I m really troubled, friends help me...

You go to the temple for a few days. Especially when there are activities, listen to them talk about the Dharma, chant sutras, and talk to them about their views on love, and you will not be so painful. You will find that you are thankfully separated.

You will find that your current woman is so good, so worthy of love, and she has her own world, she can't feel your feelings for her, or you are no longer suitable. Not attractive to each other. If you really use the words of Buddhism, that is, your fate is exhausted, and you are still entangled in this bad fate to hurt yourself and affect your current life, you can only say that you are too bad at living, you are stupid.

Then you will find that you are really not suitable, and if you think about it, there are many differences and difficult to communicate, and there is very little heart-to-heart. Otherwise, you wouldn't have been separated so easily.

I once had a relationship, 4 years, I thought how much I loved her, but for various reasons separated, I was miserable for half a year, and I went to many places. Later, I had the pleasure of staying at Longquan Temple in Beijing for 3 days. I realized that I had put myself in a trap that I had set up and couldn't get out, and she had already started a new relationship and life.

Later, I gradually went seriously to dating my current girlfriend, and walked out step by step, only to realize how correct it was to break up. And what a surprise it is to fall in love with someone again. Even if she were standing in front of me now, I wouldn't have any thoughts swinging.

It's already calm. Don't pay attention to anything about her, as if you never knew her. And in the past few years, you have been doing experiments, and now you have to really face life.

It's normal, it's human nature.

Because people's hearts are flesh and blood, they will have feelings.

Besides, it may be the first love, or it may be a lifelong concern.

But we don't know the process of you and your ex-girlfriend.

I think if you hadn't ever been sorry for her, you wouldn't have to feel guilty.

If she's ever sorry for you, you should have a bit of backbone.

She's getting married too? Then you'd better not think about her.

Or magnify her shortcomings, it will help you.

Besides, you now have a girlfriend, and you have to be worthy of her.

If you really don't love her, you can find someone else to love.

If you're half-hearted, you're going to get mental illness.

Dream about ex-girlfriend.

Dreaming of your ex-girlfriend means that you are now traumatized, and this trauma will make your subconscious miss the most innocent relationship, maybe you have just fallen out of love now, maybe you are now emotionally having some problems that are bothering you, so you will dream of your ex-girlfriend.

Dreaming of your ex-girlfriend getting married indicates that you still like your ex-girlfriend very much or hope that your ex-girlfriend will find a home as soon as possible.

It seems that you don't have a chance to reconcile again, if there is, you don't have to be so painful, think about it day and night, try to enrich yourself and don't fall into the painful memories that make you miserable, hook up with your current girlfriend more (if you like your current girlfriend) and integrate more memories with her to cover up your ex-girlfriend. It will naturally get better after a long time, although it will be painful and good luck.

Ay! Looking for him in a dream, I suddenly looked back at the man but was in the dim light!! Alas, alas!

But this myth is coming to an end. "Falling flowers deliberately follow the flowing water, flowing water ruthlessly loves falling flowers", I have seen infatuated women, infatuated men are rare. I admire your affection, but I don't admire your way so that you don't feel sorry for your current girlfriend??

What seems great to others is hurting another person to me! Why did this to her? Have you thought about it?

Since you can't tolerate other women, then separate, don't hurt another woman.

Well, if you just don't want to dream, you can try sleeping in a different place or direction, or take some sleeping pills. But if you want to have a heart disease, maybe you still have to find your ex-girlfriend, if you can be ordinary friends and talk every day, I believe you won't always dream of her.

Why torture yourself, if you still love her, and if you can, you go to her.

Find a psychiatrist, don't delay yourself, helping others also requires ability.

Life is bound to have flaws, and it is difficult to get back what is lost.

Poor people in the world are like this, why can't there be lovers in the world who are loyal to their families?