Regarding the problem of early love, it s actually not what you think, everyone helps, thank you

If he is like you, he can clearly distinguish between feelings and work and study, then I don't think there is a problem, but if one of them is not like this, I think there is a problem. Feelings are not as imagined, and there are often some unexpected events that are not expected now. It's not like a computer or anything, give it a program and it can go exactly on the track, so be cautious.

I know you envy the two couples in your school, but every couple's love writing is different, and reality will always shatter illusions mercilessly. You are still young, there are still many variables in life, students like you are old, it is normal to have fantasies about love, I can understand your feelings, but you have to understand a little, life can not be rewritten, so every step must be cautious, in order not to have the opportunity to regret it in the future, now you must strive to mature yourself and correctly judge your future. And most importantly, can you be sure that he is the one you want?

Hopefully my answer can give you some help.

Ha ha.. Classmate, you're like me. I've always liked someone, since the second year of junior high school, the two of us just happened to be the first in the grade (him), and the other was in the top five (me), he knew that I liked him, so the two of us were admitted to the provincial experimental high school together, but they were not in the same class anymore...

But I still like him very much, and now that we are both in the third year of high school, we agreed that the two of us would be admitted to Beijing together. But neither of us ever confessed to each other, but we understood each other's intentions. Actually, it doesn't need to be explained, and it will also be a kind of motivation

We have 9 months to go before the college entrance examination, and we encourage each other.

I hope you can also handle the relationship with him, as long as it doesn't affect your studies, you say that both of you are rational people, so you don't have to worry about learning We are all very sensible in the 90s, right? Come on!

You're not in early love, right?。。。 Don't tell him that you love him, otherwise he will understand it like that, you say everything you think, he will definitely agree, but he doesn't love to study, if he doesn't love it, it's no fun, and don't affect your grades because of him! , I support you, come on.

The impact must be there, because after all, I am only a high school student, and I have the unique impulse of adolescence at the beginning of love, and it is impossible to treat love very rationally. If you want to talk about marriage, please give up, because as a student, you have neither economic foundation nor social experience, maybe it will be sweet for a while, but this relationship is difficult to last; If it is for a good memory, I hope you can move forward, in fact, all high school students need care, especially in the third year of high school, it will be much easier to have someone to support each other in the sprint stage before the college entrance examination, and it is not easy to have psychological problems, this kind of thing varies from person to person, it is best to try to be rational.

No, it won't. If you're afraid of delaying him, just wait a little longer. If you want to love, you have to wait, and waiting is also a kind of beauty.

Plus you all have good grades, and it's easy to find a job. I hope that you will both set a goal for each other, establish a common ideal in life, and chase your dreams. We can fight for each other for 3 years and realize our dreams.

No, we should motivate each other to go to a good university together, and we should pay attention to it, don't think about him all the time because you are in love, this is just a spice of life, just a bowl of soup and not a bowl of rice.

Look what he thinks.

It would be nice if he thought the same way you did.

Oops, it doesn't matter which school you go to in college, if you delay the school, you will delay it, anyway, it's a waste of time to get a graduation certificate. If you want a good man, you have to grasp it, and after graduating from college, all good men will be selected.

If you want to love, you have to wait, and waiting is also a kind of beauty. Plus you all have good grades. It's easy to find a job.

No, when you look back, you will only regret that you didn't do something! Be brave, little girl.

Hehe.. Love needs to be expressed. Success or not. It's going to be a good memory for you. As for delays. It's up to both of you to have self-control.

Of course not, I'm in my third year of junior high school, and I'm also in the top class, and I have a friend who has fallen in love with her, and her grades were worse than mine before, and now they're almost catching up, but now they're almost not together. If the two of you can persevere in this environment, then you will definitely be happy.

Just because you think about it doesn't mean he thinks the same way.

This tenderness depends on your own thoughts. If you think that delaying him will delay him, and the three years of high school are so crucial, why do you remember to confess?? What a talent!

Sometimes love isn't as good as you think, so it's not necessarily a good thing to go to college and talk about relationships. My friend's sister talked to a partner, they have been in the same class since junior high school and high school, and now they are both juniors and have been admitted to different universities, but the relationship and relationship are the same. It's been nine years ...... think about itBecause they have a common dream, they come together.

Can you be sure that the person you like is the one who is worth your three-year bet on? A gamble, the outcome is unpredictable!! It's not a matter of delaying him, it's a matter of delaying you.

Think twice before you act. `

Kindness... If you can sort out your feelings and real life well, but it's hard for ordinary people to do ...

The main reason why parents oppose our early love is that they are afraid of affecting their studies, and if you can show them excellent grades, then I don't think they have much to say.

Well, there is a possibility that it will ......You're only a freshman in high school

This is actually not right, I would like to ask you are looking for a boyfriend or a partner? It is more effective to set goals for yourself than others.

Yes, I didn't think it would. But after I talked, I dropped out a lot from more than 100 people. Maybe you're not. But it's better to talk about it at the university.

It would be great if we could work together! It's just that once you get injured, the result is unpredictable, so you should stay away! Think about what the future holds!

Since you believe that he is rational, then you don't have to worry about delaying him, since you love, go on.

Are you guy? Same-sex people also have problems with puppy love. I really don't understand this.

I don't think it's a problem, it's a stage that everyone will have, and what we need is how to guide and how to make puppy love more reasonable, how to make it a good thing.

My boyfriend and I were together on the eve of the junior high school entrance examination. Puppy love is still a sensitive issue now. The school where I and the boy is located is a school with a very strict academic style, and I think it is normal to fall in love early in adolescence.

Being in love, no matter what time it is, should make you a better person. Both in terms of grades and personal qualities. And I was most fortunate to meet a good homeroom teacher in my sophomore year of high school.

It has helped me a lot in my studies and life.

Speaking of early love, because my academic performance was very good at that time, the head teacher knew about me and the male ticket, and at first pointed out the harm of early love with me, but later, seeing that my grades had been rising, he didn't interfere much.

So again, as long as you are good enough and don't do anything out of line, this thing can pass. It's not terrible to fall in love, it's scary to do something that you will regret later in this good period. All in all, I think that falling in love should make you better and better, preparing for a more trustworthy future in the future, rather than dwelling on love at this time.

What's more, I think: the matter of love lies in the mind, not in the so-called age. Whether or not you can turn love into a quality part of your life has always been divided by people rather than by age.

If you can look at love correctly and distinguish what is good feeling and what love is (which means that you have a correct view of love and other basic three views), then you are a person who is suitable for love, regardless of whether you are a freshman in high school or a freshman year. If you can't fall in love well, it will only make each other tired, make each other's life difficult (study, life, work, etc.), no matter how old you are, you still don't know how to fall in love correctly, and they may be in early love all their lives.

So I don't really understand that some people shout about early love all day long and affect my child's learning, don't be naïve, you should thank the other party's child, otherwise there is no tata to take a fancy to your child, and your child can't even find a reason for poor grades.

What you have to do is not to worry about whether you are in early love, but to examine yourself and whether you can treat this relationship correctly. I don't ask you to be so-called long-lasting, but I ask you to be conscientious when you are a lover for the first time, a new social role.

The post-10s have begun to rule the junior high school, how do the parents of the post-80s and post-90s deal with the children's budding early love emotions?

Puppy love is too normal.

Parents and teachers are sensitive to the word early love, and even in some feudal thoughts, early love is a morally corrupt behavior, but they don't know that the marriage age of the previous generation of parents and teachers is also in the category of early love now.

I especially agree with Han Han's words: "Love is not early or late, just see if it is appropriate", yes, love is love, why talk about early love? Isn't love at the age of fifteen or sixteen love?

On the contrary, I think fifteen or sixteen-year-old love is the purest and most simple emotion, maybe two children inadvertently meet their eyes, and they love, even if it is a relationship, at most it is to hold a small hand, and then boldly kiss the face, compared with the current mutual comparison, house and car ticket love, the so-called "early love" does not know how many times noble.

And some parents, their children's poor grades blame early love, for those parents, I want to say, wake up, early love is just a fig leaf for your child's poor grades, don't blame your incompetence on beautiful love, think about whether you usually really care about your child's learning situation, whether you have tutored your child's homework, and whether your child's poor grades are still thinking about whether you have something to do is insufficient.

How can there be a boy who is not in love, and how can a girl not have a spring? Everyone has had a throbbing adolescence, at a loss for sudden emotions, in fact, as a parent at this time, you need to be patient to guide your child to face this emotion correctly, and should not be like a flood beast to nip this emotion in the bud, which leads to children in the future to have a sense of fear of love, to the marriage age parents began to be anxious, began to urge marriage, but it is precisely because of the parents' strong wrist that children do not dare to fall in love even if they grow up.

Puppy love is a unique word in China, and I hope that with the continuous development of society, this old idea can also be improved, and we must realize that love is one of the driving forces that make us strive to progress.

Puppy love is a special emotional experience for middle school students who are part of adolescence. Middle school students have entered the adolescent stage of life, emotions begin to germinate, and there is a hazy feeling of love, but middle school is the best era of life, is a good stage of learning, if our students can not correctly understand the relationship between the two, it will eventually lead to bitter fruit. Therefore, we should correctly guide students to study hard, and correctly treat and deal with the problem of early love among adolescent students.

Teenagers should correctly deal with their own early love problems, and they can start from the following aspects:

It is necessary to clearly understand the dangers of early love, and use reason to overcome this immature feeling. The most immediate harm of puppy love is that it seriously interferes with learning. Because you are thinking about the opposite sex you like all day and night, it will make you lose your mind to study, and you will feel that studying is not very interesting, and it will be difficult to concentrate in class.

As a result of not paying attention to lectures, academic performance will deteriorate more and more. Some people say that the gravitational force of career, the driving force of love, and the reaction force of discrimination and oppression are the three major driving forces of life.

Therefore, puppy love, when handled well, can generate "conjunctive power". Relevant statistical materials show that most of those who have been grinding their ears and temples and falling in love like glue when they were in middle school are abandoned in their studies and failed in love, and some even change from "loving deeply" to "hating deeply". On the contrary, most of the teenagers who bury their love deep in their hearts and devote themselves to learning will not only succeed in their careers, but also win the favor of Eros.

Therefore, teenagers should look beyond the horizon and use reason to overcome their feelings. The true meaning of perseverance is to overcome yourself, and if you can overcome yourself, you will get rid of early love.

At the same time, parents should also pay more attention to the fact that children in early love often have ambivalence to varying degrees, not only can not break free from the shackles of the love network, but also worry about falling behind in learning and being reprimanded by teachers and parents, so they especially want to be cared for and understood by others. Therefore, students who are in early love can not be discriminated against, and they should use love and care, understanding and respect to increase their trust in their parents, so that it is the best way to deal with children's early love, and can help guide their children out of the whirlpool of early love.