Questions about puppy love in high school students

Hello, I had almost the same experience.

First of all, I think that as a boy in his first year of high school, it is normal to like a girl, but you still have to restrain yourself, people can't rely on their own temperament, if you are not sure enough, it will not only affect your future, but also affect the girl's future! I guess that's what you don't want to see!

You can turn your grief into strength and study hard, after all, you are still young, and you can only achieve the life you want by going through hardships.

For always seeing her in the class, you can be friends with her very calmly, help each other in life and study, don't always think about whether you can be a couple with her, and wait until you go to college, if you are really fated, then you can do what you really want to do.

Finally, remember that your current priority is to get your academic performance up! Remember!

Good luck with your studies!

It's not normal for high school to dislike girls, it's purely normal to like them. You have to be clear about this first. And then just like when adolescence comes, people rebel, you are now in the period of ignorance, and you must learn to control it well.

You can treat her as a good friend, communicate more, and don't keep it.

Then like it, tell her that whether she accepts it or not, your heart will settle down and you won't be cranky in the future. Also, there is no contradiction between falling in love and studying, and early love does not mean poor learning. The method has been practiced by me and it works.

So hard always think about how good it is to study, try to confess, so that you can learn well in order to relax, if the girl refuses, she will die, concentrate on studying, and it is also a motivation to agree, many people do not have better academic performance after falling in love. To be a man, you have to be courageous, don't cower, early love is harmless, it is the person who is in love who has problems and has no self-control. It is also said that puppy love is dangerous.

High school students fall in love and have too many mood swings. So it's easy to delay studying....It's hard to restrain feelings unless you don't love her...

You can turn the power of love into the power of learning, think about her whenever you encounter difficulties in learning, and then think about how you can make her happy, only if you study well and have a good job can you afford her, so learning must not be easily thrown away!

As long as it doesn't interfere with your studies, it doesn't hurt to talk about it.