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This girl is very good, and the average girl refuses directly and then blocks her.
She gave you an analysis of the reasons and specific reasons. Explain that she sees your efforts.
It's just that you may not be working in the right direction, sometimes a girl doesn't need simple comfort, but you understand her.
Understanding her is more important.
Knowing that she likes to grow flowers, you can actually understand very well, just like raising pets, you also need to irrigate them carefully, otherwise they will wither. If she discusses this, you can also share similar experiences that you have had, such as raising flowers when you were a child, and later Paca Paca ......, you are still sad for a long time. If you also have flowers now, then it is easier to communicate.
Everyone likes to be noticed a little more, so the principle of communication is: 7 points for her, 3 points for you. It can't be all about her, you have to say something about you yourself, so that she can get to know you.
Girls are afraid of thunder, which is what most people are afraid of, especially when they are alone at night. This one is relatively simple, if you have thundering weather and she sends you a message, you live in the same city. It means that she can't sleep when it thunders, so just accompany her at this time, which means that you are there.
In this way, the girl will also be more at ease.
Or order a **, order takeout to be delivered, etc. It is better to send it in person if you have the conditions. Of course, it is not recommended that you go upstairs. Note this.
If you like to read a book, this one is a bit difficult. This involves a wide range of aspects, and if you don't read books often, it is generally difficult to communicate. However, the girl will more or less reveal what kind of books she likes, so that you can buy a similar one and not the same.
This way you can chime in somewhat, provided you're not lazy!
Understand girls, this has to be talked about from many aspects.
For example, if she is in her third year of high school, then her pressure may be facing college or work. If the grades are not good, then the direction of concern is to choose a job, and how to arrange it after coming out of society.
Of course, there are other aspects, which are not convenient to mention here. The girl also explained that you didn't listen to her well, listened, and didn't just type and chat with her. You also need to understand the reason behind what she said!
For example, if you are afraid of thunder, you comfort her. Then this can be understood as you are perfunctory to her.
Let's talk about it first, after all, it is you who make the choice, and you also bear the consequences. You may fail if you keep going, but as long as you don't regret it! Don't leave regrets in life!
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If it is explicitly refused. It depends on whether you really love her? If you love him very, very much, I think you can fight for it again, and even if it doesn't work, you will have fewer regrets.
I think you can go for it a little more. First of all, we must learn to guide men to grow. When getting married, most men are ordinary and ordinary, and many men will have a certain career and achievements after middle age, then, in more than ten years of marriage, women should correct their roles, neither let go of men's playfulness and inertia, but also can not detract from men's self-esteem - sometimes, men are also very grudgeful, if in the trough of his struggle, you are too derogatory to hit ta, once ta really gets ahead one day, it is very likely to abandon you.
However, in the process of growing up as a man, we must also realize that there is a risk, and this risk is that once a man gains power and betrays or even turns his back on himself, then all his efforts and efforts over the years may be a bubble, just like many people say: "Conscience has been eaten by dogs".
Therefore, in the process of helping men grow, they must also grow themselves, and this point is often ignored by many women, until suddenly one day, men change their hearts, only to find that they have become helpless and have nothing to gain in an instant.
Secondly, we must manage ourselves well.
Probably when marriage goes through a period of process, many people will gradually understand that it is better to manage a marriage than to manage oneself, and it is better to rely on others than to rely on oneself. Marriage is just a kind of intimate partner, marriage still has to respect two independent people, and any idea and practice that wants to transform each other into another self is not conducive to marital happiness.
From a certain point of view, the foundation for two people to be able to unite as one in marriage is actually the attraction of each other, and managing their own attraction is to manage the marriage and ensure the stability of the marriage and family.
The best technique is to be yourself, the more you can do yourself, the more you can maintain your independence, and independent people will increase their charm; Managing oneself well is actually to increase one's weight in marriage and family, the first of which is to ensure that oneself will not fall into passivity in marriage, and the second is that when the other party is likely to betray and hurt himself, he will also weigh the pros and cons of gains and losses.
Of course, relying on managing oneself well alone may not be able to ensure the happiness of marriage and family harmony, and the ultimate result of marriage is actually character. A person with good character, even if you have some problems and shortcomings, the other party knows how to cherish you and tolerate your willfulness and petty temper; And if you have a bad character, even if you are 100% perfect, they may hurt and betray you unscrupulously.
Then, when it comes to this, you should understand that other people's character is someone else's business, and it is really not something that you can educate, and what you have to work hard all the time is nothing more than to do yourself well and do what you want to do.
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The situation you mentioned needs to be taken seriously, isn't there a saying that it is good: don't give up easily, as long as you have the opportunity, you may not give up easily.
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Knowing that there is no result, of course there is no need to insist, it is too stupid to hold on like this, no matter how much you pay, there is no return, this is too worthless.
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It should be insisted on. If you don't have a start, then you don't need to start at all, and you may be successful.
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There will be a good ending if you have time to stick with it, you can change some of your habits and slowly get closer to what she asks to be, wouldn't it be good.
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Being rejected explicitly, you can continue unrequited love, but watching her have a lover, get married, and have children, you will be more miserable.
Better a finger off than always aching.
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If you are rejected clearly, there is no longer hope, so there is no need to chase anymore, and continuing to chase will cause the other party to be more disgusted and hateful, so there will be no good results.
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Since you know that there is no result, there is no need to insist on this matter, because it is a waste of time!
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First of all, a clear rejection of you means that this girl must be a good girl.
Whether you insist on it or not, whether there is a good result or not is not something that others can give you an answer to.
Judging from the girl's reply, you basically won't listen, the reply is the "drink more hot water" type, and you are more likely to need a sibling relationship, because you are used to being taken care of.
The above are personal opinions, and I don't like to spray lightly.
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You know that there is no result, it is better to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, you two are not on the same starting line,
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Of course, if you don't work hard, you will definitely have no results, and if you work hard, there may be a glimmer of hope.
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Knowing that there is no result and still insisting, it is like a moth to a fire, it is better to give up as soon as possible, fulfill others, and let yourself go.
Although persistence is very valuable, sometimes it is foolish to use the wrong person.
In the end, your dedication only touched yourself, and in the eyes of the other party, you were just a joke.
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It's a mechanized thing, they all want this one, and they need to use it to earn money.
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Since we know that there will be no results, there is not much need to persevere. Sometimes liking doesn't have to be together, but it's more appropriate to be friends.
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Emotional things can't be forced, I know that there is no result, then let it go, let go of others is also let go of yourself, this is good for both people, if you can't be a lover, be friends! Besides, the girl also told you clearly that the boy she likes is a man who can understand her heart and listen to her, and you can't meet these conditions!
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Since you know that there is no result, there is no need to insist on it, don't waste your youth.
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If you know that there is no good outcome, then why bother to go through it.
It's better to spend the rest of the time dressing yourself up, achieving yourself, and looking for a better fate.
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You know that there is no result, why do you have to insist on it, in this case, you will hurt yourself more and deeply, so let's let it go.
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If you know that there is no good result, you should not insist.
There are so many flowers in the world, why do you have to pick which one?
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Yes, I think if I still have to insist on a marriage that I know will not be fruitful, I don't think it's too casual and inspirational, in this case, don't pursue too much thinking that you are going to die, and do things more realistically.
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I don't think there is any need to insist on this situation, feelings are a matter for both parties, and blindly giving will not lead to good results.
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I only persisted, there was no result, and I would not regret it, if there was no insistence on framing that time.
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Do you still insist on it even though you know that there is no result? There is only one reason why the other party still likes it very much.
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If the heart is not dead, just persevere, of course, things that do not result will make you sad, when you can't hold on, you will naturally give up. As long as you don't bother others and have a clear conscience, it is recommended to stick to it, as long as you have a heart.
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Maybe the result won't change, but you can at least have a clear conscience.
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You might as well try something to do, even if there is no result, it is better than leaving Yi Shak.
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Don't stick to things that don't work out, it's a waste of time.
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When you asked, you should already have an answer in mind, but it's still vague, I also saw that she sent this message in the girl's circle of friends, but she deleted it again. ......Recently, I was rejected to confess to her, this is my personal experience, I hope to clear a trace of fog in your heart, and see the answer in your heart.
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Some things don't want results, and it's good to enjoy the process.
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What do you insist on without results? You ask this because you're not sure if there will be a result, right?
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It is necessary, only to continue to persevere, even if there is really no result, but at least you have worked hard.
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There is no need, why insist on it without results?
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No, if you don't get it, it hurts even more.
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There's no need to insist, there's no point in wasting time.
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You think it doesn't work out and you want to give up.
Then I think it's really inconclusive.
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Of course, let's accumulate experience for next time.
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When you know that there is no result for such two people together, is there still a need to insist, I think we must understand this first: If you don't see the real result in the end, no one knows what will happen, and no one can give a definite answer, at least in the face of the unknown Li Pei's future, don't be too anxious to make a conclusion. In fact, thinking that there will be such a result, I am also very heartbroken and helpless, but the two people are together, thinking of the reason why the two people got close at the beginning, thinking of the feelings of the two people, we still have to think carefully, after all, it is not easy to meet a person, and it is not easy to give up the feelings for a person easily.
There are still only two choices under the entanglement, choose to stick with it or choose to give up.
Together, not necessarily suitable, sometimes two people together is really just a momentary meaning, in the face of such a fruitless relationship, separation may be the best choice, whether for themselves or for TA, what is needed is a right person, able to accompany each other to live together, towards the future of the road. After two people have been together for a long time, they will actually be more or less aware of whether two people can live together for a long time, or if two people have lived together for a long time, they will suddenly separate, because there are still many uncertain things to face, and people have different moods and understandings at different stages, whether it is love or life.
From the time the two of them started to be together, they expected that such a result would happen, and they were not able to change, how regretful and sad it was, but I think that before the two of them came to that point, they still had to fight, although there are many emotions in the world, but there is still love stronger than gold. And being together is a matter of two people, when you encounter problems, you have to face them together, if you really love each other, the result is already doomed, and the persistence of a person has become inevitable. If I can always love someone firmly, I always want to believe that there will be a good outcome.
Even if you know that two people have no results, if you really love each other, then stick to it and believe that time will bring surprises.
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There is no need to insist. Because such feelings are fruitless, there is no need to waste time and energy on such feelings.
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The orange debater felt that if this situation happened, then there was no need for Closed Tong to persevere, because no matter how much effort you put in, you would not end up in the end.
There are many factors to consider in love, but the decision lies with you, not in others, if you think it is worth it, then you will not regret it, then insist, if not, then give up, because it will not hurt yourself and will not hurt others.
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I advise you not to waste time, no matter how reluctant it is, it is better than living in pain, people want to be happy, maybe you will be sad when you leave him, and then it will be fine, and it is best to find someone who loves you after that.
Ho ho, if I want to experience it myself, it will definitely be fruitless at that time, and it is the same in college, because after graduation, you don't work together, and it is difficult to come together, even if you work together, you are different from the school, and everyone's pursuit in society is very different from that in school, it can be said that there is no food and clothing, how can there be love and happiness! But maybe you fell in love with each other in high school, but your responsibility is to study, go to college, but you have connections in college, you are good friends and confidants, work If you are together, a city, then the friends who grew up together know each other very well, and you can work hard at that time!
In my opinion, if it's about chasing your dreams, then you must try hard, and you can't leave regrets and regrets in your life. But emotionally, if you know that there is no result, but you still insist on it, then you must be the one who gets hurt in the end, because the two people who finally walk together by persistence and touching are not love, but a habit. >>>More