does not understand, and I am sad that I have lost my ...... of value since then

    However, what the child brings to you is infinite Kyoki. When you see an innocent smile, you forget about what makes you unhappy.

    Stay-at-home moms are also valuable and achievable, and your fulfillment comes from your children. Because you teach your children very well and take good care of them, that's enough.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Before the child is three years old, it is more important for the mother to take the child at home to accompany the child. When a mother takes care of her child at home, she not only has physical companionship for her child, but also emotional companionship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Before the child is three years old, it is more important for the mother to take the child at home to accompany the child, which is good for the child's physical and mental health, and there is not only physical companionship with the child, but also emotional companionship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is more important for the mother to take care of the child at home before the child is three years old. Because parents have an obligation to raise their children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello: It is important for the child to take the child at home to accompany the child before the age of three, because the child is still young before the age of three, and he is not sensible, the mother needs to accompany the child to take care of him and educate him, which is more important for the child's growth, and the work can be chosen after the age of three, and the child will be better in kindergarten.

    Therefore, before the child is three years old, it is important for the mother to take the child at home to accompany the child! Hope it helps, hope, thank you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Before the child is three years old, of course, it is more important for the mother to take the child at home with the child, because at the same time with the child, you can also have emotional communication and interaction with the child, in fact, the child is also very important after the age of three, even if the mother works, it is necessary to spend more time with the child, because this period is the time when the child's brain develops and needs to be developed, and it needs the company of mother and father, so whether it is a full-time mother or a full-time working mother, you must have a certain amount of time to accompany the child, not only to have physical companionship, But also to have emotional companionship, so that the child's childhood will be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Before the child is three years old, the mother takes the child at home to accompany the child is the first, try not to go out to work, of course, if there is a child to see the child, you have to go out to work, after all, life is the first place, life can not guarantee how to educate the child is best to bring it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's more important to spend time with your children. It is important to go out to work to support the family, but in the life of a child, the company of the mother is even more important. From birth to growth, there is a new change every day for the little ones, and if you miss it, you will really regret it.

    You can find a job at any time, but missing out on your child's growth will never make up for it. Therefore, it is more important for the mother to accompany the child.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Before the child is three years old, if someone helps take care of the child, the mother still tries to go out to work. If there is no one to help, it is better for the mother to accompany the child as much as possible, and when the child can go to kindergarten, the mother will look for a job.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Before the child is three years old, it is important for the mother to take the child to accompany the child or to go out to work, it is said that it must be important to accompany the child, because the child needs maternal care during the growth period, and it is also easy to be hurt when he is not sensible when he is a child, so it is best for adults to accompany him, but some people may have to go out to work, after all, it is not easy to support a family.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Before the child is three years old, the mother takes care of the child at home, and it is more important to accompany the child than to work, because the child before the age of three will have no sense of security, and there is a need for intelligence. Having the company of the mother at this time will make the child's body and mind return to health. Refusal to marry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Before the child is three years old. Or accompanied by my mother. More important. Much more important than your job. Because the period between the first and third years of the child's life is the most important stage of her life's growth. It must be taken seriously.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Before the child is three years old, it is important for the mother to take the child at home with the child, or it is important to go out to work, my answer is that it is important to accompany the child, because the first three years of the child is the best period for character decision, if you miss the time when you want to cultivate it in the future, it will be difficult to cultivate the child before the age of three, in fact, it is difficult to manage, he needs the company of his parents very much, which cannot be replaced by others! If you want to earn money, if you can live in a good way, you should consider taking care of your children first.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Before the child is three years old, it is best for the mother to take the child at home and accompany the child. Don't go out to work. It is very important for parents to accompany their children.

    Also, our responsibility to our children. Since you have a child, you have to raise your child by yourself. Don't push your child to someone else.

    My son went to work on his own.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Before the child is three years old, is it more important for the mother to take the child at home with the child or to go out to work? In fact, people who can ask this question feel that they can grow up with their children at home with their children, but if they say that the children are brought by someone, it is better to go out to work, because the children are gradually growing up and spend a lot of money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is more important for the child to go out to work before the age of three, and he can take two days off, and the child's education can not be left behind, but if he is only at home as a full-time mother with the child. It's so inconvenient to spend money and haven't asked my husband for it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Before the child was three years old, I thought it was more important to take care of the child, because after the age of three, the child grew up, and he had a great impulse to find the outside world to find others to play with, and before the age of two or three, there were only fathers and mothers in his world. Now the company of mom and dad is the most important thing. After these three years, he also needs the company of his parents, but he needs it to a different extent.

    The first three years are of course the most difficult time to be a mother.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Before the child is three years old, the mother should stay at home with the child. More important than going out to work. Because children need the company of their parents. You can't leave your children alone just because you go to work. Since you are born, you have to raise yourself and fulfill your responsibilities.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Before the child is three years old, it is important for the mother to stay at home with the child, because the age of 3 is the critical period for the child to establish a sense of security, and if the mother is not around, the child will lack a sense of security.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If possible, it is best to take the children at home. Because this requires the child to experience the relationship between mother and child. If you give your children to your grandparents or grandparents, they will take your children the same way they used to take you.

    And the older generation will dote on your children, which is not conducive to the growth of children.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is recommended that the mother should take the child at home, accompany the child, and give the child a full memory and companionship, which is the best, better than going out to work, and more conducive to the child's growth.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Before the age of three, it is very important for the mother to take care of the child at home, but the more important thing is her own economic foundation, if your economic foundation is not good, it is very hard to accompany the child so it is more necessary to work while accompanying the child, rather than simply just need the same, so the mother has become a superman.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the economic conditions allow, you still have to take care of your children at home, before the age of 3 children are the strongest learning and imitation ability, so parents need to take the time to teach by example, so that children can develop a good character will be used to.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Before the child is three years old, the mother takes care of the child at home, takes the child well, reduces the pain, develops normally, grows up healthily, and has a good physical fitness in life in the future, which is helpful for learning officials.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That is, before the child is three years old. It is not yet the age to enter kindergarten, so during this time mom should too. It will be more important to go out to work.

    Because only when the mother works outside, the family's income will be more, and it will bring better to the children. The conditions and environment for learning and living. And the mother will only grow in knowledge when she is exposed to the outside, and the child is at home.

    There are others, such as grandparents, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents. With care. A well-watched child will.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think that no matter how old the child is, the mother either chooses to take care of the child at home, or still chooses to work, the two are not in conflict, because if you are at home with the child, at least there is a kind of um, more cordial to the child, and it will be better for your own education, but the same work is also very important, because if you have three years at home, it is easy to be out of touch with society, so um, it does not prevent me from going out to work before the child is three years old, I think if the time arrangement is reasonable, You can still spend more time with your child.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Before the child is three years old, it is very important for the mother to be at home with the child. Because the child needs the mother's breastfeeding, the child has the mother's company, and the child has a sense of security. If your situation doesn't allow it, you can't do anything, Bi Jing can't do everything as he wants.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yu Ma replied: Hello, I am Yu Ma.

    Experts say that the first three years old must be taken by the mother, is it important to work or to accompany the child in the first three years?

    If you don't consider the financial pressure, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and possible marital problems, it is indeed very good, because the mother's degree of care is definitely higher than that of others. But not all mothers are good at taking care of their children, and not all mothers can follow in the footsteps of their children to grow up to be able to take care of their children, from this point of view, mothers are not necessarily the best choice to take care of children.

    But from the perspective of cultivating parent-child affection, of course, it would be better for the mother to bring it herself.

    Work is also very important, because if it brings a higher income, it will have more choices for children to go to school in the future, and it will be good for children in the long run. On the other hand, if the mother brings it herself, it will be very good for the child's parent-child relationship cultivation, personality, habit cultivation, and even early education, and the education of the first three years can affect the child for a long time or even a lifetime.

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