The daughter in law and current girlfriend identified by my parents, I am very distressed, begging f

In this case, it is recommended that both women give up, and tell your parents that your heart is very chaotic now and you need to be quiet, and then go out and be quiet. Wait for this matter to pass and then talk about it again, in this case, both relationships have deteriorated, which determines that there will be problems in the future marriage.

If you really want to choose one, choose Jiao, after all, this is your recent choice, that Ping, you really gave up, and there is no way not to give up, because you have this now, Jiao.

Do you want that?

If you want to be coquettish, you don't have to say too much, just say that the former ex-girlfriend, in special circumstances, had a meal together, drank too much and did something wrong, please forgive your parents, your parents are nothing, Jiao's parents are not a big deal, the big thing is Jiao's attitude towards you, she can forgive you, then it's no problem, and Jiao's parents and Jiao apologize. Then be 100% sincere and reconciled to Jiao. After a long time, they won't care about it, after all, it's not all your fault.

If you choose Ping, then your two families will be very stiff, and your parents will have a hard time, what do you think?

If the wife wants to choose the virtuous class, she should not take her appearance as the first choice. Choose a wife, the first choice is talent, the second is virtuous and virtuous, and the third is beauty.

And most importantly ... Marriage is not your business alone, you will understand it in the future!!

Forget about the "little three", although it is very painful to forget a person. Maybe you will never forget it in your life, but when you really understand, you will know that this is the right choice.

This one... Brother, you actually know very well in your heart, you can't be together if you say so much, because you mind her past.

It's still the same as the other one, and when it is broken, it is broken, and it is quick to do things.

If you prefer the junior and don't like the identified daughter-in-law very much, then you should choose the junior, and if you don't want the facts to be too complicated, choose the identified daughter-in-law.

Friend, be realistic, a good relationship now does not mean a good relationship in the future, I suggest the girl in the back, you will be uncomfortable if you can't get over the hurdles in your own heart, and this woman has been a junior, for money, do you guarantee that you will always have money, maybe one day she will be idle and you have no money.

It's not that she is a person, because you already know about this matter and have prejudices about it, so even if you can be stable together for a while, you will still be troubled because of this after inadvertently remembering it one day, be decisive, don't make a big deal. Women are inherently troublesome, and you dare to let two women meet, be decisive

My advice to you is to leave for a while, leave a little space and time for each other, and let yourself calm down and think about it, marriage is a big deal, not child's play, although you can get divorced, but that is a harm to both parties, maybe you will see something you can't see before when you stand outside this matter, and I hope you will solve your troubles as soon as possible.

There is no distinction between predecessors and successors.

Follow your feelings and heart.

Whoever you love, you can find, this is fundamental.

Jiaojiao

Okay, you choose one and let go of the other, choose the one you like, and make it clear to your parents.

I love each other very much, hehe.

Wake up, full of calculations, it's difficult here, it's hard there, I've never seen it, it's also called love, you can say that I'm standing and talking, and I don't have back pain These are very practical problems How can I ask you, but I want to ask you If love can't eliminate all difficulties, only see each other's good, are you in love?

True love is the most precious thing in a person's life

As a man, if you don't even have the courage and courage to make the most precious thing in your life.

Then I don't think you're going to achieve anything in your life, and I'm sorry, it's hard to hear, and that's it

It's hard to choose. Different people will have different choices. Our answers can only be used as references.

It's not easy to love each other, and you should cherish it. But it's not wrong for parents to think about their children. If you want to have an unearthly love, follow your heart.

If you want a realistic and stable future, listen to your parents. You can't have it both ways. But think clearly.

Friend, I can only tell you that I am from the Northeast and my daughter-in-law from Guangdong. We both discussed getting married.

The business is too calculating, and true love still cares about that? It's better not to talk about it.

Your girlfriend doesn't spoil you, loses her temper, and gets a little cheap, who else do you expect her to go to?

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, it's not your daughter-in-law who has the final say, and if you have children in the future, it's good to move around more.

Does your daughter-in-law have any big sins of red apricots crossing the wall and extramarital affairs?

In a word, tolerate it, it's not someone else's daughter-in-law who spoils.

Well, you are a man who can endure, but fortunately you don't live with your parents, otherwise you could have taken three lives. You're obviously impatient now, you have to communicate if you have a problem, and if you don't like her way, you have to talk to her, you don't tell her how she knows.

Divide it, such a simple thing, unfilial.

Happy New Year! I'm a father-in-law. I only refer to the marriage of my sons, which may be different from your parents.

However, after all, marriage is your lifelong event, a lifelong affair, because you are going to live with that person for a lifetime, so you must first think about your own happiness, your parents are heaven and earth, they gave you life, raised you, and have endless kindness. But you can't sacrifice your lifelong happiness for "filial piety." The work has to be done slowly, you only talked about your father here, not your mother, I want to be a mother's kindness, maybe think more for your son, you should use your mother to do your father's work, and people who can talk must also be used, the reason is clear, I don't think your father will stick to the end.

I hope that you yourself will not waver in the first place, hold on to your love, and keep your happiness! I wish you lovers to be married!

First, focus on your parents. Forget about any relative's. If married, your girlfriend and your parents will have a great intersection in their lives. As for relatives, they only see each other a few times a year, so don't care what they do.

Since the problem is located in the parents. It starts with your parents. You have to understand what kind of girls your parents like and what kind of girls you hate.

For example, height, your dad dislikes her for being short, is this what your dad is most dissatisfied with her? If so, it's easier to do. But I don't think so.

Parents are generally most concerned about the following points:

1.Character quality Is it kind and considerate, diligent and filial?

Because it affects their relationship with their daughter-in-law, they care about whether their daughter-in-law will be good to you and good to them. For example, a girl with a strong personality is not welcome because her parents may feel that they will quarrel later and cannot tolerate conflicts.

2.Family conditions What is the girl's family background, how is the tutoring, and how is the work?

This is about your financial situation after you get married, and the relationship between your parents and her parents. If she has a wealthy family, then your parents are relatively relaxed, for example, the house may be bought by two families. If her family is well-read, then the relationship between the two families is good.

I'll give you a negative example, it's very common, let's say that during the Chinese New Year, her family asks you to go to her house every year, and you have to buy a lot of things to bring over (place to wash), your parents are unwilling, how to solve it? Of course, it's all hypothetical, but it's certainly something your parents care about.

3.Appearance and figure This is actually not so important, most people are ordinary people, not celebrities. The wife is a life, not a vase.

In short, understand what your parents care about and consider, prescribe the right medicine, and use your girlfriend's strengths to convince them.

First of all, I want to say respect for the answer in your heart, after all, the person who has lived with her all her life is you, not your parents, who are just dissatisfied with your girlfriend's appearance, but they don't really know her as a person. This requires you to work together, so that your parents can see her good, slowly recognize him from the heart, and finally they will definitely accept her, and you will eventually become a family. But be sure to pay attention to the method and don't have a violent conflict with your parents, after all, our parents are also for our good, although they are not always right, but they are really for us.

Good luck in the end!

Don't go against your parents, because if you do, your parents will take their anger on your girlfriend. Aren't your parents demanding, so you try to get your girlfriend to show her best in front of your parents, and you have to play a coordinating role between your parents and your girlfriend. Don't give up on your girlfriend because of family opposition, now it's more important than anything else to find someone who is really right for you.

The two of you have to work together to get your parents to gradually develop a crush on your girlfriend.

First of all, you can't elope. It's a way to escape, and your girlfriend will lose the chance to be accepted by your parents forever. I think you should try to make your girlfriend do more things that people (your parents) like all the time, and at the same time try to make him not take your parents' dislike of him to heart, and take it slowly, step by step, for a few years, so that your parents can slowly understand the good things about your girlfriend.

Parents are always good for their children. If you really can't do it, you will secretly get a marriage certificate (the next policy).Or if the woman has a child, don't kill it (next resort, provided that you will be responsible for her).

Hang on! Life is short, it is not easy to find someone who truly loves each other, please cherish it!

These problems you mentioned can be overcome, there is nothing difficult in the world, not to mention that it is not very difficult.

Create opportunities for your parents to get along with your girlfriend so that they get to know her and recognize that she is a good girl, so as to ignore the external conditions.

The external conditions can also be completely changed, pay attention to grooming, dressing up, and creating a sense of decency and knowledge, which can increase your parents' good impression of her.

Let your girlfriend constantly improve herself, anyone can change!

I wish you all happiness!

Be sure to stick to it!!

Birthday Bazi has a long history in Chinese folk, the older generation is more convinced of this, there is no practical basis for the birth Bazi and incompatible, if you and your girlfriend are very happy, there is no disagreement, if one day you and your girlfriend parted ways, this becomes an excuse for you and your girlfriend to break up, the Bazi is not compatible, the older generation is worried about this problem! My girlfriend and I were like this at the time, saying that we didn't get along, and now we have been married for 10 years, and our children are 8 years old, so we are very happy! There was a small episode in the middle.,At the time, I said that we didn't get along.,What should I do?,I said that my girlfriend had a mole on her neck.,The gentleman who fits the eight characters said casually.,Then it's resolved.。。

No more problems! So my advice to you is that it mainly depends on how well you and your girlfriend are in life, work, emotional harmony, tolerance and understanding, whether she is the person you want to spend your life with, if you can be sure, there is no problem! You can make any excuse and say that you are still together!

Wishing you happiness!

What is Feudalism? Feudalism was a political tool for the feudal monarch to rule the people in the old society. I'm a post-80s generation, I went to school, I believe in science, we have to resolutely oppose superstition, of course, parents are our parents after all, we have to understand them, after all, they are old.

My 87-year-old rabbit daughter-in-law is a dragon When I talk about it, it's really not good, that no, my family says that the dragon and rabbit are divided into two ways, Mao, I don't believe it, now I have children, I am very happy, the most important thing is that two people love each other, life is good, money is much more important than the birthday.

Parents consider the family situation, and whether you are suitable or not means not the two of you, but the family situation of the two of you. I want to explain to you slowly in the future, this is just an introduction! It is necessary to look at the opinions of the elders and the elderly in the family in a mature and comprehensive manner.

Trust it! But also believe in yourself!

To be honest, existence is reasonable, and there are things that have existed for generations, and there are other things that have been rational, but there are some laws that have not really been discovered. Again, if you believe, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not. Nothing can be certain, what you have to pay attention to now is to measure the value of your marriage to her, that is, the gain and loss.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is always right to be cautious.

is not credible, mainly because the personalities of the two are incompatible, and the eight characters of birth are all false, which is the psychological effect of people.

Marriage is your own, and you must make your own decisions.

Love is your own. It's okay to feel good for yourself.

People have to be assertive.

You'll have to take your time to convince your parents, as long as you're willing to wait.

Marry someone you don't love, the right person, and then you will be the son of Liu in the gold powder family and go crazy

If you're a big man, you can't take this little thing! You meet the marriage law, when the time comes, give him your grandson, see if he hugs or not?