How did the phenomenon of empty nesters come about? Why do you want to live alone?

Empty nesters are young people who are separated from their parents, single, and living alone. Most of these young people have these traits, they are far from their hometowns, they work hard in big cities, they lack emotional sustenance, and they lack family life. There are two main groups of them, those who voluntarily become empty nesters and those who are forced to become empty nesters.

According to the survey report, about 64% of the respondents said that there are many empty nesters around them, and most of them lack emotional sustenance and poor living conditions.

Returning to the question of why there are empty nesters, I think the reasons are completely different for different types of empty nesters. Such as people who take the initiative to become empty nestersMost of them have social difficulties or prefer to live alone and yearn for independenceInstead of being under the umbrella of parents all the time. Compared with the strict discipline of parents and relatives and the intergenerational conflicts that cannot be alleviated, living outside the home has become the best choice, even if the living conditions are far worse than at home, but it can still make them feel happy.

And those who are forced to become empty nesters,It is even more of a reason that cannot be avoided for the time beingAfter all, young people who have just come to the big city to work hard have the financial strength to buy a house and a car, and take their parents to their side, so they can only live in a small rented house and bear the pain that they may have to go through when they grow up. In addition, even if they can afford to buy a house in a big city and settle down, their parents who are far away from home do not want to leave their hometown to live with their children. As a result, many young people who are struggling outside can only live alone all the time, and they can't get rid of the status quo of empty nesters for a long time.

Speaking of myself, why would I want to live alone? There is both subjective willingness and objective helplessness. First of all, because I have lived with my parents since I was a child, I lack the ability to live independently, and campus life has always been a collective life, but after I am financially independent, I want to be able to have my own private space and be able to control my own rhythm of life, so I took the initiative to choose to become a member of the empty nest youth.

Secondly, even in the process of becoming an empty nest youth, I also feel the heavy pressure of life, and how unrealistic it is to buy a house to live with my parents, because I can only barely pay the rent and living expenses every month. Therefore, for a long time to come, whether you want to or not, you will have to continue to be an empty nester. It can be seen that the emergence of the phenomenon of empty nest youth is complex and closely related to social development, population balance, and urbanization.

Empty nesters are an internet buzzword that refers to young people who are separated from their parents and families, single, and renting alone. There are many such young people in big cities, who are loners and generally have a low happiness index. How did the phenomenon of empty nesters come about?

Why do you want to live alone? Here's what I think. First of all, today's social development is rapid, but the economic gap between urban and rural areas still exists, many young people can only leave their hometowns to work hard in order to pursue higher levels of wages and better platforms, and parents are reluctant to leave their hometowns to live in big cities, which is an inevitable phenomenon of social development.

1. There are many employment opportunities in big cities, and many young adults will choose to work in first-tier cities.

Although people's lives are getting better and better, and the development of towns and villages is getting faster and faster, we have to admit that the economic development level of cities is better, so while we are young, we must go out to work hard and work hard for our future.

2. Young people yearn for life in big cities and want to look for opportunities here, so the phenomenon of empty nest youth has been created.

Nowadays, people's knowledge and cultural level is getting higher and higher, and young people are no longer satisfied with the life of small counties, and big cities are the places they yearn for.

Three: These empty nesters want to settle down in big cities, but it's difficult.

Living alone in a big city, although the rent pressure is high, it is very free, and life is more convenient than a company dormitory.

The main reason is that life is very stressful now, and people get along with each other very complicated, so they all want to have their own space, and they want to live alone and feel very comfortable, without thinking about anything.

Personally, I think the reason why empty nesters are created is because everyone is generally under more pressure, and if you live alone, you will be relatively free.

I think this phenomenon is nothing more than being forced by pressure, I think it is better to live alone, I want to live alone mainly because I like a quiet environment, I don't like to be particularly noisy, so that I can better calm down.

Nowadays, young people don't like to be constrained, so they care more about their privacy space and want to live alone, and the reason why I live alone is because of my personality, I don't like to be constrained, and I don't like others to control themselves and enjoy their own independent space.

It is because people are under more pressure nowadays, more and more yearning for a free life, and they are usually not nagged by others, and then the time to get up and the time to go to bed are not fixed.

I like to live by myself, and I don't want others to disturb me, so I have my own space. Because I am also a person who prefers freedom, I don't want to be disturbed by others, and I am used to living alone.

Mainly because most people are reluctant to communicate with other people nowadays and choose to live by themselves, which has led to a lot of such things, and now most people will not choose to fall in love, and it is relatively more convenient to live alone.

Empty nest pets refer to the fact that the owner cannot accompany and take care of the pet due to work or some other reasons, and the pet is left alone at home for a long time after putting on equipment such as automatic drinking fountains and automatic feeding machines.

Empty nest youth, refers to:

Bai's father, mother and relatives.

Young people who are separated, single and self-renting.

Empty nest youth dao is far away from their hometown and relatives, and returns to live alone.

Life, lack of emotional sustenance, lack of family life, struggle alone in the big city, and the prosperity and survival pressure of the big city make them seem more lonely. Like"Leftover women""Ant-clan"These words do not necessarily recognize these attributes, and many people may not be able to accept them"Empty nest youth"the concept.

According to a survey, of respondents said that they were around"Empty nest youth"Much, lack of emotional sustenance (and poor living conditions (are considered to be the two major dilemmas they face.

It refers specifically to single and lonely young people between the ages of 20 and 35. According to statistics, there are more than 50 million empty nesters in the country, and half of them have no sex for a year.

Show a comprehensive and objective attitude towards "empty nest youth" For "empty nest youth", we should treat "empty nest youth" in an all-round way. With the continuous development of society, especially the deepening of industrialization and urbanization, personal atomization is an irreversible phenomenon, so there is no need to worry and fear too much about "empty nest youth"; At the same time, "empty nest youth" should also attract our attention, and if it is allowed to develop, it will also bring a series of social problems and affect social harmony. 2.

"Empty nest youth" is a group of people who are proficient in network information technology, and big data shows that in terms of online shopping, snacks are one of their five favorite commodities, and at the same time, they often enjoy door-to-door cleaning, fruit and vegetable purchases, massage and massage and other services. Their average Sesame Credit score is 655 points, which is a high-credit group that qualifies for using shared bicycles without a deposit.

In addition, their knowledge and skills are being shared, with empty nesters sharing more than 80% of their skills in the "Xianyu" skill sharing category, with nearly 1.5 million skill sharing posts. The above data shows that the lifestyle of such young people is quietly changing, and they are full of positive energy and gradually become a social vane, "empty nest" may represent emptiness and powerlessness in the past, and today's "empty nest youth" has given it a new meaning, they show the world an independent, controlled life, a positive, upward attitude to life, and have a positive impact on social development. Extended Resources:

It is precisely because of this kind of young people's proficiency in network information technology that online virtual social software such as WeChat, Weibo, QQ, blogs and other online virtual social software has become the main way for them to connect with society, hindering their normal interaction with members of the real world, therefore, there is often a phenomenon ......such as class reunions where everyone chats freely on their mobile phones, and gathers old friends around them without saying a wordThe emergence of modern chat software and tools often brings "loneliness" to "empty nest youth", gradually losing the channels of normal communication with the outside world, reducing the opportunity to communicate with real humans, and multiplying their "loneliness", thereby reducing their happiness and happiness, which is not conducive to their physical and mental health development.