Parents are upset in the parent group, and they always feel that both sides are at fault, what do yo

This is not right, because if it goes on in the long run, it will affect other parents in the group, so it is necessary to restrain it, or restrain each other, so that the overall situation is the most important, if there is still a conflict between the two parties, you can solve it privately, and then solve it after quitting the group.

If the teacher does not do it right, you can bring it up with the teacher, but it is best to solve the matter privately, if you scold the teacher in the parent group, you may be able to fight for the teacher to say sorry to you, but if the teacher is a little more radical and kicks you out of the group, then you will not be able to understand in time if there is something in the school, and it is not good for the child.

On the other hand, the teacher may not be able to realize that he has done something wrong, and then send his grievances to the child, in exchange for the child, the teacher ignores him, and continues to blame him in public as a negative teaching material. At this time, the psychological pressure on the child leads to the deterioration of the child's state in the end, is it what parents want to see?

You can talk to the teacher calmly about this issue, let the teacher know that the child likes the teacher very much and respects the teacher, and this behavior makes the child have a great misunderstanding of the teacher, which parents do not want to see. If the teacher can understand in an appropriate way, parents are cooperating with the teacher, and they are also grateful to the teacher for wanting the child to be good, and I also hope that the child can accept the teacher and learn knowledge seriously.

In fact, I think that no matter who is right or wrong, there is no need to scold each other in the parent group, and it is better to talk less and see more in the parent group.

As we grow up, we gain more and more awareness of the outside world, so when we hear some of our parents' remarks, we dare not agree with them.

1.When there is an argument, it will be said. "What privacy can you have?

In the eyes of many traditional parents, children are not worthy of privacy. They read their children's diaries, rummage through their drawers, and check their children's mobile phones. When the child tries to resist the rebuttal, the parent will always start with the sentence:

"What privacy can you have? You are all born of me. ”

In fact, parents should respect their children's privacy when they begin to become self-aware, usually at the age of two. Parents, as the most trusted people for their children, should provide their children with a sense of security. No snooping, or even disseminating the child's privacy.

Failure to respect children's privacy is serious to children, and it is more likely to cause children to be depressed and inferior, and may also run away from home or self-harm.

Smart parents should take the initiative to give their children independent private space, communicate and communicate with their children on an equal footing, there are many ways to understand their children, and peeking into the diary is the stupidest way.

2."The big ones should let the small ones! "If there are older brothers and sisters in the family, then they should choose their younger brothers and sisters unconditionally and without reason. The delicious and fun are left to the younger brothers and sisters, even if it is to the detriment of the elder brother and sister's own interests.

The younger siblings were indeed blessed, but the older siblings were seriously injured.

Our parents have always regarded "big and small" as a noble moral character propaganda and promotion, and its reason and purpose is to educate their children to be a good child who knows how to be humble. Eggplant.

But parents are easy to fall into a misunderstanding, does humility have to be "big and small"? Didn't Kong Rong make pears "small and big" in ancient times?

Besides, forced humility, is it still a virtue?

Humility should be a kind of benign interaction, so that the person who "lets" is willing, but also to make the "receiving" he grateful.

Instead of "letting" those who swallow their anger, those who "receive" should deserve it.

The key to this guidance is the concept of parents.

The big ones let the small ones, and our parents should affirm and praise them in time; The small also let the big one, and our parents should also encourage and support them.

In fact, children will have their own choices when getting along with each other, and parents should not interfere and disturb excessively.

Parents choose to respect their children's reasonable arrangements and choices, and not blindly and forcefully let their children tolerate and be humble.

I'll be a little more rational and put it in the middle. First of all, teachers and parents did not correctly understand the meaning of home-school cooperation, and did not establish a peaceful way of communication with each other and use appropriate communication skills. We all need to understand each other, respect each other, and work together to educate children.

Whichever one you think is right, you will stand on which side. I have my own thoughts, I can judge right and wrong, I support the teacher if I think the teacher is right, and point out the teacher if it is wrong, and I don't need to stand in the brigade or flatter.

Everyone must distinguish between right and wrong, and we should stand on the side of reason, not blindly follow the teacher.

I usually stand on the teacher's side, because many parents are not very reasonable, and they blindly do things according to their own ideas, which leads to conflicts.

If most of my parents' opinions are correct, then I will change them.

Emotionally, men and women are friendly in all aspects of love, and they can't get through it when they get to their parents, this problem is coming, the advice given by the parents is only, you are, the protagonist, you will maintain it together when you get married in the future, do you break up with your parents, strengthen your love, come on!