Why do people say that I am na ve, I am 22 years old, how can I become mature?

Read more books, or magazines such as readers, go out and walk more, experience something, and increase your experience. Generally speaking, it is said to be naïve, which means that the thinking is immature, the consideration of things is simple, not comprehensive, and so on.

Learn more about the world and think more about the world.

Naivety manifests itself in behavior and language. Generally, there is too little hardship, and it has always been in the gentle township.

Read more books to understand the implications. Run more to exercise your body and mind.

Talk less, do more practical things, and slowly other people's opinions of you will change.

Why, under what circumstances do you be judged to be naïve?

Growing up is a process, growing up is painful, after experiencing a lot, generally speaking, it will mature, there is no need to deliberately say how to mature; But when you pay attention to this, it proves that you have the consciousness to become better and are self-motivated, and your question is not naïve at all, very mature, haha.

Is it the perspective of the problem, or the style of doing things?

Simple, there is nothing wrong with it, of course, it also depends on the specific things, my personal understanding of maturity is to face problems and deal with them positively, rather than running away and dealing with them in a child's way.

You know yourself better, take your time.

The more you have experienced, the more setbacks you have suffered, and the more you will naturally mature.

Some people mature late, and students think that many things are beautiful because they are simple-minded in school.

Because I haven't seen the cruelty of this society, although I'm 22 years old, I'm still a college student who has never seen the world, so my thinking is very naïve, but also very simple and kind.

If an individual wants to grow up quickly, he must have enough energy and experience, if a person stays in school until the age of 22, then his social experience will be very small, so his thinking will be very naïve.

Why are some people still naïve in their 20s? For example, a 22-year-old college student speaks very naïvely, he has very little experience, relatively little work, and not so much social experience.

This is because everyone's birth background and family environment are different, and they are also affected by various factors, and everyone's personality and temperament are different.

Nowadays, people have not experienced setbacks, and their parents have taken it as a baby, and they have not been wronged since childhood, so they are very naïve.

In the new century, people's maturity is relatively late, because many people are only children in the family, they have been pampered since childhood, and they lack social experience, so they seem naïve.

may be because his family loves him more, and those who are surrounded by love will never grow up.

This situation is caused by his relatively simple thinking, he does not think deeply about anything, and only looks at superficial phenomena, so his relatively naïve thoughts will be formed.

Some people are still very naïve in their twenties, such as college students, which is normal, because students have little contact with society, most of their knowledge is in books, they have little social experience, and they always feel that reality is as beautiful as in books.

Maybe it's not that people are naïve, but that your thinking is too mature, and if there are differences between everyone, it can't be said that one side is wrong.

The living environment is different, the personality is not the same, some people are born optimists, they are very happy, they are very simple.

It's a process of growth, some early and some slow. It's better to grow up slower during school. Concentrate on concentration, no distractions, and focus on learning.

This is normal, because today's students are shooting from elementary school to college, and their heads don't come out, so if they don't come into contact with the camera, will their thoughts be very complicated?

Sometimes the mind has nothing to do with age, it can only be said that the 20-year-old is still very naïve, indicating that she is naïve and romantic, if she goes to the society to experience and experience, he will slowly become mature mentally.

Some college students may have less contact with society, and usually only care about studying, reading, and taking exams, so they lack social experience and have less contact with people, things, and things, so they are obviously not good at and naïve.

Of course, there should be areas where he is good at. The ruler is short, the inch is long, and there are advantages and disadvantages......

This can only show that his mental age and physical age do not match, that is, although he is quite old, he is still immature mentally.

College students have not been exposed to society so mature since they were young, except for learning and learning.

That's because everyone's growth experience is different, some are very mature all of a sudden, and some may be in their 30s and still like children.

Maybe the people he met were better, or maybe he was just simpler.

Everyone's exposure to the environment is different from that of people since childhood, which will lead to different thinking, and if he is still very naïve in his twenties, it means that his family has protected him too well.

Twenty-two years old is not a very old age, but it is not young, in the eyes of the older generation, it is indeed necessary to understand many things, to understand the world, not like a child who does not understand anything, will not, is simply a big child.

1.If you rarely go far away, often stay with your parents, with some good friends, and don't experience too many things, you will still be very naïve in front of some things, you don't have the ability to exercise to deal with things, your parents will also treat you as a child in many aspects of daily life, and it will also make a lot of your words and ideas very naïve, your age is growing, yes, but your thoughts are not growing with your age. Your views on many things will be a little more childish, that is, naïve, it is a difficult thing to grow up in proportion to your age and ideas, and you may not realize that you have always been surrounded by the same group of people, how can you know that you are different from other circles of people, everyone has their own circle, we have to dare to make our own comfort zone, to see the outside world, this will help you grow, so that you are not so naïve.

2.Your own heart has not grown up, you have experienced very few things, and you have not seen some very realistic things in life and society, you will retain the kinder and naïve side of people, naïve can also be said to be childish, when you are facing difficulties, others will not think that you have the ability to deal with this problem, and reality proves that you have indeed not, in fact, age is not the reason for others to laugh at you, naivety is.

3.In the stage of your life growth, you spend most of your time at home and school, at home you are the baby of the family, although there are teachers and teachers in school, but teachers are for the sake of your grades, most of your classmates are also like you, and the idea is relatively simple, and there are not people in the society like philistine, your thinking will be relatively naïve, to be honest, the impact of the environment on people is really big, the people you come into contact with are kind, and you have not met the great evil, It is also very possible that you have a good view of the world, that others have experienced and understood more than you, and that your thoughts and words will be more mature than you.

Here are some things you can try.

One: Calm. (1) Don't show your emotions casually.

2) Don't tell people about your difficulties and experiences.

3) Think for yourself before asking for someone else's opinion, but don't talk about it first.

4) Don't nag your grievances at every opportunity.

5) Try to discuss important decisions with others, and it is best to release them every other day.

6) Don't be flustered when you speak, even when you walk.

Two: Careful. (1) Always think about the cause and effect of what is happening around you.

2) For the implementation problems that are not in place, we must explore the root cause of them.

3) Suggestions for improvement or optimization of the accustomed way of doing things.

4) Develop the habit of being methodical and orderly in everything you do.

5) Always go to a few faults or drawbacks that others can't see.

6) You should make up for the deficiencies anytime and anywhere. Three: Courage.

1) Don't use words and phrases that lack self-confidence.

2) Don't always go back on what you have already decided.

3) Don't be unassertive when people are arguing.

4) When the overall atmosphere is low, you should be optimistic and sunny.

5) Be mindful in everything you do because someone is watching you.

6) When things don't go well, take a breath and find a breakthrough again, and end cleanly.

Four: generosity. (1) Don't deliberately turn people who may be partners into opponents.

2) Don't take other people's small mistakes and mistakes seriously.

3) Be generous in money and learn the three charities (wealth giving, dharma giving, and fearless giving) (4) Do not have the arrogance of power and the prejudice of knowledge.

5) Any achievements and achievements should be shared with others.

6) Someone has to sacrifice or dedicate themselves when they go ahead.

Five: integrity. (1) Don't say what you can't do, try to do it.

2) Don't talk about false slogans or slogans.

3) In response to the "dishonesty" problems raised by customers, come up with ways to improve.

4) Stop all "immoral" means.

5) Trick yourself up, or not!

6) Calculate the integrity cost of the product or service, that is, the brand cost.

Six: Responsibility. (1) When reviewing any mistakes, start with yourself or others.

2) After the matter is completed, the fault will be reviewed first, and then the credit will be listed.

3) Acknowledging mistakes starts from the superiors, and the performance starts from the subordinates.

4) Embark on a plan with clear definitions of rights and responsibilities and appropriate allocation.

5) Be clear about people or organizations who are "afraid of things".

6) Have the courage to take responsibility for the losses caused by it, and should bear it.

I think it's just that being a person and doing things is not good enough, and if you want to become mature, you must first have a lot of experience. Get in touch with society and learn more. I believe you will soon change yourself.

In this day and age, it is normal for you to be naïve at the age of 20, and when you are beaten by society and destroyed by your marriage, I believe you will change.

No one is born mature in a person's life, maturity is a process, which requires time and experience of baptism and tempering, so as to be able to form a mature character, or a mature appearance.

Some people are very mature at the beginning, maybe they think they are mature in the early days of your acquaintance, but this maturity is something that he has accumulated and honed over the time that has gone before. In fact, the so-called maturity is a deliberately manifested illusion, when no one can rely on it, you can only rely on yourself, you will continue to become strong, do not explain anything, be careful so as to know, do not be out of a mature character steady, not impatient or impatient.

But then he became naïve, which means that he put down his mask of maturity in front of you. In the process of getting along with you, I feel very comfortable, very relaxed, and full of security. Therefore, he will let go of the mature mask that he often wears on his face, no longer suppress himself, no longer let himself feel that there is no one to rely on, at least in the soul you are his comfort.

So when these intentions are mature, these naïve people who later behave in front of you are destined to become your true friends, at least you don't have so much guard to get along with.

This is because of the depletion of knowledge, people need knowledge to move forward every day, and if you don't learn new knowledge, it's easy to fall behind. The other is the problem of practice, and without enough practice, there is a problem with health.

Haha, at first, because I didn't know each other, I didn't know what kind of person the other party was, but then I knew each other, and what kind of character should it be, in short, I wouldn't deliberately play it.