I m in love with an old man and he won t let me touch him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Hello, you fell in love with someone you shouldn't love, because the old man himself is more mature, he thinks you are not suitable for him, so he doesn't have such thoughts, of course there shouldn't be such thoughts, since he doesn't choose you, it's useless for you to choose him, it's better to choose again, the old man is not suitable for you, it's better to choose the person you like again, because they don't have such ideas at all, he thinks you're too young and not suitable to be with him, sooner or later you will annoy him, and he will reject you, It's better to choose again, and you have to find someone who is suitable for you to be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    If you really like her, like her name, if he doesn't let you touch it, it means that he doesn't love you, so you have to double the lunar calendar and impress her with sincerity.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You fall in love with him, but does he love you, he doesn't want you to touch him, he may not love you, unlike the usual practice between lovers, does he have any taboos, you can ask him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It can only be said that your taste is really heavy, and if you fall in love with an old man, the old man won't let you touch him, so what do you look like? I'm curious.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you're about the same age as the old man at the door, and you're both single, be brave enough to love. If you're a little girl and haven't been married yet, you have to be cautious. Although love knows no age, sometimes the world's eyes are enough to crush you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Fascinated by the old man at the door, is it the old man who sells food, are you really obsessed with the old man or obsessed with eating, if you are really obsessed with the old man, it means that the old man is very attractive, if it is not a big age gap, you can consider, pursue your true love, this is understandable, whether you are looking for a boyfriend or looking for father's love, then you have to think carefully before acting, the specific situation is treated, others do not know what your situation is, no matter what the situation you have to think twice about.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It depends on your age, if you are an old lady, find a wife to spend the rest of your life with, he will accompany you to finish, take care of each other and support each other, no longer lonely, very good, then boldly tell him your thoughts, if you are a young girl, then you have to think twice, even if it is true love, in the face of cruel reality, it can also wear out love, people are terrible, there are many people who say it, true and false, and sometimes false.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can be hooked on the old man, it means that you have a father-lover complex. Do you lack fatherly love? I especially want to find a shoulder that you are particularly leaning on.

    Get in touch with more friends around you, maybe those who are 1,000 yuan are more suitable than one, you are a more suitable person for this old man. Maybe they're a better fit for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, it's normal to be fascinated by the old man at the door, once I was also fascinated, and then I changed a place before forgetting the old man, if you get married, you have to change places, I hope to adopt thank you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Goddess. Please don't go wrong. You should have a correct view of love.

    Go and find the male god in your mind. Isn't there such a saying? There is no regret medicine in the world.

    So you must think twice before choosing. Don't be fooled by what you're seeing. delayed his beautiful youth.

    You should find your true love. I sincerely wish you to find the male god in your mind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How old you are and how old you are to be hooked on someone shows that you have a good mentality! But you can only be infatuated, you can't come into his life, you know? You are now infatuated with him, as long as you live together, it will break your worldview, no one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, it's just that you haven't discovered it yet.

    Once you find the perfect image, it disappears in an instant, so let's keep a good memory.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What power does the old man at the door have to make you hooked, you don't want to be hot for a while, the road of a person's life is very common, the age gap is too big, let's put it away, don't be confused for a while, hurt yourself for a lifetime.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Recently, in the anime on station b, as long as a handsome old man appears, there will always be someone brushing the barrage, "I'm obsessed with the old man at the door", a fascination, confusing, so this stalk is from**?

    This stalk comes from the content of the second season of the hegemony of station B's "Overlord", in which there is a very handsome housekeeper old man - Sebas, because he is very gentlemanly and very righteous in the plot, he instantly attracted countless fans, and the barrage began to brush the stalk of the old man at the door.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't know how old you are this year? I should be an adult! It's time to go to work.

    It must be an old man from the doorman, quite temperamental. So you have a crush on the old man. But you must think carefully about this question.

    Because you are certainly not of ordinary age. From your words, you can conclude that this person should pay attention to your fathers. So.

    You are a father-lover.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you like him, pursue him, boldly tell him what you think, if you don't say it, there will never be a result, be brave, be confident, take this step boldly, don't let things become regrets, how can you know the result if you don't try, maybe the old man thinks the same way (hahaha......)

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How old are you? If the age is not too different, tell him that you want to live with him for the rest of your life! That old man must be very good! Does it fascinate you in any way? If you are also entering old age, the most important thing is to be financially comfortable!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How can you be obsessed with an old man, say that the old man is handsome, think he is an old man, and the old man is rich? is saying that you must be a young father, so if you want to find an old man to act as a father, you have to think about whether you can get married or not, otherwise you will regret it later.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love knows no boundaries, and the old man must have his special charm that can make you fall in love. As long as the age is not several generations behind, you can chase it if you like it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What is there to be obsessed with with that old man? Is he Yang Zhenning or Aaron Kwok, or Xie Xian and Zhao Benshan? He can't compare to any of them.

    If you can go online and dare to say that you are not an old woman, then your vision is so level? If you follow the old man, what blessings can you enjoy? Even if the old man is charming, but your family and neighbors can see your blessings?

    Dispel distorted thoughts, or people's spittle stars will drown you. Shape up or ship out!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How did the old man get you hooked, was it sweet words or money that confused you, you should be optimistic about the major events in your middle life, don't be confused for a while, choose the wrong marriage, and suffer for a lifetime.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To tell the truth, you just pretend to be too similar, deceive yourself, and even believe that you are not with him for money, but how can he not know what a woman is trying to do with him, so your self-righteous performance only makes you look more like a conspirator, a conspirator is more terrible to him than a woman who is greedy for money, if you really don't love money, he must also think that you are a fool, since you don't make an offer for yourself, of course he will take advantage of you as a door-to-door offer, You're not as smart as his 36-year-old second wife, so you're putting yourself in a thankless situation in the first place.

    And from another point of view, he still lacks nothing without you, the status of the two of you does not match, you can't be on an equal footing with him, even if he really loves you, you can only be an accessory to him, because in his kingdom he is the king, you must obey him unconditionally, so do you have any illusions that in case he is sharpening your endurance and hard-working qualities, testing whether you are greedy for money, and then entrusting you with a heavy responsibility to give you the family property, Just like Wu Zetian suffered a lot before he became emperor, then wouldn't it be a pity for you to give up, isn't it? Hehe.

    In short, if you want to find a lover who loves you, then you have found the wrong person, and from the moment you are with him, you are destined to endure him doing whatever he wants!

    Believe me, in his eyes there is no kind of love as you understand it, only transactions, exchanging money for women, in exchange for possession of women!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Buckle the door chairman, but you don't care if he's rich or not, married or not. Pure love for him as a person, that should still continue, but have you thought about it, you are indeed just a plaything for him in the mainland.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Dizzy, it's almost time to break up He's just playing with you! If you are tired of playing, you will find someone else, and your low head has created his arrogance, so I think you should be a little assertive and know how to say no, so that he will respect and value you

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The old man who picks the door, the woman who makes a shit. You're definitely not his only lover!!

    You're stupid, you're !! Ask him for a purity loss fee!! It can't be so cheap;

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm sure this man is just looking for a kind of physical and spiritual solace in you, and he's trampling on you

    He treats you so badly, so why do you spoil yourself like this? I have a good youth, so why waste it on an old man? What's more, it's not good for you at all, it's just bad

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't care how much money he has.

    You have to look at his character first.

    He struck me as hypocritical.

    Used P4 for 4 years? He sent the begging for food

    Get you there before it's too late! You're only 25 very young.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In 1942, now at the age of 67, you can be your grandfather.

    Incomprehensible, incomprehensible. He's not a good guy, he's just rich, but you don't like him because of money, I don't understand. If you exclude the money factor, there are more men who are better than him.

    Give it up early, you won't be happy. You have to give up what you can't give up. Because it will be a void if it goes on like this.

    A chairman of the board of directors even sent a notebook to the girl and asked for money, wow, I can't see that he is ** good. It can't be xxoo, right?。。 Shhh

    Buy yourself a notebook and find a man yourself. Can't afford a laptop with a good job? Can't find a good man yet? Don't forget you're only 25 years old.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This man is the same as the above talent [Konoha Shenchen], he is not a good guy, why do you still have to be with him

    Stop doing this stupid thing, let's get out of here! You want to see his wife first, his wife doesn't have any rights, so will you be happy when you enter him? ?

    Don't do it, leave him! Don't make yourself unhappy because of a man's resentment, he just builds his "pain" on the happiness of others!!

    Alas, a guy who even cares about the computer, and is really ungenerous, don't give up the whole beautiful forest for the sake of an old tree

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No way!

    If you're still with someone like that, you're really a slut!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    67 years old.

    It's not looking at her money.

    Labor and management would rather be sons.

    I dare to say that it's not for money. I just didn't say it in my heart.

    Ay. Wretched. That's it for women now.

    But he didn't look at it... I don't even give you a computer. Let it go.

    I gave him a 4-year p4 for you. Ha ha.

    I'm really young. Don't be stupid.

    It is bigger than a curtain. I also called my sister. It hurts to look at it. .

    Really stupid.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Really, what do you like about him, are there few men in the world? Don't want him anymore.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're a good girl, every girl is vulnerable. From you, I see that if you think you really love each other, you are a girl who will give up everything for him, and you think love is the greatest. But you are trapped by the world.

    Feelings have become very confused. Your helplessness, your pain, I can see it, but I can't help it.

    You are a pure and noble girl, you know how to protect the most important chastity of a girl, and I believe that this relationship has not made you lose your mind.

    Love, but uncontrollable. It is not surprising that a 22-year-old girl who has just fallen in love with a mature and connotative 39-year-old man will fall in love with a mature and connotative man, because feelings never make sense.

    The 22-year-old girl's affection for the 39-year-old man stems from his talent, his connotation. He is more mature than a boy your age, so you fall in love with him.

    Because of her affection for you, you feel that there is still room for development between you. You are willing to cut through this space but the world does not allow it, and morality does not allow it, you have to think about his family, his 9-year-old daughter.

    This is where your pain lies.

    It's a pity that this fate came too late. You take these things as a memory. After all, you won't have results.

    If he is willing to give up everything for you, I believe that with your character, you are not willing to break up other people's families, and this time you will live in the shadow of feelings. From your text, I suddenly feel that feelings can happen in an instant, without reason.

    I can see your frustration, but I hope you don't fall deeper and deeper into the end, and you will only hurt yourself. You are a pure girl. As a girl, I don't want to see you hurt in any way. Because you don't deserve to be hit by love.

    Before the tragedy of the relationship is unfolded, you should dissociate yourself from him. Don't have anything to do with it.

    I wish you a happy and happy life.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Knowing that there will be no such result, why bother yourself???

    Let's go back to reality, as cruel as it is, but that's reality after all.

    Returning to reality may not be acceptable for a while, so let time baptize all this.

    Love is not the same as impulsiveness for a simple you -- maybe it is love in the fog -- it is equal to reason to some extent.

    Gu Long once said: When a woman sees love, she can't see the danger, you wipe your lost eyes - if it goes on like this, it may be a cliff - a dead end!!

    Pinch your skin—bring yourself back to your reality—sober yourself up!!

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