Happy children are more important than successful children, do you agree?

Now many parents are beginning to reflect on this question, is it really a good thing to make their children exceptionally good? As a result, many parents who have cultivated elite children regret it, they hate themselves for raising their children too well, and instead let their children get farther and farther away from themselves. So, parents agree thatIt is far more important for children to grow up happy than for them to succeed.

We can often see such content from the Internet: the husband and wife have worked hard to train their children to be particularly good, but the children are getting farther and farther away from their parents, and in the end, the couple is counting on the children to be happy in their later years, and even seeing the children has become a luxury.

And those children who are not so good are the biggest dependence of their parents in the second half of their lives, no one gave them such high expectations when they were young, and when they grow up, they work and live a step-by-step life, and their lives are much more down-to-earth. And it is also very important that these children often stay with their parents, which is a solid guarantee for their parents' life in their later years.

Although some children look very elite when they grow up, they have a lot of psychological problemsThe root cause of this comes from the stress caused by their parents' high expectations of them at a young age. It is a good thing to want children to become dragons, but if children are burdened with heavy burdens too early, then they will have a shadow in terms of socialization and other aspects when they become adults, and they will suffer from it for the rest of their lives.

These children may not become elites when they become adults, but they actively live in ordinary positions and enjoy the joy of life even more.

Since the Chinese population is relatively large, soMany parents are particularly anxious that their children will not have a competitive advantage in society in the future, being compared to others. They desperately enroll their children in various training courses, strictly requiring their children to do their best in everything, and in the end, the children are very tired and even have a rebellious situation. What's even more regrettable is that this child may not really become better, but may not achieve anything.

Childhood trauma takes a lifetime to mend, so why not let them grow up healthy and happy in their childhood. Most of parents' anxiety comes from their own lack of self-confidence, but let their children carry their emotional pressure, is this a bit off-track?

If you have a happy childhood, you can live a happier life in the future. There is no chance to start over in life, so give children a little space to grow freely. Success may be something that every parent wants their child to achieve, but this is not something that every child can achieve.

Taking a step back, what kind of life is considered successful, do you have to act better than others in everything?

A truly successful life should be one that has no regrets about one's life. From this point of view, happiness is the most important part of growth, and it is also something that every child can have.

I agree. I think parents must respect their children when educating them, and at the same time, they should also let their children have a happy childhood, never stifle their children's nature, and never force their children to do something.

I very much agree, because successful children are unhappy is also a sad thing, so that children grow up happily and have a perfect childhood, so that it is conducive to children's learning, in order to make children become a better person.

Yes, if a child is particularly happy in life, it will make this child live without any stress, and will become particularly cheerful and very active in everything he does.

Personally, I think that for a child, a happy childhood is definitely more important than grades, but this is not the case for parents, who will feel that grades are everything. If you don't have a good grade, you won't be able to get into a good university in the future, and you won't be able to get ahead, and you may be doing nothing in this life, which is something that parents can't accept at all. That's why they desperately force their children to study, hoping that they can realize their dreams as soon as possible.

But is this ideal really for children? I don't see it. In the past, there was a saying on the Internet that was very good, some people have done nothing in their lives, but they always hope that their next generation can soar.

If you want your child to be excellent, then you have to at least give him a leading role, you don't have a good future, why should you ask him to do this? Many parents will tell their children in one sentence, he said that it is because I have a hard life, so I want you to live a better life.

This sounds very reasonable, and we can also understand the good intentions of parents, but why impose on others what you can't do yourself? I always believe that you should give your children a happy childhood, because childhood is only once, if you are deprived, you will never have it again, this is something that you can't get back when you grow up, no matter how much money you make and how high your status is.

In fact, there are many parents who are very funny, they feel that they are very mediocre, but they can't accept the mediocrity of their children. I always feel that if they don't have a good grade, they can't hold their heads up in front of their friends and relatives, and they will feel very embarrassed. But have you ever wondered if having a parent with bad grades will make your child feel ashamed?

Since he doesn't feel ashamed to have parents like you, why do you treat him like that?

I believe that for the above question, many parents have thought about it, for their children, is it more important to give them a happy childhood, or is it more important to let them study hard and have a good grade? Because both are important, many parents are puzzled, but personally, I feel that both are equally important.

Many parents feel that a happy childhood and excellent academic performance are incompatible, because their children's time and energy are limited. When he spends all that time playing, then he doesn't have time to study. But if he had spent all his time studying, he would not have had such a happy childhood, and he would not have time to play.

But I don't think the two are in conflict, and we can have a happy childhood and excellent grades. Moreover, the relationship between a happy childhood and excellent grades is not an antagonistic relationship, but the two have a promoting effect. When your childhood is happy enough, your academic performance will be better, because when we have a happy childhood, we will develop a positive and sunny character.

When faced with a learning problem, our first reaction is not to give up, but to look for what kind of solution can solve the problem. This can improve our innovation ability and thinking expansion to a certain extent, which is very beneficial to our learning.

When the children are on vacation or when the learning tasks are not so heavy, we can take the children to take a walk around the area, take a look, let the children get close to nature, and breathe the fresh air of nature. This is still very good for children's physical and mental health, and we can get in touch with and learn many things that cannot be learned in books in nature, which is also another aspect of children's growth.

I believe that after the above introduction, you should know that a happy childhood and excellent grades are actually not in conflict. Therefore, as parents, we must do our best to let our children have a happy childhood, so that children can achieve excellent results through their own efforts.

Yes. A happy childhood is very important to promote the healthy development of children's physical and mental health, so it is more important than grades.

Yes, a happy childhood is more important than grades, if the childhood is happy, the child's academic performance will be very good, and the child's personality will be very good.

Yes, because a happy childhood affects a child's future life.

I think children are happiest when they are carefree, confident, and positive in their childhood

Giving children a happy, carefree childhood is the expectation of many parents. with those who do not let the child lose inStarting lineCompared with anxious parents, parents who advocate happy education seem to be more calm. They want their children to play more with their friends and spend their childhood in carefree happiness.

Therefore, they are usually also opposed to enrolling their children in various interest classes, and they are opposed to letting their children learn this and that, which will put pressure on their children. Therefore, they want their children to have a happy and carefree childhood.

As parents, they all want their children to live happily ever after. And a child with a happy heart must have been treated well by his parents. Every child can't choose his or her own background, but the parenting of his parents will be imprinted in the child's mind bit by bit, whether good or bad, the child can't resist.

AdlerIt has been said: Happy people are childhood** all their lives, and unfortunate people are **childhood** all their lives. I think so.

Keeping children happy may seem like a simple thing, but not all parents can do it. Encouraging the child's familyA child who can receive love, support and recognition from his parents will give birth to him in his heartThe power of the wilderness, bursting out of infinite self-confidence and a source of happiness.

A positive and sunny child is a child who is able to do things independently, who has the ability to face all kinds of difficulties in life, and can also find his place in society. Every parent wants their child to be a positive, sunny and confident child, because such a child can face all kinds of difficulties in life independently, and at the same time, he can quickly find his place in the future after entering the society.

Finding, accumulating, and reinforcing those good, positive things is a very sweet gift for a child's life. Let children have harvest and love every day, and believe that the future will be better. In short, parents should also continue to learn and grow, and work hard to cultivate a sunny and confident child.

Foreword:

What is the source of happiness? What I envy most is the carefree, purest smile on the children's faces, because their happiness seems to be endless.

In fact, this society is very realistic, and no one treats you well for no reason. Most of the people who are good to themselves are because they are your relatives, if they are not relatives, then it may be because you are helpful to them, so they will be good to you.

So in this world, only children who are really hurt and loved will be the happiest. Because someone hurts and someone loves, it means that no matter what you do, someone will pay attentionNo matter what difficulties you encounter, there are people who are willing to give you a hand. They will do their best to give you some care, and they will also give you silent companionship and love.

They will make you feel the warmth of this world, so your happiness comes from them.

Children with happy families are the happiest

There is no greater joy than having a happy family, and in fact, for children, this is the most crucial. Because everyone says that to see a happy family, it depends on whether the child is full of smiles, which is very important, because the child's happiness is the best for the family, if the family is not happy, then how can the child be happy?

My college roommate is a very optimistic person, because his parents are really good to him, and his parents are very loving people. He once told me that his father made a cake for his mom on her birthday, and this kind of scene, such warmth, is not found in ordinary families. So for me, I am also very envious of my roommate who can have a happy family, so he can be so happy every day, and a large reason is also influenced by the family.

<> if you feel unhappyThen it may be because you want too many things, but you can't satisfy yourself and achieve what you want. Sometimes I feel that I complain about myself and feel that I am very useless, such a child is not confident and unhappy.

People say that contentment is always happy, so many people can be satisfied with themselves and things, then they can actually have a happy mood. A friend of mine, he doesn't always think about the future, and he doesn't think about what he is not capable of. Standing on the stage, he is often sparkling, because every time he gives a speech, he is so colorful.

Because he's confident in himself, he puts his best foot every time and he's so happy every time.

Conclusion:

I hope that every one of you who works hard can become a happy and sunny child.

Children are the flowers of the motherland, and their growth, healthy and happy growth is related to the future of the motherland. Everyone's definition of happiness is different, what kind of children do you think are happy?

Children who are not forced by their parents to go to too many cram schools are happy; Children who have plenty of time to get in touch with nature, who can explore freely, run and sweat are happy; Those children who do not compare, know how to be grateful, and will be content are happy, because they understand the difficulties of their families, even in a difficult environment, they are neither humble nor arrogant, and can make joy in suffering, so they are happy.

Children are often innocent and curious about the world, they have endless whys and all kinds of wonderful ideas. Sometimes adults listen to it and think that their ideas are simply ridiculous, or that they think it is very unrealistic.

In the face of brain-opening and very imaginative children, different parents have different ways of dealing with them. One type of parent is irritable, impatientOne type of parent is patient and visionary。However, the way parents or teachers treat their children can also affect their children's happiness levels.

There was a nephew who was very naughty and impatient, and often asked strange questions and made a lot of strange ideas to adults. Just came back from my grandmother's house, my grandmother called** and said that my grandfather forgot how to open the TV series he wanted to watch, so he taught him the operation steps over and over again in **, and finally succeeded with great effort. My nephew said:

If only the physical objects in the world could be teleported by air. ”What he meant was that he wanted me to show up at my grandmother's house immediately through something like the space-time gate to help my grandfather open the TV series he wanted to watch, so that I could save a lot of things. When his father heard it, he didn't say that the child was talking nonsense, so he knew that he wanted something unrealistic, but recognized his idea, and started with him, how the physical teleportation would be possible, and what were the pros and cons after it was realized.

I think such children are happy, because the children's ideas are reasonably respected, and within a reasonable range, the children's thoughts are given great freedom, so that the children can have their own opinions and ideasLet them form independent thinking ability, enjoy the joy of imagination, and enjoy the happiness brought by the wonderful and gorgeous colors of the spark of thought. Such a child is happy, at least he is an individual who is equal to adults and has an independent soul.