What is the experience of a Chinese boy who goes home for the Chinese New Year and is forced to go o

It's not that I can't look down on me, I always feel that people don't look down on me, and I feel a little inferior, maybe it's because feelings are not my strong point, so I'm even more scared when I come into contact. Although my parents got married early, fortunately they didn't rush me. I'm okay abroad now, and I'm completely financially independent, which is one of the reasons why they can't do anything about me.

There is nothing to complain about, and the personal temper is a little simpler. Some of them are just friends, which is not too interesting. Probably.

Blind dates are really boring, work, study, hobbies, habits, etc., these things can be said twice, three times, when you keep saying the same thing to different blind dates, it's scary to think about it!

Mom and Dad have a total of five siblings, and I am the youngest of the five families, and my brothers and sisters are almost all married. However, if the uncles and aunts asked about marriage, the mother would say, "Boys are not in a hurry, wait until they are 30 years old, and it doesn't matter if they are 40 knots."

to end the conversation. Anyway, what my mother and I mean is that except for birth and death, which are the main plots, everything else is a side plot that can be done or not. What to go to elementary school, junior high school, high school, college entrance examination, doctoral study, job search, marriage, and childbearing, these plots can be chosen by themselves, because each step is full of various choices, and various choices will correspondingly give up something.

Just like I chose the side plot of getting married and having children, I gave up the possible ending of being lonely and growing old, so my life is not complete. The most important thing in life is not to finish these side plots that everyone is doing, but to know what you want to do and make a plot that really belongs to you.

Grandma is very good at urging marriage in disguise, and I am only twenty years old, although I am the male grandson left in the family now. Once at the dinner table, she told me my father's story, probably saying that my father still hadn't found a partner before my grandfather died, and finally my grandfather was worried about his death. After listening to this, I suddenly felt cold, grandma is eighty-three, she is simply hinting that I don't want to be like my dad!

It's like you're dying to death! And often do! Seriously, I don't like this feeling, and my grandmother has said countless times in front of many people that she wants to see me and my sister find a partner to marry, and she is blind to death.

My sister is not an adult yet! And what's the point! The point is that in the process of fighting wits and courage with my grandmother, I found that my grandmother did not prompt too many words such as "having a child" and "holding a child" when urging marriage and finding a partner, and she currently emphasized the first and second stages, finding a partner and getting married.

Every time I hit the family **, I urge me, when to find a girlfriend, you look at who is who, and then we don't have the face to see people when we go out. In fact, do you know, every time I hear it, I have the urge to die, and then the whole person is in a wrong state for many days, and I really suspect that I am depressed. When I went home on the National Day in 12, the two of them quarreled over a trivial matter, which directly made me desperate for marriage, and the irony was that when I came back to the car, I saw other couples who were still very envious, and I thought that I should also find a girlfriend.

22, I haven't graduated from college yet, and I just stepped into the house, and my mother's first words: I'm back. Second sentence:

Is it cold? The third sentence: Blind date?

Then who said that they would introduce you to a partner, bala bala bala. I thought I would be forced to go on a blind date, but I didn't expect it to be so early. Confused and at a loss.

My mother was nagging in my ear and nagging for a long time, and I could only resist by watching the Mahaprajnaparamita Heart Sutra. She said that she was tired and tired, so she grabbed the book, "What are you talking to, what are you looking at?" Then she looked at the book and looked at me with strange eyes, then exited the room and called my dad, "Lao Li, don't be watching TV, hurry up and come out to persuade your son who can't think of it."

But to be honest, I really want to become a monk.

The man couldn't stand it, so after the family members were pushed to the door of the room, they were all so angry that they "gritted their teeth" and even clenched their fists.

It is because the eyes of these family members are relatively sharp, and they are all standing at the door of the house, clenching their fists, netizens said that they all showed a kind of hatred for iron and steel.

It's like seeing yourself, as if you're living in the New Year, reading and not letting you fall in love, and urging someone to get married as soon as you graduate, and being told all day long.

Netizens expressed their understanding, and netizens expressed their understanding of this man's situation, after all, they have also experienced it. Netizens agreed, after all, this man is not small, and his family thinks about him.

The New Year is a blind date conference, it's better not to go back, it's cleaner to celebrate the New Year alone, the key is that everyone has the blind date object arranged, and I really can't stand such an arrangement.

Netizens said that it was too real, because they were in the same scene every New Year, so they felt empathetic.

Speaking of this blind date, there are too many pits. According to the matchmaker, you can talk about each other in a fanciful way, anyway, you are all excellent, and the two of you together can not only change your class, but even your family's hidden genes can be changed. As a result, you mistakenly believe that it is true, and find that most of what the other party said and the media and the simple people are very different.

A few that can make your heart move, the other party can't think of you.

What scares us the most is that the first sentence of WeChat is added, you say "hello", people think you are dull and too ordinary. Make an emoji, people think you're not serious at all. You simply sent a red envelope, but the person received the red envelope, and after chatting with you for a few words, there was no follow-up.

You are helpless if you lose your wife and break your soldiers, this is the same as the unit assessment, don't care what happens, just swallow it in your stomach and pants if you lose your teeth. Who let this be our parents, who dares to have an opinion.

Cycle after cycle, most people are really full of despair about this blind date, and would rather not go home for the New Year, than go on a blind date.

In fact, if you have a peaceful heart, it is good to know more friends on a blind date. It's a pity that there are too many utilitarian hearts in this, whether it's a girl who comes up and asks you if you have a car and a house, or asks if you are a 36e long-legged young man. With this utilitarian look, finding an object is like picking a cargo, how many people can stand it?

Hey, in short, no matter how much you don't want to, as long as you don't have a partner yet, your parents will always arrange it for you on the next blind date. It's good to just be at ease.