Relationship with a blind date man, confused two questions .

Or, you don't like him very much, but he's dead set on you, and he's so good to you, that's fine; Either that, he's very promising, and he wants you to have no worries about food and clothing in the future

Some people will say that everything has a purpose, and there are many forces, but it is because of the purpose that people will do it, otherwise for what?!

Right?!

If you say that he is reliable, then it is worth your continued development, isn't it enough to be smart and responsible? Nature is often the most beautiful, and plainness is often the most real.

He may see the response from your side, so he is not particularly proactive.

I also met one yesterday, and it was far from my impression of a boyfriend. I've always wanted to find a tall boyfriend, but he's only 1.7 meters, just like me. I always have a pimple in my heart. His family is also rural.

How old are you? If you are not old, you can wait.

I'm a slow person, and the word love at first sight doesn't happen to me. It's annoying.

Wait? To wait is to waste your youth and delay your precious time.

If you don't think it works, it's over early, and you won't be happy if you are barely together.

Don't covet him as a small cadre, but focus on being a person, you know?

When it comes to your own body, you must think about it and think twice!

It's better to have nothing to say than to have honey on your lips. Men often smear honey on their mouths and oil on the soles of their feet.

If you can't talk about it, you can pass, and if you don't have a compatible personality, you have nothing to say, so it's dangerous to get married.

Go with the flow and don't force it too much.

At least it should be on par with what you think it would be, otherwise it's hard to sustain it, and I've tried.

There are two main questions that the subject wants to ask.

First, as you said, boys often skip some questions without replying. Why? What kind of personality can you see about him?

What does it mean? The essence of these problems is basically the same, in my opinion, the first is that he is not interested in you, so he is perfunctory or does not have your problems, but you say that he comes to you every time, so this is not very likely; The second is that you have only known each other for a month, and the emotional foundation is not enough, the boy may be introverted or meet the girl he likes is more shy (guessing), and not trusting enough, unable to immediately confide in the other party's question, you need to think about whether it is appropriate to say it, and then think about what can be said and what can not be said, if you feel that this matter is not easy to say, of course, perfunctory or simply do not answer and fool the past. And there's no habit of chatting at the end.,There are some brothers around me who don't pay attention to details and they don't end chatting.,My personal guess is that I didn't pay attention.,Didn't pay attention to this detail or something.。

Second, is there a need for intercourse?

At this time, you have been together for a month and have a certain understanding of each other, you have to determine whether he accounts for more than half of the qualities of the boy you care about the most, that is, the most essential question of liking or not. On the basis of preference, the subject can communicate with the boy, hoping that when the boy asks some things by himself in the future, the boy can tell himself, because he wants to know, and he can end well when chatting; If you don't want to communicate, then carefully observe him, whether he is really introverted or shy after a short relationship. It is necessary to need the subject to seriously feel his feelings for the boy, and then think about the reason why the boy does not reply to him, whether he can accept it, and then combine to determine whether to continue dating.

I hope the subject can think seriously and wish you happiness!

Seeing the situation you said, I suddenly remembered a story.

The story takes place before the liberation, when the landlords still existed, and the common people were living in dire straits. This is the context of the story.

said that in a poor mountain village, there is a girl Zhang who is very handsome. The matchmaker who proposed marriage was about to break the threshold, but this girl was also very picky. Si Li saw that the foreign minister had fallen in love with the two guys, and he couldn't make up his mind.

One of these two guys is a poor talent, who looks like a jade tree and is particularly literate, and the other is the son of a landlord's family, who looks like he has ugly facial features, but the family has land and silver.

On this day, the girl's second elder really couldn't hold it back. I had to let the girl choose one. The girl thought about it for a while, and then said:"Can I eat at the landlord's son's house during the day and spend the night at Xiucai's house? "。The second elder was shocked!

Think about it left and right. Are you uncertain? Still can't figure out the family background of the two? You have analyzed it yourself, why do you still ask the masses who eat melons? Gu Liang, what am I saying yes or no?

You have 3 options.

1 choice A (I don't know if it's really good to face you?) He has money, and men become bad when they have money.

2, choose B, (It's good for you, what do you mean, look down on you!) Unmotivated (this is not allowed by men)! b) is not recommended

I don't choose any of the 3.

What matters is which of them you like, leaving aside the material conditions. But the first boy was a little too short. If you can't love enough, you might as well look at the others.

You have to ask yourself: what do you want? What kind of person do you want to marry? What kind of life do you want to live? There is no such thing as right or wrong, you should choose what is most suitable for you, and that's enough.

Through communication, choose one that is the same as your own hobbies.

Choose your own happiness! Someone else's choice is not necessarily the best.

We can't decide for you, choose for yourself!

It's up to you to see what kind of life you want to live.

I don't even want to choose, I want to meet it sincerely.

1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.

2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.

3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.

4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.

5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties.

6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.

7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.

9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.

10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.

11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.

It would be embarrassing if both men and women didn't like to talk

I feel that the development is very good, but you all have no clear relationship, he doesn't dare to say that you are a girlfriend, do you recognize yourself as his girlfriend? Does he dare to say it without your consent? I think he's taking your feelings into account...

Something else sloppy or something, isn't that exactly why men need women?

Maybe he's a bit of an introvert. Isn't it good at expressing yourself? Yes, understandable, really!

In fact, it's understandable not to say that you're with you, because men, friends will joke when you say this, saying that the two of them are sticky, but it's a bit inappropriate to cook **porridge in front of you, take it slowly, and you really need to have a run-in period. I wish you happiness.

If men know about flowers, it's probably not your cup of tea, and men are trained by women.

Be decisive, and break up while the damage is not too deep. Many times, the details can tell the quality of a person.

There is a bit of a run-in period between two people when they are together, and it's good once it's over!