My parents are really bad to me, and I don t want to sue them

I think you can sue if you want to, but you have to think carefully about it, if you don't expect to have a relationship with them in the future, but only a responsibility, just sue it. I don't know if I can succeed, but maybe this will attract social attention, and it may not be necessary to get help! Since you want to study so much, you should be an ambitious and patient person, so you must endure the hardships!

When dealing with your parents, please try to have an attitude of helplessness and last resort, and don't hate them too much. Please take care of yourself! Don't despair at any time!

What your parents are doing is illegal, and you can first go to the relevant authorities for mediation. If it doesn't work, you can only pick up the law. Tell!

Otherwise, as you said, it's too late, delaying your youth, and it's too late to regret it. Although you have the responsibility to support your parents, you also have the obligation to support your children. They have not fulfilled their obligations by not allowing you to go to school, and by insulting and insulting you, which has become illegal.

I think you'll win if you sue them. Everyone is equal before the law, and you will definitely get justice.

Isn't it good to go out to work and make money to go to high school and college, I worked part-time in high school, I remember that I earned more than 5,000 yuan in one of my summers, which is still good, but my parents are not good to me, but the family is too poor, haha, and if you go to college, you can also apply for student loans, I think it's okay, so I don't mind or don't sue your parents, and a few fellow villagers or a small piece of money to go out to work and make money can also go to high school and college, And I think your life will be richer this way, won't you??? I think it's good to get in touch with the society in advance, and I will cherish the hard-won learning opportunities even more.

Don't sue. If they treat you badly, do you think you can survive until now?

Sue·· It's not a notice... Find a relative to sue him... Seek help from the relevant authorities.

Understand something, have a long heart, impress them with your performance, see that they still treat you like that, and if he treats you like that, it is not that he can't support himself, find a way to support himself.

Let's talk to the relevant departments for mediation.

I feel like I should sue. The economy is good. Why don't you send your child to school?

But you should find your uncle and aunt to help you. And not by yourself.

What I do, my parents say that I am wrong, this has to be considered from two aspects, to see whose problem it is.

First of all, what my parents can't say is right, then we have to see what I do, even if it's wrong, it's not all wrong. This is the reason why our parents are not comfortable with us, who think that we are not capable of discerning these things, and who want to teach us with their own cognitive values. Maybe sometimes it's really that we don't do well, we don't have experience, and we don't see things as thoroughly as our parents, but at this time, our parents should teach us, and they shouldn't deny us completely, making us feel that our existence is superfluous, because they have to interfere in everything we do.

As a person who has come from the past, your parents evaluate you as a certain thing, and it is possible that you have really done something wrong, so think about it more.

Parents always think that their children are doing something wrong, which is actually a disagreement between the two generations. First of all, parents are prejudiced against their children, do not like their children's thoughts and behaviors, and generalize that their children are all wrong; Children also have immaturity, their thoughts and actions do not fit into the traditional ideas of their parents, and there is also a lack of explanations for their parents. Parents should communicate more with their children and patiently explain their thoughts to their children; Children should respect their parents, explain and communicate more, so that their parents' concepts can keep up with the new era and achieve family harmony.

Questions. My parents always like to instill their own ideas and practices into me.

Yes. It's all a parent's practice.

You have to understand. Questions.

But I'm a young man, an adult, I have my own ideas and practices, and their imposition will only make me feel annoying, and I don't want to talk to them, I have a job and a salary, and they have to nag when I go to the vegetable market to buy a vegetable market, is it necessary? Saving that little money will make them millionaires.

Young people, parents also came from that era.

There is a generation gap between parents and children.

As a child, parents should not object to their words, and they can go in and out of the left ear.

Questions. Tell your parents that they are tired from work, they say they are not tired from pulling several truckloads of garbage every day, how do you say this can communicate? In their eyes, sitting in front of the computer is playing, and typing mental work will not be tiring.

The times have changed, their thinking has not changed, they have to pretend to be poor and have no food to eat if they can make their lives better, and they also say that it is a waste of money to be a child, there are sweepers at home, washing machines at home, and the work pressure is not small, and it is also wrong to return to the home machine to reduce their housework burden.

This is the generation gap.

Your parents don't want you to go through what they have been through, so they will guide you with their experiences.

Your parents don't want you to go through what they have been through, so they will guide you with their experiences.

Questions. It is because of the suffering, I hope they live better, as a result, there are machines to help deal with housework, they are not allowed to use, they are not willing to learn how to use the machine to do housework, we are young and busy with work, do not have so much time to do housework by themselves, their own back pain and grow vegetables, do housework, do not understand why there are such conditions but better, do not learn high-tech when the time comes to do what to do.

Parents also have dignity, new things and new things must be accepted slowly, there is this modern technology will not be used, you have to teach patiently, they are also afraid of you laughing.

Because your ideological views are different from those of your parents, you can't integrate your ideas with each other, your parents have their rights and wrongs, you have your own opinions, they think you are too naïve, you think they don't consider your ideas.

Then you have to ask them what is the right ......

They have done their best to treat me well, their own ability is limited, it is not easy to support me to go to university, it is difficult for me to complain about them, if I still complain about them, I am too much of a failure. I never complained about my parents, on the contrary I am grateful to them because they seem to me to be the best parents in the world.

Yes, they don't have much money to buy me a house or a car, but even then I'm grateful to them. I thank God for letting me live in such a loving family of origin, relatively poor materially, but they are genuinely good to me.

What exactly can parents give their children? Give them love, give them a platform, and the rest will be up to them.

On the contrary, if you buy him a car and a house, your children will still blame you, then you are really a failure as a parent. It's because you give too much to your two children that they have so many demands and complaints about you. You have given your children a relatively good standard of living, much better than the children of many families, and it is already very good to be able to achieve such living conditions as your family, and you have done your best, so why should your children blame you

Don't complain about your parents at any time, as long as they love you and are genuinely good to you.

What kind of life you want to live, you have to rely on yourself to struggle, and you can live what kind of life you have with what kind of ability, which is very fair and reasonable.

Don't worry about your children who will blame you in the future, children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and we can only grasp the present moment and try our best to love them.

Parents are not necessarily to blame.

Parents are the most important people in our lives, they are the creators of our lives, and they are the companions of our growth. They have had a huge impact on us and have played an important role in the growth of our game.

At the same time, each person is an individual with their own thoughts, feelings, and needs. If your parents don't give it to you, maybe it's because they have their own considerations and reasons, maybe it's because they want you to be independent, maybe it's because they want you to take responsibility for yourself.

Therefore, when faced with this situation, we should first understand the parents' considerations and positions, respect their decisions, and not blindly blame them. At the same time, we should also learn to be independent, take responsibility for ourselves, and strive to achieve our dreams and goals.

Once, I also felt sad because my parents didn't give me, and even had the idea of blaming them, after the incident, after experiencing some worldly things, I gradually realized some of the possible situations why they were fighting to "not give", and then I didn't continue to think about this problem, because there were other things to be busy, and then later, I read a story: there was a person, his mother Ju Beixiang did very evil things to others, so he was punished very heavily, this person in order to save his mother, scattered all the family wealth to compensate, And in order to alleviate the suffering of the mother because of the punishment, she is willing to bear several times the punishment of the mother, perhaps, we will ask why? It's just that he misses his mother for giving birth to him, and he realizes that maybe it's because his mother didn't get a better education when she was a child......But his mother gave him life, and he was willing to suffer for his mother's sin, but if it were me, I would definitely not be able to do it, and I would not and did not have to spend time to bear those sins, and I felt that I was very lucky.

It depends on the specific reason, after all, parents, take more responsibility and blame less.

Once a person grows up, when he becomes an adult, his parents sometimes want you to be able to stand alone, so in this case, he doesn't give you anything to resist, and you have no right to blame him.

Because your mind is not mature enough, you can't understand the hard work of your parents to earn money. If you open your mouth to say a word, it will take a lot of effort on your parents' part.

But your parents, they don't owe you. You have to earn your own money when you get a job. Friends are slippery.

I think your parents said that you are not very good, you should go, you should work hard, because what your parents say is your expectation, and hope for you, I hope you can be motivated, you have to fight for your parents, make a little achievement as soon as possible, and show your parents 1 con, so you have to struggle and work hard.

And you don't change from point to point, I think it's because they are very opposed to you in some way, so they see you as bad, but they are not really like this, as long as you change a habit that they oppose the most, the attitude will be much better.

The best option is to be able to do the work of psychological construction on your own when you are self-aware. Some people find their own answers through reading, some people find their balance through sports, some people find their rhythm through **, and some people find their own direction through thinking. And these works are done in their own hearts, and it is difficult to touch people and things in the outside world, especially when there is hostility and rejection to parents, almost the enemy of the whole world!

But there are always exceptions, which requires you to do more exercises on "vipassana introspection", the more you do it, the calmer your inner feelings will be, the clearer and more reasonable you will be in terms of choices and decisions, and the more you look at everything around you is more in line with the laws of logical thinking, otherwise you will be messed up and entangled!

The current habits of their parents are also precipitated by them for many years, and some of them are inherited from their parents, combined with their own experience and practice for so many years to form their own cognitive system, and they are convinced, this is their belief. If they can self-summarize and integrate, then this cognitive system is mutually beneficial, including the views of husband and wife, parent-child relationship, and people and things around them; If they don't have the ability and awareness to do this, go with the flow and do it at will, the results are incalculable, and anything can happen. However, if we extrapolate from the principle of the "butterfly effect", it is not difficult to find that in fact, the most affected is the parent-child relationship, because this is the only relationship that cannot be broken (whether it is blood, society, or law), therefore, there are higher requirements for the psychological maturity of parents.