Why is there such a big gap in life? Why is there such a big difference in being a human being?

Why do you work? Mixed rice?

What is your goal as a human being? Dawdle?

Everyone starts from scratch.

People who you call busy, they're not born with everything.

It doesn't matter if you're stupid, you still have hands and heads.

Even if none of that works, at least you can learn to be enthusiastic.

Successful people are not necessarily capable.

But those who succeed are certainly tenacious.

When you are frustrated, think about people who are more bitter than you.

They're still working hard, why are you slacking?

Men and women can't make excuses when they live.

You can only find a target and find a way.

If you want to live a worthwhile life, you must find a purpose in life.

If you want to overcome the difficulties, you have to find a solution to the problem.

The losers are all losers to their own ......

The senior manager on the 3rd floor is superb when he speaks!! ...The losers are all losers to their own ......

Thank you!! I also benefited a lot!! Top!!

Learn to go crazy with a pig's head and cross the Yangtze River! ”

Struggle! It's useless to think too much, don't wait for the opportunity, look for a job that suits you (don't look for it in skipping work!). ）

1. Life is a life of investment and income. If you have money, put it in; If you don't have money, but have experience and ability, invest in experience and ability; If you have neither the money, nor the experience and the ability, but you have passion, diligence, and hard work, then put in passion, diligence, and effort. If you don't have the money, the experience and the ability, not even the passion, diligence and hard work, then don't think about it.

2. More important than making money is to find your own motivation to make money;

3. What is more important than money is time, what is more important than time is timing, and what is more important than timing is the determination, motivation and preparation that you have to seize the opportunity!

4. Don't be ambitious, opportunities are generally hidden in the corners you look down on;

5. Be willing to invest;

6. Decide and act quickly;

7. Always be as resourceful as possible, always ready to seize opportunities, be quick!

8. Treat people with sincerity and kindness to people. Sometimes, opportunities are given by others;

9, give others more than others expect (this is my copy of Li Ka-shing, I like it very much);

10. There is a general rule for making money: do more, do it quickly, use your brain to do it in a different way, that is, don't follow others to do it.

11. Reasonable planning of the days after you have money will make you go further;

12. Faith, principle, and love.

This one.. In fact, there is a gap between people.

Otherwise, how can there be the motivation to struggle?

Or maybe you're talking about the character gap, what you think is someone else to you and you to someone else or someone else to someone else.

Of course, this is the intimacy of things.

Things work themselves out. Don't be depressed. What's wrong with no literature, what's wrong with no money at home, you can still be a master, as long as you work hard and are not afraid of hardship, you will definitely make a difference.

How many people have you seen who are beautiful and have good figures, have money in their families, and have literary qualities? This kind of person is the protagonist of the movie, and there are few like this in reality. So buddy, God is fair.

Because everyone's values are different!

In this society, there are egoists, and there are altruists.

Egoists tend to put their own interests first when thinking about things, and even don't think about the gains and losses of others at all. Therefore, when this kind of person looks at others, he often has a double standard: for himself, he follows egoism.

But when it comes to asking for others, it's altruism. In the same way, such people will also see everyone around them as egoists. If such a person encounters an altruist, he will think that he has met a fool!

Altruists, on the other hand, tend to think first about the interests of those around them or their partners. Altruists also want others to be altruists, and when considering relationships, they tend to think of others as altruists. But such people are often harshly educated by reality.

Family education and the surrounding environment will make a big difference in all people's lives. But your own understanding is also crucial. No matter how bad the environment is, you can cultivate gemstones.

As long as you have a qualitative nature. My father was an alcoholic, my mother was a gambler, and I could still go to college and be cheerful. In fact, failure is just an excuse.

It's up to you what you think.

The difference in the environment, the difference in character.

Family education, family background, contact circles, family status.

Because everyone's background is different.

Hehe! What do you mean?

With the development of the times and society, and with the continuous improvement of cognition, we find that the gap between people is getting bigger and bigger. What is it that causes such a big gap between people?

The first point: the difference in goals.

How far and how high you can go depends on how long-term and ambitious your goals are.

Reading biographical books and observing those who have already achieved something shows that they often set their goals very early on, and the time line to achieve them is often very long. And to set a more long-term goal, such as a ten-year or even twenty-year goal, is to have enough time to complete a more ambitious goal, and secondly, because the longer the goal, the fewer competitors will be able to stick to it, so the sooner it is established, the sooner it is on the road to adhere to the realization of the grand goal, the easier it is to achieve greater goals. It's a bit like a classic quote from Warren Buffett:

Life is like a snowball, the key is to find a long enough slope and enough wet snow. Do the right thing and maximize long-term value.

The second point: the difference between active and passive.

Each person is unique, and each person's energy magnetic field is different, and the final personal charm is also different. So what's really causing the gap? What is the essence of this?

I don't know if you've ever felt that way. The world we are experiencing now, as if everything is set, we are like a tool man, everything does not need to think in the brain, we passively receive all kinds of information that has been processed. In order to survive, we went to work every day and became a screw in the company.

In order to achieve so-called success, we overdraft ourselves every day and passively follow all arrangements.

And we found that there are still a few people who have really got the key to control their own destiny and will always keep the initiative to themselves. They take the initiative, think on their own, and do not let the noise of the outside world disturb their hearts, but constantly pursue the search for essence and truth. Truly live for yourself and for all sentient beings.

It is precisely because of their continuous enhancement and diffusion of their energy field that they have attracted more people and resources, and as a result, it can be found that their life is so steady, long-term, and full of value and significance.

People are born the same, but people born in different environments, people with different levels of education will be different, this is where the society is unfair now, when they were farmers a few decades ago, the poorer the more honorable, there was no concept of the second generation of officials and the second generation of riches, and then engaged in reform and opening up, let some people get rich first, and invest in the coastal areas with the strength of the whole country, they are now rich, they have begun to emigrate, and they have expanded overseas, this time Libya lost more than 100 billion, and Chinese taxpayers paid the bill. When can mainlanders be fed back to get rich, and even more in the mainland, last year, children don't have to wear shoes in class, and what kind of nutritious lunch plan has to be deducted by the principal.

The so-called efforts, those in the mountainous areas they don't work hard? There are no days and nights, and there are no meals, those who speculate in real estate, what are they going to do? Just resell millions and tens of millions of dollars to make money? What have they contributed to society?

Decades ago united the peasants, now it's good ... Well, stop.

The quality of people, related to education, but also related to the pressure of life, you don't have to worry about food and clothing every day, of course, you can talk about quality, civilization, five stresses and four beauty, you can also drive a BMW car to hit people to play, what about those migrant workers, get up early and be greedy for darkness, and be owed wages, the black intermediary wants me 300 yuan to live, I dare to play with you.

After eating enough, some people do things that talk about face and pomp, some people don't do personnel, I think it's normal for people who don't have food to do, this society is like this, there is no good example from above, forced, this kind of thing can't be finished, do your best, don't do things that harm others, I don't worry about others, I don't have the ability to do that idleness, donate money to let them go to Guo Meimei, don't spread it on my head.

It's because of the environment.

Because that's what people are! Divided into three, six, nine and so on.

Different growth environments and different experiences will of course produce different results.

Therefore, since the pre-perception conditions are already different, it is very difficult to make an absolutely objective comparison.

It must be compared, or the reference is the main one.