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Cultivate children's sense of independence, and cultivate children's ability to surpass themselves and develop themselves.

Modern society is a society full of competition and challenges, no one can rely on a little knowledge and ability, eat everywhere, all life, continue to learn, and constantly surpass themselves, in order to reap a lifetime of happiness and success. If parents want their children to become excellent talents, they must have a kind of ability to never be satisfied and keep forging ahead. Parents can guide their children to understand themselves correctly and rationally, analyze objectively and fairly, and recognize their strengths and weaknesses, so as to give full play to their strengths, overcome their shortcomings, and constantly overcome themselves.

When children have some achievements, affirm them and set new goals to motivate them to keep improving. Over time, children will be able to continue to surpass themselves.

Educating a child takes a process. When we see a plant "blooming", it is natural to think of "fruiting". In fact, it takes many steps from flowering to fruition, and the same is true for education.

In terms of educating children, many parents lack patience, do not understand the necessity and importance of the "process", and act impatient and impatient when dealing with children's learning and making mistakes. Ignoring the process of education is a manifestation of vanity and utilitarianism, and both teachers and parents must avoid this kind of psychology! To educate children, you must know how to:

Responsibility is more important than vanity! Honesty and diligence are the cornerstones of ultimate success.

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Then don't stay. If you really have to live, go to see him more, care for him, and give him a period of adaptation. Don't listen to everything the school says, the teacher may not understand education!

Exposure to the new environment will be a little uncomfortable, after this stage will be fine, always have to be over, junior high school, high school, university, it is impossible to be close to home, I was not suitable for the first year of junior high school, almost cried, but the second year I was fine, for the sake of the child's independence, let the child endure it.

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During the child's stay in school, parents need to grasp the child's learning and life information, and communicate with the teacher in a timely manner. Save the teacher's number first, if you call ** to the teacher to ask about the child's learning, be sure to identify yourself first, ask specific questions, and each call is best not to exceed 10 minutes. If you are texting a teacher, be sure to make it clear which class you are in and whose parent you are.

Parents should not think that everything will be fine if their children are in full custody at school. Parents should keep abreast of the school's rules and regulations on learning and life, and understand the school's teaching requirements, so as to actively cooperate with the school and supervise and help their children complete the school's various education plans.

When parents communicate with teachers, they can convey their children's positive performance at home and their feelings towards teachers, and guide teachers to pay more attention to their children's progress. In this way, the teacher will always pay attention to the child's strengths and strengths. When children find that teachers appreciate their children, they are more willing to strive to perform better in all aspects.

How can parents communicate with teachers when their children live in school?

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During the child's stay in school, parents need to grasp the child's learning and life information, and communicate with the teacher in a timely manner. Save the teacher's number first, if you call ** to the teacher to ask about the child's learning, be sure to identify yourself first, ask specific questions, and each call is best not to exceed 10 minutes. If you are texting a teacher, be sure to make it clear which class you are in and whose parent you are.

Parents should not think that everything will be fine if their children are in full custody at school. Parents should keep abreast of the school's rules and regulations on learning and life, and understand the school's teaching requirements, so as to actively cooperate with the school and supervise and help their children complete the school's various education plans.

When parents communicate with teachers, they can convey their children's positive performance at home and their feelings towards teachers, and guide teachers to pay more attention to their children's progress. In this way, the teacher will always pay attention to the child's strengths and strengths. When children find that teachers appreciate their children, they are more willing to strive to perform better in all aspects.

What should I do if my child doesn't want to live on campus in junior high school? First of all, it is not necessary for junior high school to live on campus. This needs to be considered in combination with the child's situation and the child's wishes, as well as the actual situation at home.

If parents want their children to go to school and the children are unwilling, then they should understand the reasons why the children are reluctant to go to school, according to their own ideas and concerns, help the children eliminate the fear and problems of the unknown life, exercise more their independence and independence, and encourage more communication with teachers and students. At the same time, parents should cultivate positive and correct hobbies, such as using physical activities to cultivate children's tenacity.

What should I do if my child doesn't want to live on campus in junior high school? 】

1.Communicate with your child why he doesn't want to live on campus. Parents can temporarily rent a house near the high school if the reason is reasonable. Although the financial pressure is a little greater, it can save the time for children to go to and from school, and it is also convenient for parents to take care of their children.

2.Take your children to the dormitory a few times before moving into the dormitory. Children do not like to live in school, or do not want to live in school, especially children who live in school for the first time, most likely because they are afraid of the unfamiliar environment and rely on familiar homes.

Parents should react to this issue in advance. It is best to take your children to the dormitory a few times before moving to the dormitory, to have a look, to talk to the children in the dormitory, and to see a group of children laughing together. In this way, the children's fear of school life will be greatly reduced.

3.Plan school supplies with your child.

When children live in school, many schools have rules that they have to buy some items at school. This is a school rule that we must follow. At this time, parents maliciously discuss with their children about buying daily necessities, let the children think for themselves, and you will remind them on the side.

For example, let the child take notes, what he wants to buy, what he needs to buy, etc., and then you go to buy together, which will reduce a lot of "uncomfortable" emotions in the child.

4.Communicate with your child. At this age, it is a rebellious period.

Parents should communicate more with their children, communicate more, and get along with them like friends, so that children will have less resistance to you. In fact, at this age, they have their own. Thoughts and opinions, let's listen to what they really think.

If your child doesn't want to go to school, tell your child more about the benefits and benefits of going to school, so that your child can communicate more with his classmates and experience the joy of learning.

5.Nurture your child's independence. People who eventually have to leave their parents must learn to live independently and be self-reliant in life. You should also learn to live in groups, find joy in life, and so on.

6. During the child's school period, parents regularly communicate with the child. When you have time, you should visit your child at school, learn about your child's school situation from the teacher, grasp the child's psychological dynamics in time, and provide necessary help to your child. Try to pick up the children on weekends and let them feel the warmth of family life.

You can tell your child that if you live in the school, you will be able to communicate with more friends, learn and play together, which will make your junior high school life more happy, and can also make you more cheerful and optimistic, which is good for your future growth.

Parents need to communicate with their children in a calm tone, so that their children know that school life is more conducive to improving their social skills.

Be sure to reason with your child, don't be in a hurry at this time, take your time, and at the same time pay attention to your way of expression, don't show a disgusting side.

1. Take the initiative to contact the child and ask about the child's accommodation.

There are many parents who don't take the initiative to contact their children when they stay in the house, and they are waiting for their children to call them every time. The child contacts himself either to ask for money, or to wait for himself to pick it up, or to have something ...... missingSome parents never take the initiative to call their children to consult about their children's conditions, which is not right. The child is not by his side, but also his own child, as a parent, you have to play your own role, and take the initiative to give the child **, so that he can feel his care.

When contacting children, they should also talk to each other and persuade each other like friends. In this way, the child will have a sense of responsibility and be willing to take the initiative to communicate with himself.

2. Contact the parents of other children to find out how their families are doing and how they are doing.

For example, if the mother of your child's classmate buys a gift for her child, you can do the same. Although I can't go myself, the logistics are very convenient now, and I can send a gift to my child by courier. In this way, the child can also feel cared for and will not feel alienated from himself.

If you have anything to say, you will be willing to talk to yourself. In this way, let the child take the initiative to communicate with himself.

3. Contact your child's teacher more often and tell your child about the contact with the teacher.

Parents are not around, in fact, children can still feel the lack of love psychologically. If you keep in touch with the teacher and tell your child about your contact with the teacher, the child will be able to feel the care and attention of the teacher and parents. They will feel less lost and will be more willing to take the time to express their feelings to their parents.

If possible, try to let your child live in high school.

First, most children in junior high school will go through a "rebellious period", and it is better to stay by your side and give the right company and teaching.

Second, living on campus is equivalent to being in the same social group 24 hours a day, which is easy to have conflicts, everyone has it, and they will really be bullied, and school violence is often bred in this way. Giving children all-round companionship and guidance as much as possible is also a good way to protect them.

Third, when children are young, they need not only material support, but also spiritual protection. When an emergency comes, the child is helpless, the parents can't give comfort in time, they are estranged from their parents, they don't want to say anything when they meet, and they also have psychological problems. Slowly, they will close the door to trust and rely on you!

1. Step by step.

From living with their parents all the time to living in a group at school, children are always a little uncomfortable and need a process of adaptation. Some children are adaptable, while others are weak. Parents should not be too anxious and do not say harsh things.

You should be kind and patient, and do ideological work for your child.

2. Frequent contact.

Parents should always keep in touch with their children, for example, after eating, after evening self-study, and before going to bed. Let the child feel that her parents care about her, and she will be very content.

3. Discover beauty.

If the child does not adapt to the school, it is likely that he will not be able to integrate into the new environment. Therefore, parents should teach their children to discover the beauty in life, instead of blindly picking on and rebelling. Treat the unpleasant phenomena found in the dormitory, and be more tolerant.

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When a child is sick or mentally ill, such as failing to do well in an exam, being blamed by a teacher, etc., parents should give more care than blame. Otherwise, she will feel even more aggrieved and will transfer her resentment to the boarding school.

5. Learn to make friends.

Children should be taught how to make friends, especially in schools. Leaving the arms of parents, the best companion is still friends. One or two close friends can help a lot, so that you are no longer confused, confused, or lonely.

6. Exercise in advance.

For the matter of children living in school, parents should exercise in advance, and do not find that their children are not suitable when they arrive. For example, give your child to an elder or friend for a few days, provided you have a trusted friend. Let the child be independent as early as possible, and she will grow up more maturely.

In fact, this kind of thing is very normal, and everyone will have some discomfort when they leave the habitual living environment. As I said upstairs, I can encourage my children to make more friends, have more contact with others, communicate with them more and share things in school, and it will be okay slowly

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What should parents do if teachers don't let their children live in school?

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The school does not let the school live, indicating that the child has indeed violated the school rules, the school discipline shows that it is indeed wrong or something, as the teacher to some punishment of the child is also necessary, at this time, parents should lead the child to take the initiative to find the teacher, admit his mistakes, to correct his mistakes, to let him get a certain lesson, and then the parents make a mistake to pay attention to this problem, so that the effect of the poor result has achieved the goal, it has been achieved, so it is not to say that the student is expelled, The son gives him a chance to accept his mistakes and correct them.

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