What are those who love vanity like?

I want to buy other people's shoes or clothes for anything. The special money worshippers do not consider whether they have the ability to consume at all, do not understand their economic ability, consume ahead of time every month, often borrow money, and borrow money for a long time without repayment.

This kind of person is very fond of pretending to be a big sum in front of others, and borrowing money from others to buy a house and a car, and the cars they buy are all luxury cars, and they save money every month to pay for the car, which is the surface of the nouveau riche, in fact, the money in the wallet is not even three digits, and they are speechless.

For the sake of the so-called face, regardless of his real family situation, and regardless of his parents' hard work, he only knew that he wanted money to buy famous brands, and even took out loans to buy expensive things, which led to his debts, and he borrowed a thousand yuan from me last time to buy a bag, and now he has not repaid the money for three months.

They always pursue these, everything they haven't seen, think it's a relatively high-end something, they are keen to pursue, and there is no principle to pursue, there are really not only one or two people around them, many people are like this, the feeling is to compare with each other.

At first, we thought that her family conditions were very good, but then we learned that her living conditions at home were average, but she spent a lot of money, wore brand-name things, and looked arrogant, and felt that she was very powerful, which really made people speechless.

I used to know a person, she usually spent almost the same amount of living expenses, but she still had to buy expensive cosmetics, jewelry, etc., she went to take out a loan to buy, really too much love vanity, and then talked about a boyfriend, knowing that the economic conditions of her boyfriend's family were not good, so she directly dumped others.

I have a friend like this, she was originally with her boyfriend, but when she saw a richer boy pursuing her, she immediately dumped her own boyfriend and was with that boy, this is the most vain person I have ever seen, and I personally hate this kind of person.

It's my roommate's ex, and every time my roommate and him ** are asked, "Do you know how much my dress costs?" Do you know how much my bag costs? "I ask every time, but usually when the two of them go out for a meal together, he is too expensive, so he is very fond of vanity.

Let's talk about the reasons why there are many people in life who love vanity.

Love is the meaning of preference, admiration is envy, and vanity is a good thing that does not exist in itself.

Vanity, in the Modern Chinese Dictionary, is defined as "superficial brilliance". This is easy to understand, it is to describe an external glory, glory. Obviously, this is a derogatory term, but it is not very derogatory, that is, neutral.

It can be applied on many occasions and for parties involved in many events.

This word is often used in ordinary times, saying that someone loves vanity, which means that this person attaches great importance to superficial things and does not pay attention to inner cultivation.

Loving vanity is actually a manifestation of inferiority complex deep in the heart! It is precisely because of low self-esteem that I am afraid that others will look down on me, and I try my best to show the illusion of superiority in front of others, the purpose is to show that I am stronger than others, pretend to be strong outside, gain the recognition of others, and comfort myself in my heart!

Love is the meaning of preference, admiration is to attract the envy of others, and vanity is a good thing that does not exist in itself.

Admiration for vanity mostly refers to some money-worshipping women who covet the glory and wealth of others.

To love vanity, in the vernacular, is to die to save face and suffer sin.

is to detach from his own reality, and ask Huarong if there are people who are complacent and different.

It refers to the pursuit of something superficial, such as material.

Let's talk about the reasons why there are many people in life who love vanity.

Muqiang is a very common psychological phenomenon in love relationships, which is manifested by a strong desire for the strength, status, and success of the partner, as well as the importance of the partner's wealth and material conditions. However, this psychological phenomenon can cause instability in the partnership and an unhealthy competitive mindset and make it difficult for both parties to establish true intimacy.

In a love relationship, Muqiang can cause the following problems:

1.Prejudice and discrimination: When a person places too much emphasis on their partner's success and status, this often leads to prejudice and discrimination against people who are less successful. This attitude weakens the foundation of intimacy and creates disharmony in the partnership.

2.Reduced feelings of self-worth: If a person is overly attached to his partner's success, status, and wealth, he will feel that his feelings of worth are threatened, which can lead to an increase in feelings of inferiority and fear.

3.Competition and hostility: Strong people will have a strong desire for their partner's success and status, which will often lead to competition and hostility between the two partners, rather than establishing an intimate and harmonious partnership.

Therefore, in a love relationship, we should avoid the emotional and psychological phenomena of Mu Qiang. We should respect the rights and independence of our partners and advocate for an equal, caring relationship. We should not use our partner's success or status to regulate and undermine each other's self-esteem and self-confidence.

We want to emphasize true intimacy and affection, rather than lust based on material things or power. When we turn our attention to each other's charms, talents, and strengths, we can build a healthier and more balanced partnership.

In addition, we also need to acknowledge and accept that everyone has their own dreams and pursuits. We can't force our partners to be like us, and we can't take away their right to make their dreams come true. We should encourage and support each other's struggles and growth, rather than holding each other to our own standards.

Finally, it is important to point out that in some cases, Muqiang may be a mechanism for self-preservation. For example, some people may pay more attention to their partner's strength and status to ensure that they will not be hurt again for reasons of falling out of love or getting hurt. In this case, we need to seriously face and deal with our emotional problems, instead of using Mu Qiang to cover up our inner contradictions.

In short, Mu Qiang is a very common phenomenon in love relationships, but we should be wary of the negative effects it can bring and try our best to avoid its damage to the partnership. We should learn to build equal, respectful, and supportive partnerships for healthier, happier relationships.

In people's emotional world, the phenomenon of "Mu Qiang" is very common. The so-called "Mu Qiang" refers to the fact that in a relationship, one or both parties hope to find a better object than themselves in terms of social status and economic strength as their love object driven by their own desires and vanity. However, whether "Mu Qiang" can really become a long-term and happy love still requires us to do further thinking and understanding.

Below I will explain in detail how to look at "Mu Qiang" in love.

First of all, we need to have a clear understanding of the nature and essence of love. Love is a pure feeling, which is mainly based on mutual trust, understanding, and respect, and should not be limited by material conditions and social status. When one party attaches too much importance to the material and social status of the lover, it may become suspicious of the true feelings of the other party, thus weakening the emotional foundation between the two people.

In this case, love can easily become an exchange of interests and trade-offs, rather than a pure expression of feelings.

Secondly, we also need to see the problems brought about by "Muqiang" itself. First of all, the behavior of "Muqiang" is often a sign of selfishness and insecurity. Such people tend to put their personal interests first, ignoring the spiritual foundation that the love relationship itself needs to be based on mutual trust and tolerance.

Secondly, when there is no deep affection and intimate psychological connection between the two people, the love relationship is easy to suffer from external interference or various setbacks and tests. For a long time, this kind of romantic relationship based on material conditions and social status may break down, and even eventually lead to a breakup or divorce.

However, even if the negative problems brought about by "Muqiang" are very obvious, we cannot dismiss it because of this. For certain situations, the differences or experiences between the two parties will inevitably have a big impact. For example, in couples who have been together for a long time, one of them is too dependent on the reality of economic income and social status, which may also produce a certain degree of "admiration".

At this time, we should respect each person's independent personality and values, rather than interfering in the growth and development process of the other.

Finally, we also need to recognize that a pure love needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding. When we have more or less unspeakable psychological needs for the other party's quality, economic strength or social status, we must clearly examine our own emotional core and seriously think about the existing problems and contradictions that need to be resolved. For young people, they also need patience and time to weave their own dreamweavers as a basis for choosing between marriage and love, rather than simply being controlled by material and social status.

To sum up, "Mu Qiang" itself is just a phenomenon in love, it has no essential advantages and inferiorities, everything depends on what kind of carrying capacity your heart and pressure hope to bear. We should allow everyone to find their ideal love relationship, and make a more informed and deliberate choice between "yes" and "no" and "no".

For those in love"Mu Qiang's psychology my opinion is:

1.Mu Qiang is human nature to a certain extent. People always want to get a better half who is worthy of themselves or better, which comes from the psychology of worshipping the strong. Therefore, Mu Qiang in love is also inevitable, the key is to be moderate.

2.Excessive aggressiveness can lead to high standards, often self-centeredness. It is easy to ignore the really important emotional foundation, care too much about the other party's conditions and achievements, and ignore whether it is really compatible with the quarrel and the interaction is harmonious. This can affect the stability and happiness of the relationship.

3.Mu Qiang will also bring considerable pressure. Maintaining your superiority in the other person's mind at all times can increase feelings of anxiety and tiredness. At the same time, it also increases the fear of failure or mistakes, which is not conducive to the individual's naturalness and relaxation.

4.True love should be based on reason and tolerance. If one party is overly aggressive, it affects this.

The foundation of this relationship may face certain difficulties. True love should be two equal individuals, understanding, appreciating and tolerating each other. There are no high expectations and demands.

5.Mu Qiang needs to be moderate and turn into mutual encouragement. If this kind of mentality can be transformed into mutual appreciation and encouragement, which can promote mutual progress and mutual understanding at the same time, then it can also play a positive role, rather than blindly demanding and expecting.

This requires self-adjustment and rational thinking.