Eliminate inhibitions, close the distance, and find a way

Actually, I'm really afraid of hurting you when I say this, and I can clearly see from your account that this girl has no feelings for you. When I was in school, I was in a similar situation to you. Two suggestions for you:

If you really don't want to give up, you can do it with sincerity. But I don't think it's very likely to succeed (my opinion). I think you should think twice about going to the same university as her.

If she is really touched by you in the end, it is of course ideal that a lover will eventually become a family. If she went to college and followed someone else, how could you be embarrassed? If you are happy now, I can't say anything about going to a university, it's your choice after all.

But don't you think there's too much to change now? Is it worth it? Bet on an unreliable love with your great future? Think.

If you like it, don't give up 、、、

Not all good guys are necessarily going to please that girl. Men are not bad, women are not loved. I think you've done a lot, maybe that girl doesn't like your type.

Maybe she accepts your kindness, but she doesn't accept you as a person. You're not the one he loves, so she's going to be very embarrassed. You should find someone who is in love, not such unrequited love.

Anyway, you are still young, you should study hard, and you will meet more suitable girls in the future.

Get to know what she likes first, and then talk to her about what you like, so that you don't have to be so inhibited when talking to her.

She said that there was actually another guy who had waited longer than I had for her. What if it was said on purpose? Or if that's really the case, then you can prove it with your actions, waiting for her longer doesn't mean anything!

Like don't give up.

Let go of the dots. I treat it with a normal heart.

The important thing is to have the right mentality.

It does take time, don't push her too hard, tell her that you are willing to wait for her to let go of herself and accept your bond.

In addition, everyone starts from their first love, so there is no need to worry that they are in love for the first time, as long as they are sincere to her and slowly work hard to change themselves for her. I'm sure she can feel your sincerity.

Hopefully, time will bring your two hearts closer

The two of you have reached the early stage of love, and you have not yet reached the level of "love".

You have to work harder, and the girl being hurt is not the main thing.

She is also a human being, as long as you show her sincerity and win her trust, then she will not be inhibited.

Remember, what she wants is trust! "Love" trust.

I think.

She hasn't fully opened her heart yet.

Or maybe I haven't liked you yet.

I always think that if a girl likes a guy very much.

Unless it's a very traditional person.

Otherwise, they won't dodge.

Now that people have spoken out, they think you're not considerate enough.

So why can't you do something good at it?

Love comes from the heart.

I thought of her, so I told her that I would care more about it when it was cold and hot, and this embarrassing situation would naturally be solved.

Good luck.

Maybe it doesn't feel like enough.

Engage more and communicate more.

Don't be too nervous.

Otherwise the atmosphere will become more tense.

She'll be more reserved.

Take it easy.

Feelings should be cultivated slowly, don't worry, take her out to play often, relax your mood, and gradually get better.

For example, go to some lively places. Hehe. It's better to make her happy.

Time, give her some time.

I think time is the medicine.

Take your time, and wait if it's true love. Do whatever you want to be good to him.

What your girlfriend said is a bit similar to the singing of "Not Full of Lovers" It is recommended that the landlord listen to it and see if he can take something from the song.

It's a matter of time before you believe in yourself.

Hehe, she just wants you to know she's not just a random person.

Brother: Wait, don't worry, time will tell, I wish you happiness.

Joke. Yellow jokes: Don't overdo it.

And then there's sweet talk.

I've used it all, and that one works. Sweet. Feel better

If you want to get closer to others, first of all, don't be inhibited.

Let others see your nature and friendliness.

Because usually first impressions are super important.

His first impression of you determines whether he wants to continue the conversation with you if he doesn't have the desire to chat with you in the first place.

Then there's no basis for continuing the topic, isn't it?!!

After giving a good first impression again.

You'll be able to explore each other's common hobbies.

Let's start with the basics of study and work, to the anecdotes around you, to political current affairs, to celebrity gossip, and even to your inner thoughts, your views on such and such an event.

Actually, there are many, many topics to talk about. It depends on what his profession is or what he is studying, and you can roughly see what he is interested in

Let's go to the foodie and invite her to dinner.

True knowledge must come from science.

Find a good entry point and choose a topic that interests both parties, and you're good to go. I can sometimes talk to the bus conductor all the way.

This is my personal opinion that you can get closer to someone by speaking in a tone of voice or with body movements (such as patting the other person's shoulder).

Talking with a smile on your face should be able to eliminate some of it, the main thing is to be good at communication, not so rusty, make more jokes, improve your sense of humor, and make more friends with different personalities.

Yes, I'm pretty much the same, with people I know, like a madman, I don't know or don't know each other, I may not be able to say a word.

This requires you to have a common language with him, and you also need to be generous, not have any sense of restraint, and find more common topics.

Don't care too much about what other people think, it has to do with your age, experience, personality, and experience.

Take your time, as long as you have a desire, it will change.

Deliberate change is not a good idea, but can be very restrictive.

Finding a common language can bring us closer together.

o( oHa! You don't need to restrain yourself, be bold and open yourself, and your charm will rise

Hehe, that's what you didn't find the purpose of chatting, your idea of chatting is to share the joys and sorrows of life with others, or to communicate and ** experience, or to comfort others or to need encouragement from others? If you talk nonsense, others will think that you are not really chatting, but perfunctory.

Hope it helps.

Wine is a thousand glasses of confidants, less words, no speculation, more than half a sentence, this is very useful.

Speak normally and then discover common ground, and talk quite (ry

It's the same as me. We are all one kind of human being. Raw people and pigs are the same. Acquaintance Zhuge Liang. If you are with people, you have nothing to say.

Between strangers, it's best if you can give people a sense of knowing each other.

A well-timed humor is not unavoidable.

Don't be too nervous, find possible common topics, talk and laugh, and humor naturally hopes that you can transform.

The first point in dealing with people is sincerity! And then there's the right topic!

It's the same as me. We're all one kind of human being, and we're all like that.

Chat more, communicate more, and understand more.

Because I'm not familiar with it, it's nothing, and so am I.

Three tricks to eliminate the sense of distance, like an old iron chat.

How can I get closer to strangers by chatting with them?

Neither humble nor arrogant dialogue and chat, do not fight or grab on many topics, talk about common topics, and listen to each other's preferences!

If it's a man, it's lively and cheerful, and if it's a girl, it's good to be generous and don't be inhibited!

Dating every day Distance produces beauty, don't be too greasy.

Ask the other person about their hobbies. And then talk. Remember to reach out to yourself or talk a little bit about your interests. I'm slowly changing the subject. Ask what you want to ask.

How to quickly bring two people closer? Listen to the experience of Ali's original 6 years of Tiejun P7 managers and learn to use it in the enterprise.

Praise must be sincere, which is a prerequisite for praise. Only praise worthy of the name and from the heart can show its brilliance and charm.

I used to be a shy child, because I knew that only by taking the initiative to be generous with others could I go down.

Think of yourself as a particle in the universe, as well as strangers, but in fact, everyone is a very small thing, and there is nothing to be afraid of.

Don't talk to strangers, lest you be deceived, hehe.

Then you have to contact yourself a lot, this is very important!

Don't be afraid, don't be nervous, just get along with others!

That's nothing, as long as you are sincere in your heart to face others, then you will also get the sincerity of others.

Treat him like a pumpkin.

Hehe, the key is that you are not confident.

It doesn't matter.

Strangers. He doesn't know you.

Maybe the stranger you're talking to is still restrained.

Hehe, a good way to tell you.

Try singing in a "semi-public room" (such as in the hallway of a dormitory), and slowly you won't be shy.

Think of it as an elder or a close friend.