Whether a man succeeds or not, just look at his woman

Behind every successful man, there is a wife who silently supports him; In every happy marriage, there is also a wife who can be used as a "hole card".

A good wife determines the height of her husband's career.

A good wife who does not hesitate to give her husband financial and moral support when he needs support. The success of a husband's career is inseparable from the support and dedication of his wife.

A good wife determines the temperature of the marriage.

The wives who can be used as "hole cards" are all women with a big pattern, they know how to regulate their emotions when there is a dispute between husband and wife, and when the children are disobedient, they know that they are smiling and gently resolved, and such a marriage will always be as warm and pleasant as a spring breeze.

A good wife determines the direction of marriage.

Good wives understand that the ship of marriage requires both husband and wife to work together in order not to deviate from the course. In the event of strong winds and waves, the wife is the anchor of the ship, which can ensure the correct direction of the marriage.

A wife who can be a hole card can not only shelter the marriage from the wind and rain, but also charge forward for the marriage.

Those women who envy other people's good marriages want your marriage to ride the wind and waves and move forward bravely, first see if you have the ability to become the biggest hole card in your marriage.

If you can't, then let yourself work hard to grow, and when marriage requires it, you have the ability to become the other party's biggest hole card.

One day, when you meet a horse with a short pedal and a short water and a poor mountain, you can arrogantly say: I am here.

Why do some people say that a man's success depends on a woman?

1. Women will continue to encourage men, so that men are more confident and more motivated in their work.

Most people will think that a man's success depends not only on his own efforts, but also on women's encouragement. Maybe the man is a very ordinary person, he doesn't have a lot of courage, he just knows how to work hard. But a woman can discern because her man can make a career, so she always encourages him and tells him what his strengths are.

Second, women will take care of the family, so that men have no worries, and men can devote themselves to their careers.

Many men have the heart to do a great career, but in the end they fail to succeed, maybe there are too many concerns. And a woman who really understands men will make men feel at ease and boldly break through, she will be the woman behind the man, and take care of the elderly and children in a new way. When the elderly are sick and hospitalized, the women will run before and after without complaining; The children live and live, and the women also deal with it in an orderly manner.

With a capable woman, a man will be extremely grateful and will boldly devote himself to his work.

Third, many women will also fully support their men financially.

If a man wants to do a big career, in addition to having a flexible mind and the courage to think and dare to do, he is also inseparable from capital investment. It may be that men themselves are often unable to get their careers off the ground because of limited funds. And some women will raise funds for their men in order to let their husbands do it drastically, including their own dowry, all their savings, and borrow money from their relatives and friends, even if they will have a hard life in the future, she doesn't mind at all.

What a woman thinks about the most is to support her husband and let him do what he wants to do, such a woman is willing to endure hardships and pay, so a man's success is inseparable from her help.

If a man can succeed, then there must be a woman behind him who will take care of all the housework and can help the man cut off a lot of things. That's why there is such a saying.

Because women can help men succeed, they can also silently support men, and they can also provide support to men in terms of mental strength.

Because some women can help men, women will encourage men when they encounter difficulties and want to back down.

Some people say: To deal with a woman, you need to use entanglement, and if she can't bear it, she will be yours. Many men are convinced that they will only entangle women who are still arrogant and infatuated, and the conclusion will be gray.

Why, then, can't these men get the true heart of a woman? Generally because of these four reasons.

One. Just say it and don't do it.

Adult women have passed the age when they can't give up their hearts and hats after hearing a word or two, and they must be men's actions rather than words. There are some men who like to say very well to women, but they put it off when they make him take some practical action. Women are not stupid, and the short man in the behavior of the ape-giants in this kind of language is the most untouchable, so even if a man's mouth is sweet, she will not invest in her own sincerity.

Two. Not self-motivated.

Nowadays, some men pursue perfection and women are rejected, so they scold that women are practical, they must think that they have no money, and they will undoubtedly rush up when they encounter a lot of money. This is also the prejudice that some men have about women, and women don't just look at whether they have money to determine how to get along with their other half. There are some men who have no money temporarily, but they are self-motivated, they will work hard and hard to make their lives better, and they will be full of positive energy.

And some men who are not self-motivated, will only live in chaos, and scold women when they are rejected are not easy to reach the sincerity of women.

Three. It's always a mom boy who doesn't grow up.

Four. Violent tendencies.

There are some men who are irrational and angry, and they need to shake their fists to get angry at the slightest thing. This kind of men and women all avoid it, and it is said on the Internet that there are only zero times and one time of domestic violence, and most men who like to solve problems are not easy to correct these bad habits. There are even some men who ignore women deep down, feel that women should serve themselves, and use the advantages of physical fitness to force women to comply, this kind of man doesn't think that women will show their sincerity for him.

The way of working is not correct, you are not what the other party likes, you are not good to the other party, you often deceive the other party, if there are these 4 factors, men generally can't get the sincerity of women.

Men just like to make promises verbally, but they can never match their words with deeds, they are not self-motivated at all, they behave lazily, they are always like giant babies who do not grow up, they need others to serve them to eat and drink, they do not share the housework at home, they have violent tendencies, and they like to lose their temper when they disagree.

1. No self-esteem and self-love, and messing with flowers and grass outside. A woman who can get a man's heart must be a woman with her own principles, and she will definitely not. Second, they will not be an incompetent person, they are often independent, and generally this kind of woman will be favored by men.

These things. First of all, the man will not be checked, such as checking the man's mobile phone, and the man will not be required to report his whereabouts. When you quarrel with a man, you won't be pampered and arrogant, it's just a matter of facts. Nor will it fail to give face to men.

Do not contact with the opposite sex, for fear of misunderstanding by the other party; Don't covet each other's money, don't want your own man to look down on you; did not neglect each other's relatives and friends, and did love the house and Wu.