Why are they so calmly optimistic, Americans are not affectionate, why are they more optimistic than

Believe that a person needs time.

For example, we went from the first time we spoke to now, you believe me Copenhagen.

It also takes time for you to believe in yourself.

You have to affirm yourself, from not believing at the beginning, to believing in the end, or if something goes wrong in the middle, you don't believe again.

and so on, all by their own analysis and judgment.

As you get older, you will become more and more confident in yourself and analyze for yourself rather than others...

Even if you believe what I say now, you may criticize me in the end.

It's all a process of knowing things.

You may or may not believe me.

I always asked people when I was a kid because you didn't quite have a definition of the world yet.

So you don't fully believe in your own knowledge, and when you grow older, you will believe in yourself more and more.

And not others, the more you are sure of yourself.

Maybe you are very young and you are likely to affirm yourself, maybe it is a person's self-confidence. Earlier.

Everyone has a desire to live, so he will not commit suicide unless he is completely disgusted with the whole world.

I never thought about suicide, though.

Every life is strong.

I remember a philosopher who said it:"Your existence is a miracle in the world"

You are unique, and you have to be strong to live.

Know yourself. It also takes time to perceive oneself, to believe and trust oneself in one's person.

Don't believe blindly.

Including a bad guy who might give you the first impression of being a good guy.

So you think he's a bad person, but in fact he's a bad person, but you think he's a good person, and his good or bad is different from what you know.

Finally one day you find out that he is a bad person, and you believe that he is a bad person and not a good person.

The next time you see someone, you don't easily think that he is a good person or a bad person.

You might want to analyze it and get in touch with it.

This is the process of your perception of the whole world.

It takes time.

The first two sentences say that the poet is very optimistic about life, very contemplative, no matter what difficulties he handles, and he is not afraid of the sky falling.

The last two sentences, literally, are now rumored to be very strong, saying that Luoyang's paper is expensive, maybe the poet is in Luoyang, so he is afraid that his family is worried that he can't afford paper in Luoyang, so he writes a letter home, and he writes a letter to use paper If he can't write a letter, he can afford to buy paper.

Figuratively, just don't listen to rumors, I'm fine outside, don't worry.

If it's feelings, personal feelings, it means to calm down, and to put it bluntly, it's not a continuation.

I just drew this lot, and the last two sentences are mysterious. Maybe it's to care more about your loved ones, maybe it's to be careful with gossip, maybe it's to be more vigilant about what you want to achieve, maybe it's because you don't care about the cost of paper when you get rich, or maybe it's because you want to stick to what you want. Maybe you should be reminded to stay safe.

This is just a personal understanding, not perhaps true.

You have a very wise question. I'm sure everyone wants to, but they can't!Let go of separation, delusions, and attachments, and you will be free from worries.

But it's impossible, it can only come little by little. I study Buddhism, and as long as I work hard, I can be carefree, and I am happy every day. But now it's not as hard, but compared to the past few years, there are a lot less troubles, and if you want to, just ask someone who is studying Buddhism.

Just talking to people who are studying Buddhism can make a difference. Anyway, I feel like this, I hope it can help you, Nan no Amitabha!

Carefree, no worries, how good, I can't dream of it, cherish it.

That's because you don't find things to do for yourself, which is not good for your future work...

The people around you do everything you do.

Maybe you're not stressed!!

All troubles come from desire, desire controls people in the direction of achieving desire, people will encounter troubles and frustrations when pursuing desire, such as chasing a girl, encountering a powerful rival, getting on the bus, watching the nearest seat being preempted by others, not receiving a gift from a lover on Valentine's Day, and other things that bring trouble to people, so contentment is always happy.

When people are carefree, they must be when they have no desires, and if they have no desires, they don't want anything, they don't want to do anything, and they don't want to do anything anymore, in the minds of philosophers, when they are carefree, they don't want to do anything.

But man's desires can never be satisfied, so there is no time when people are forever carefree, at most they are temporarily carefree after reaching their desires, and then they will be harnessed by new desires and find another round of troubles.

That's my opinion.

Think more about happy things and think of some happy memories to make yourself carefree. Don't worry about not being able to do something or not doing it well, you should encourage yourself to do it!!

Make yourself stupid.

That will make you a little happier.

Don't be frightened, look at the flowers in front of the court; Go and stay unintentionally, and watch the clouds in the sky.

It may be because they have good social welfare, even if they do not have a job and do not have the assistance of relatives and friends, they will not worry about basic life under the comprehensive and good protection of the society.

Because they have a good mentality.

Always look at everything with a bystander mentality.

I haven't been to the United States, but through movies and friends who have been to the United States, I know that the values are different:

Americans "have wine today and get drunk today", "distinguish between themselves and others, respect the privacy of others", "work is work, entertainment is entertainment, and there is a clear distinction";

Chinese people are "born in sorrow and die in peace", "except for the wife, regardless of you and me, care about the "private affairs" of others", "play at work, work in entertainment, and be unknown";

Different social backgrounds:

The social security of the United States is sound, and China's social security is in the process of being improved;

The main thing is that people can let go of everything, and they laugh happily when they should be happy, and it is possible for Orientals to laugh reservedly.

Because they know how to be sophisticated.

Because the Chinese love face.

Because Americans are naturally humorous, American humor understands.

Good morning, with money, it is materially colorful, but whether the gap in the spiritual level can be filled depends on what you can gain or lose,,, affecting a person's emotions is often the suppression of thoughts!

How is it possible, the rhythm of everything variable.

There is a good saying. Money is not everything, but no money is everything.

Wrong, rich people also have troubles, money can't buy happiness and freedom, only material satisfaction.