What problems are reflected behind the formation of a sycophant group of parents?

It reflects the anxiety of education. Parents' sycophants actually stem from their love for their children, not that they are really like this, it is the real problems that force them to become like this. School education should be returned to its original position, and family education should not be allowed to take over school education excessively with the help of parent groups, and parents should also treat it rationally.

On the one hand, it is also a problem for teachers, and now there are very few teachers who complete their tasks and do things according to their own mood for the purpose of teaching and educating people. On the other hand, it is the psychology of parents, in order for their children not to be deliberately bullied by teachers, in order to make teachers happy and take care of them, patting on the back is a last resort but also ridiculous.

Ingratiating favor with each other, following others, and taking advantage of small selfish interests. Flattering can make the relationship harmonious, but some people just don't get along with the actual people, or they just want to get something from others.

They all hope that teachers will pay more attention to their children. Parents regard their children as very important, and their children's education is also very important, and hope that their children will not lose at the starting line.

Didn't understand, didn't understand at all.

This is a crooked trend, I don't know what these parents think, it's a bit strange.

It's good to refuse directly, whoever wants to give it to buy it for themselves, ignoring it is a civilized approach. If it's a group pulled by the parents themselves, it's good to leave the group directly.

If you don't let go, just go straight to it. I can afford to buy gifts for teachers by myself, and I don't need to pool money with you.

The characters in the parents who can stir up the storm and respond to every call, you just don't give anything, and no teacher who has a little bit of brains dares to underestimate it. Your voice has not only gotten rid of the exploitation of bad people and prevented the growth of unhealthy tendencies in the living space, but also set things right, won public opinion, and established prestige.

Where there are people, there will be politics, and it takes no less energy to maintain a circle of peddlers and pawns than it takes to balance a group of top people.

In my opinion, the existence of parent groups is reasonable, and as the saying goes, existence is reasonable.

The existence of the parent group fully shows that their current identity is Bao Ma.

Daddy. When their own babies start school, they should take on the responsibility of being parents, and then there is the establishment of a parent group, I am just here to express my own views and opinions, the existence of a parent group is reasonable, my views are mainly as follows:

First of all, the tasks of most school teachers are still relatively heavy, the school's activities, the organization of the class's activities, etc., so there is a need for such a group to manage the class, and the teacher himself does not have the time and energy to manage, so the establishment of a parent group by the parents themselves to manage it has become inevitable.

Secondly, the main role of the parent group is to facilitate the first time to notify each parent of the school or teacher news, because the teacher does not have time to notify one by one, whether it is to notify or assign students' homework, just inform it directly in the parent group. There are also some topics that need to be discussed by parents can also be carried out in the parent group, because after all, there are many people in the group, and the general discussion takes a long time, so everyone can also express their opinions and express their thoughts and opinions in the group.

On top of that, there are some problems with the parent group, such as some <>

Parents will feel that parents who always send notices to assign homework in the group are busier than teachers, parents also have their own work to do, and they really don't have time to take care of so much information, and sometimes they are criticized in the group if they reply to the message late or do not reply in time, so they will question whether the existence of parents is convenient for parents or adds blockage to parents, and even some parents openly shout and abuse in the parent group because of a little joke between children, and the impact is particularly bad, so some people think that it is better not to use the parent group.

To sum up, as long as the parent group has good management and guidance, it is still necessary to exist, but it is not easy to say that it is really difficult to manage well, and both parents and teachers must pay serious attention to make the existence of the parent group reasonable.

The existence of the parent group is reasonable, and after having a parent group, everyone knows what the teacher has to post directly in the group, and it also saves the teacher a lot of things.

It is particularly reasonable, parents can have a good communication in life, and they can find teachers together for anything, so that the efficiency will be higher.

I think it is very reasonable, because then parents can know more quickly about the situation of students in school, and they can also handle related business.

I hope that teachers can pay more attention to their children and ask more questions about their children in class, after all, everyone likes to say good things, and patting the teacher's sycophants is just to make the children pay more attention.

Most of these parents who pat on the back in the parent group do not praise the teacher from the heart, but want to make the teacher more attentive to their children and take more care of their children through the praise of the teacher.

I want the teacher to be happy and let the teacher remember me, so that I can pay more attention to my own children during class, so that my children can do well in school.

It is for the good of the children to pat the teacher, and it is for the teacher to take care of his own children, so there are many people who praise the teacher.

I am a transparent person in the parent group, and I rarely speak, at most I receive two words. I don't think there's any need to pat a teacher on the back, because it's the teacher's responsibility to teach and educate people, and every student should be treated equally.

I should be a transparent person, complete the tasks assigned by the teacher, and usually have no superfluous words, and I really can't say sycophants.

I am a transparent person in the parent group, because I am not good at sycophants, and I don't want to attract too much attention, and the purpose of the teacher's parent group is to reflect the students' learning, not to listen to their sycophants.

I am a transparent person in the parent group, and I try not to attract the attention of teachers and other parents, because I can't be sycophants or flatterers, so I can only choose to be a transparent person.

I'm a transparent person, I'm not good at sycophancy, I don't think there's any need for that, because the key to learning is your own children, if the child is not motivated, it's useless to pat the teacher's sycophant.

I'm still studying. But personally, I would rather be a "transparent person" than pat the teacher's ass, which is not necessary, as long as the message sent by the teacher is received, there is no need to echo anything.

I don't think it's necessary.

But can parents really get the attention of teachers for such behavior? For example, in the group, the teacher issued a notice, and some parents simply sent a receipt, which would be appropriate, but some parents "did not give up" and seized the opportunity to speak, so they talked about the world, praised the teacher's good education, and the school's management methods were advanced.

The "rainbow fart" blurted out, and some parents even spent money to "buy education".

I think that this kind of behavior is very stupid, as a parent of a child, there should be a parent in the parent group, to appear mature and steady, so as to reflect the family's education of a child, so that the teacher will look at his child differently through the words and deeds of the parents. This kind of communication mode of parent group is positive and healthy.

Every parent will have the idea of letting teachers pay attention to their children, but asking for attention is not only a way to ask the teacher about learning and education, parents can also let their children perform better in school, and seek the attention of teachers through their own efforts.

I think it's completely optional.,To be honest, in fact, the blessing template copied and pasted in the group.,I don't want to see it.,Not to mention that the head teacher handles so many things in a day.,Washing the board and swiping the screen will only increase the teacher's workload.。 If you want to bless, it is enough to be sincere and simple, and it is enough to educate children to respect teachers and study hard, and there is no need to send the same message with the team.

You can choose to ignore it, because if such parents happen to make the teacher happy, then the teacher may pay more attention to your child next semester, but if you don't do a good job of sycophancy, it will backfire and make the teacher feel upset, so that your child will also be implicated. So it's best not to pat the teacher's ass, as long as the child's academic performance is good, then the teacher will naturally pay more attention to your child.

Now everyone will learn to pat the fart, if you don't have the ability, you can go to the appropriate fart, but don't do it for a long time, the fart is divided into situations, if you only know the fart, it will also be disgusting, not only can not achieve the expected effect, but also backfire, we pursue everything in a down-to-earth manner.

I believe that there is no need to pat the horse, and it is okay to send a blessing to the homeroom teacher during the New Year's holiday. There's no need to follow the trend, and don't care too much about this problem anymore, it's their business to make a fool of themselves, you just have to be yourself. If you think it's okay, just post it, and if you don't think it's necessary, don't bother with it.

In the parent group, parents say that the teacher's good words are actually nothing, think about the teacher's hard work to educate their children, the dedication is not a little bit or two, and it is natural for parents to say some words of gratitude! You treat this as a sycophant, I don't think it's appropriate, you need to adjust your mentality! If you are good to the teacher, you should express your feelings!

It's okay to ignore it, and in fact I'm ignoring it too. Now this kind of thing in the group is simply a strange circle, every time I enter the parent group, it seems to see a circle of Heshen, sometimes it's disgusting, I really hope that the education department can make a series of measures on this issue, in fact, if it is a teacher with morality, it should be strictly stopped at the first time, this is the right direction, like this kind of teacher who does not stop me really for the child to ignore him, are the biggest concessions I made, why should I echo.

Some people are very good at this kind of thing, just let them shoot it, we can shoot it, but there is no need for it. The teacher himself will also know very well in his heart what is good and what is bad, what is true and what is false. Ignoring this information, there is no need to follow the trend, it will only be offensive, just let them lick if they want to.

I think you can ignore it completely, if you really have this intention, you can let the child send some blessings to the teacher in private, the information in the parent group, I am a middle school teacher, I actually send this kind of message in the group I rarely pay attention to, and I see it and say some thanks at most, not related to teaching, in fact, it really doesn't matter whether it is sent or not, and the teacher will not embarrass the child because of this.

In fact, I won't follow this kind of thing, I won't follow the trend to pat the ass, I will only choose to ignore it, because I think it's just a few years of kindergarten, in fact, it doesn't matter if a child can't go to kindergarten, after all, our older generation has never been to kindergarten before, and it is not necessarily worse than others to go directly to the first grade.

We always encounter this kind of parents to please the teacher, but you can choose to ignore it according to your own character, because the teacher is only responsible for educating the child, and you don't necessarily need to please her, you can send some blessings in the group, bless the teacher, and express your child's dedication to the teacher's education. That's not sycophancy.

For the teacher to be polite or have, after all, everyone must respect the teacher, of course, there is no need for parents to change the topic of communication between themselves and the teacher, you may feel that what you say is good, the teacher will be happy, it is estimated that the teacher is very annoying, because such words are listened to but not used, parents can supervise students to do homework every day, I think this is the most willing thing for teachers to see.

Personally, I think that as a parent, there is nothing wrong with respecting the child's teacher, and being polite to the child's teacher is also a manifestation of a person's upbringing. But there is no need to be too flattering, otherwise it will encourage some unhealthy trends.

I think it's very necessary, everyone is for their children, there is no way to become very good at sycophancy, out of politeness is the basic quality of everyone.

I think everyone is still good at talking about things, excessive sycophants are very fake and disgusting, and normal getting along is the best way to respect others and respect yourself.