How to chase someone who is poor and has a liking?

Since you like a challenge, solve it yourself

Why bother asking the master here

You're a master yourself

If you love her, why should you care about her family? Love is love. If you're thinking about it, then do you really love her?

Amitabha, eating small and frequent meals is good for the body and mind. You have to catch up with him to strengthen your workout, and you can naturally catch him faster than he runs. Good, good......

Perseverance and meticulous care.

and sincerity.

Love is not a war! Just be sincere!

Seems a little hard? I think it's still necessary to have a sincere heart.

And if you're just taking it as a challenge? Then I despise you, with a word of swearing, get out.

When you're not sure whether you love someone or not, slow down and don't let your impulses ruin others.

My suggestion is that it shouldn't, or at least not right now. Although it is said that love is free, as long as it is true love, regardless of the external factors such as family wealth and poverty, but the real society cares about these external factors and material conditions.

In today's society, the material gap between two people is too large, even if you like this girl, but in the future relationship, the two of you due to different material bases caused by the living habits, the difference in concepts will soon be reflected, which is inevitably easy to produce contradictions and differences.

And you're in love, it's impossible for you not to spend half a penny for your girlfriend, right? But the economic situation of the family, I can't give a gift that I can get, and I feel sorry for my girlfriend if it's too cheap, even if my girlfriend tells you that it's okay, she doesn't mind, but as a man, I must feel uncomfortable, and I will feel that I have wronged my girlfriend. But in the days to come, you'll be constantly struggling with this kind of spending money for your girlfriend.

Another is that the excessively large gap in the economic foundation is easy to make oneself feel inferior. After falling in love, after you have seen the daily life of this girl with a solid family, you will feel this huge gap, and you will feel that you are not worthy of this girl, as a man, it is inevitable that you are eager to be worshiped by the woman you love, and such a relationship, not only is there no worship, but the man looks at his girlfriend with his eyes.

On top of that, you also have to face pressure and bad eyes from the other family's family (although it doesn't have to happen, but it's a chance. It's still quite big), can you bear such feelings? So in this case, I suggest not to pursue, if you like this girl very much, you might as well work hard first, the situation at home has improved, and you can pursue it when you have some financial strength.

Wouldn't that make you more confident?

<> fact, the "right door" for thousands of years is very reasonable. I'll agree with the right one. Ancient stories always criticize the sophistication of parents, in fact, if we are parents, we also hope that our children will have the right love.

Of course, the family is not the same family background in the narrow sense, it is a kind of balance and reciprocity, and even a complementarity.

Hillary confessed in "Experiencing History" that when she first met Bill Clinton, Hillary passionately believed that a person could control her own destiny, and that she would never succumb to any inexplicable mysterious power, or tolerate the arbitrary personality of others, because she had learned the heavy price her mother paid for it. Hillary Clinton was born wealthy, and at that time, countless men who were either rich or expensive pursued her, and she chose the poor boy Clinton, and finally became the first lady.

It's a good story.

If you confirm that you can give her happiness that others can't give her in the future, you need to treat her with your heart, really give her happiness, and always tell yourself that girls like you are your character, so you have to give her something other than character.

The love that is not the right door will definitely encounter many more obstacles and difficulties than the right love. Therefore, you need to have greater courage and ability to resolve so many difficulties. It's not just the difference in concept, background and thinking, but after a long time, there will naturally be more complaints.

The rich girl loves the poor boy, and the Cinderella loves the noble son, although the nature is the same, but the former will encounter greater difficulties. Rich girls are pampered and have a natural sense of superiority, while poor boys have low self-esteem because of unequal conditions.

You've been brave and you've paid, and sometimes it's enough.

People who don't follow the usual path usually have extraordinary courage and ability. Life is like playing poker, the hand dealt is set, but the way you play depends on your will.

See if you really like that girl, if you really like that girl, I feel like you can pursue that girl. Because everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, it may be that your background is not very good, which makes you have some inferiority complex in doing many things. But what you have now is not something that you have obtained by your own efforts, but what your parents gave you, no matter what kind of environment it is, all you can do is accept it.

It may be brutal, but that's the reality.

If you really like that girl, my suggestion is that you can leave your low self-esteem behind and give it a try, if you don't try, you will never know if there is a chance with the person you like, and there will be a chance if you try. In real life, there are also many rich girls who are willing to choose a person who is much different from their own family. The most rare thing now is not that the family background should be one's own level of effort or a person's potential, there are many rich second generations, but there are still very few people who really have potential.

Your low self-esteem should be that you are not very good in yourself, if you are really good enough, you will have enough confidence to pursue the person you like. Because even if you don't have the ability to give that girl happiness now, but you have potential, and your potential is the capital you give that girl happiness. The girl's parents may be against you being together, it's normal, don't give up on the girl because of something like this.

Anyway, if it were me, I would be brave enough to pursue the girl I love, and it would be difficult to meet someone I liked. Don't miss the opportunity, if you lose it, you won't have it again. Just because your family is poor now doesn't mean you'll be poor in the future.

So, go up, boy, so that you have a greater chance of standing in front of the girl you like and giving her happiness.

If the family is poor, work hard, don't feel inferior because of this, the future is based on your own struggle, you can't become a rich second generation, then work hard to become a rich generation, don't lose the confidence to pursue girls because the family is poor, you just need to be a hard-working person.

I still don't want to, because there will be some gaps in the living habits of the two of you, and it will be difficult to communicate.

It depends on your own thoughts, accept your inner thoughts and don't care about the eyes of others.